I am a single male who wants to date women who have a shared interest. I have discovered during the last few years that I enjoy and am pretty passionate about the adult swinging scene.
So, in my effort top be honest with women I date, when is it appropriate to tell a potential mate of my desire to share this interest with my mate?
2007-08-05 08:18:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanks all. I've decided based on a combination of your answers to not discuss this until we've had time to get to know each other a bit. BUT to do so before we have sex.
2007-08-05 12:50:38 · update #1
Tell her BEFORE you play hide the weenie.
She may not want one in her thats already been in half the country.
2007-08-05 08:24:48 · answer #1 · answered by No Body 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I definitely recommend letting them know on the first date. You really shouldn't keep that type of information from a potential g/f for long.
2007-08-05 08:23:38 · answer #2 · answered by SoulDawg 4 UGA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well id have to say basically from day one!
would be awful to go into a relationship, for her to think she'd be the only one you'd be satisfied with then all of a sudden you break the news to her a couple of days/weeks/months/years down the line ... nooooo not on!
2007-08-05 08:23:29 · answer #3 · answered by Rєвє¢¢α 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would just suggested finding someone who is also into that.. that way there wouldnt be any jealousy issues or anyting else like that.
...if you dont know what swinging is, why are you even answering the question? just go back and play with your dolls.
2007-08-05 08:21:33 · answer #4 · answered by ksisk44 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be honest from the start and if she's not into it then you know not to date her.
2007-08-05 08:23:45 · answer #5 · answered by tiffyb9784 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell potential girlfriends. Wait till you get a little more serious. Telling them too soon might scare them away unless they're into it.
2007-08-05 08:23:52 · answer #6 · answered by cgwilson79 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Immediately - I for one would not want owt to do with ya and it would be a waste of both our time.
2007-08-05 08:22:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as soon as possible..anything later would seem like you are being dishonest
2007-08-05 08:40:23 · answer #8 · answered by eric r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does swinging mean?
2007-08-05 08:21:10 · answer #9 · answered by Miss Revenge 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋