who lives in a different city, what's bugging me is that she isn't telling me anything about it and everytime the married guy calls she says it's her BF and i know it's not cos i saw the the guys name flashing on the LCD and this is bothering me!!! y won't she tell me and what should i do??? should i ask her??? how should i do it???
2007-08-05 07:58:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OH but i do care about his wife and i care about my friend's BF too and i feel sorry for both of them and the married guy has a 2 year old son!!
2007-08-05 08:26:41 · update #1
stay out of it ,it is none of your business . If she gets into trouble then she has only herself to blame. good luck .
2007-08-05 08:03:10 · answer #1 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hell yeah you should say something. She obviously thinks you're not all that bright and taking you for a fool when she's telling you it's her boyfriend on the phone. I'd be pissed if my friend did that to me. Call her on it! Next time the other guy calls and she tries telling you it's her BF, let her know YOU know she's full of it. It's obvious that the reason she isn't telling you it's the married guy is because some part of her knows it's wrong, and at least she's smart enough to know that much. Dating married men isn't cool, and cheating isn't cool. Talk to your friend, she has no class.
2007-08-05 15:04:53 · answer #2 · answered by glittereyedg 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to her about it, because she might be branded the office... well, you know... if this continues. She is being immature. Just tell her you're worried about her in a quiet, private setting. Preferably not in a cubicle. The fact that she's lying to you when you see the married guy's name on the LCD is a warning sign that she know's what she's doing is wrong. If she won't listen to you, you need to let it go for a while. She will get what's coming to her, and as her friend it can hurt you because you might blame yourself for not talking to her more, but remember if such a thing happens it's not your fault.
2007-08-05 15:04:29 · answer #3 · answered by newsiesno1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be more upset with your friend for dating a married man than being upset that she hasn't told you about it. That just says that none of you care about the wives feelings. Just know that this will come back one your friend and her lover. I really hope there are no children involved.
2007-08-05 15:11:22 · answer #4 · answered by cris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need better friends.
Everyone makes their own choices in life, people who cheat when they are married usually get caught.
Your friend is choosing to act in a sleazy manner, and she will end up regretting it in the future.
Of course she is not telling you about it, she knows that she is wrong and she is embarrassed; as well she should be.
2007-08-05 17:07:53 · answer #5 · answered by Sue F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is not telling you details because...1) it's her life and she may not want to share....2) it's not your business what she is doing.
She is dating a married man and may not feel confortable with herself and feel awkward talking to you about it. Give her space and she might be more inclined to talk with you.
2007-08-05 15:06:33 · answer #6 · answered by mom tree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is ur best friend then ask her, try being nive and suppportive, make her feel that she is doing the right then maybe she will open up to u.
2007-08-05 15:03:53 · answer #7 · answered by gift d 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just stay out of it and let her suffer the consequences once her boyfriend or husband finds out. =D
Toodles!!
2007-08-05 15:03:22 · answer #8 · answered by Hi, I must be Jasmine! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't get involved, her negative actions will eventually come back to haunt her.
2007-08-05 15:02:53 · answer #9 · answered by cireengineering 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell ur friend that ur not going to be friends with her anymore because friends tell friends things and she shouldn't even be doing that in the first place
2007-08-05 15:04:25 · answer #10 · answered by dancerchick10 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋