Family & Relationships - 5 August 2007

who lives in a different city, what's bugging me is that she isn't telling me anything about it and everytime the married guy calls she says it's her BF and i know it's not cos i saw the the guys name flashing on the LCD and this is bothering me!!! y won't she tell me and what should i do??? should i ask her??? how should i do it???

2007-08-05 07:58:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex is 34 yrs old, into the devil worshipping crowd, sent me satanic messages when I broke up with him, is about as tall as he is round. Walks like a penguin, has a 2 " penis (probably due to weight), lazy, lies, horrible in bed, not attractive at all. My friends said the only reason, they ever believed I was with him, is because I felt sorry for him. I am one of those bleeding heart type of people. I did befriend him at first because I felt like he needed a friend, he was very geeky. I didn't expect to fall for him. I did not know about the devil worshipping thing until the end. I am now in another relationship, but when I broke up with him, I felt bad, but it actually felt like a burden was lifted off me. Is it wrong to still feel sorry for him? He is a cook and recently took off for one of those acid rock concerts (3 days) over starting a new job? Is it wrong to still feel sorry for him? Do you believe he will always be a loser?

2007-08-05 07:57:09 · 16 answers · asked by kitty cat 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-05 07:55:02 · 4 answers · asked by A V 1 in Family

everyone else in our family is loud & outgoing.?

Why isn't her personality similar to our parents or me?

2007-08-05 07:54:39 · 13 answers · asked by Still*Perfect 4 in Family

My boyfriend and I want to get married, but last night he said he said the he eventually wants to have multiple wives. I'm not really against the idea of polygamy, I just never thought it would happen to me. And it's not like he's a bad guy. If he just wanted more ***, he'd be out those swinger clubs. But he doesn't and he always respects me.

I guess I can sort of see the benifets of a polygamous relationship for men and women, but I'm just kind of surprised right now. How would you feel in this situation?

2007-08-05 07:53:30 · 30 answers · asked by Texas Toast 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How "big" is to big for men? We're talking the whole body . . . over all ? How fat is to fat in other words? As women we worry about being "to big" non stop and we want to know some honest hard core no holding back answers . . . . soooo lets see what you got boys? ? ? ?

2007-08-05 07:53:26 · 6 answers · asked by Heather 1 in Singles & Dating

We didn't even think of it but it comes free and my fiance is coming up with nothing.
He ask me what I wanted and I don't know either!
Any ideas??
I just wanted my intials in it and he think that's too impersonal.

2007-08-05 07:51:52 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

im going 2 a new school and only a couple of my friends r going there. i dont want 2 be friendless!

2007-08-05 07:51:44 · 8 answers · asked by aquariusgrl93 4 in Friends

i seriously have no social life,im 14 and my parents are so overprotective that they dont let me out of their sight for a second,my friends have parties and they invite me all the time but i turn them down knowing that my parents wont ever let me go.i cant even see my boyfriend anymore because of them.please i need advice.

2007-08-05 07:50:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am very sad and i have nobody to turn to. All i want to do is be someone who iv'e always wanted to be: happy and successful. But it seems that the life ive always dreamed of is impossible. Theres so many other people who i admire and dreamed of their lives as mine.

I just don't fit into society. Maybe i come across unfriendly, i dont know. Or maybe i just dont click with many people for some odd reason. I just find this unfair because everyone seems to fit in fine and even if they dont seem so comfortable, they doing much better than me. I get toungue tied especially with guys and this stops me from doing a lot of things and theres nobody to talk to about this. I never fitted in with sosiety and even my own family.

Ive been through a lot of traumatic situations and im trying my best to get out of it but i reach a dead end. The people who have been through similar situations have so many friends and they cope, but me on the other hand confronts this situations and end up failin

2007-08-05 07:49:22 · 7 answers · asked by Blair Waldorf 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-05 07:48:29 · 1 answers · asked by sexyboy 1 in Singles & Dating

I got him the planet earth book (becasue that series was so awesome), and a $200 gift card for golfsmith to get a driver(he's getting into Golf now). I like the gift, but I want it to be personal too. What do you think?

2007-08-05 07:47:40 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I got a tattoo a couple of months on my back shoulder...its just a tribal with a rose in the middle. My husband hates it and never wanted me to get it in the first place. Now I feel really bad about getting it and considering removing it because I made the decision without putting his feeling in consideration. I know removal leaves scars and I am willing to live with them. I am 31 and waited a long to get this tattoo, its something I have always wanted. What should I do? And was I was wrong for not considering how he felt about it?

2007-08-05 07:47:21 · 36 answers · asked by Kristi 2 in Marriage & Divorce

He left his wife of 8 years for this girl when she was 18 and he was 34. Now we dont speak, he is moving out of state, far away from his daughter and this young gf of his is preganant. I want to do seomthingb/c my poor 7 year old niece is a mess? What should I do. By the way if you want to see how dumb and immature this gf of his is check out her myspace. Just search for people- cristina crego! Any Advice?

2007-08-05 07:46:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

does anyone think about the court rulings for divorce? if women are equal, why does the court still see them as inferior?? i.e.---alimony, custody, etc?

2007-08-05 07:36:50 · 7 answers · asked by Jeff B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

the brother is 15 and the sister is 12.

2007-08-05 07:34:34 · 25 answers · asked by Kat. 2 in Family

Met this guy online while he was in Iraq. Talked to him wrote letters for almost 7 months & things were good. He came home & things started off kind of rocky, but we got past it. Then things got rocky a couple of months later, but we got past that as well. After a year rolled around between him being in Iraq & then home, I felt like he should have been able to tell me were things were going, but he could not. I met someone else who wanted to be more serious with me & I told him I would go with the other guy because he could not tell me & I am still with the other guy. I bought the military guy a few gifts while he was in Iraq & when he came home he gave me a digital camera. Me choosing the other guy happened the last week of January & I had not heard from the military since (7 months). He said he was out of the service in June and moving out of the state. So why did I get a text today saying send me back my camera? Is this to get a response out of me or does he really want the camera?

2007-08-05 07:34:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

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2007-08-05 07:32:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-08-05 07:28:29 · 25 answers · asked by PAULETTE C 1 in Weddings

2007-08-05 07:27:39 · 6 answers · asked by Still*Perfect 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-05 07:23:07 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

well um im 17 i was born in australia my mum past away like 4 years ago and i moved to cairo since my mum past away i have an older brother but his in australia ive been really confused and deprest i dont know what to do my brother is going to die because he is using herion and has fits and stuff and i really want to help him but i dont know what to do my dad has heart problems and i know he wont be around for long so i dont want to leave him but if i dont leave my dad i will be leaving my brother i feel so deprest i feel like i should just kill myself i have lots of stuff to think about i just think most of the time its hard for me i really need some answers but i never get them my mum past away and i didnt see her or go to the funeral cause i was in egypt and she was in syria visiting family my brothers was with her plz if anyone has an answer for me can u plz help me
thank you

2007-08-05 07:22:05 · 6 answers · asked by ywb 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and I want to get married, but last night he said he said the he eventually wants to have multiple wives. I'm not really against the idea of polygamy, I just never thought it would happen to me. And it's not like he's a bad guy. If he just wanted more ***, he'd be out those swinger clubs.

I guess I can sort of see the benifets of a polygamous relationship for men and women, but I'm just kind of surprised right now. How would you feel in this situation?

2007-08-05 07:17:47 · 26 answers · asked by Texas Toast 1 in Singles & Dating

Can you love the sex & not love the woman?

The female is cute, attentive & nice- not much to complain about but nothing spectacular. The sex is spectacular, whatever, however whenever.
Honestly would you marry her?

2007-08-05 07:13:17 · 20 answers · asked by Still*Perfect 4 in Singles & Dating

I am asking the question "Do you think that some people are just not meant to never be in a relationship (romantic or otherwise)?" Since I have never been in a "real" relationship and although it makes me sad sometimes I know that I was never meant to be in one. I grew up in a "family" where everyone hated me and it has pretty much not changed since. To me, being in a relationship would mean ruining somebody else's life like I guess I feel about my own life. I just wish my friends would accept the fact that some people should stay alone all their lives since it would be better for everyone that way.

2007-08-05 07:06:51 · 5 answers · asked by geezloume 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-05 07:06:29 · 15 answers · asked by ames 3 in Singles & Dating

I have a 15 year old daughter I feel hates me. I was never married to her abusive father, however her father was in prison for 7 years for assult not just on myself but other women he lived with. I since have met and married a man who was in the Navy. I had to leave for Spain for 2 years and left my daughters here with their dad only because he had just gotton out of prison and wanted to catch up with them. Both daughters agreed they wanted to be with their dad til I got back. I would fly back and fourth every 3 months to be with them. Ok here is what I don't understand, why is it that my 15 year old favors her dad despite the fact that he was in prison for 7 years and while they lived with him he beat her with the belt so hard that she was bruised for weeks? Now I have asked my daughter that I didn't want her seeing a boy that is a bad influence on her and she gets upset and decides to live with her dad. What do I do? Where did I go wrong?

2007-08-05 07:06:21 · 14 answers · asked by Ang D 1 in Family

2007-08-05 07:01:21 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

does anyone have any answers for the reason that when someone treats us nice we don't want to know and when they treat us badly it makes us want them more

2007-08-05 06:59:07 · 27 answers · asked by Claire C 1 in Singles & Dating

Im taking perscription pills for my UTI, would it be okay (safe) to take midol for period cramps also?????

2007-08-05 06:57:38 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating