I am asking the question "Do you think that some people are just not meant to never be in a relationship (romantic or otherwise)?" Since I have never been in a "real" relationship and although it makes me sad sometimes I know that I was never meant to be in one. I grew up in a "family" where everyone hated me and it has pretty much not changed since. To me, being in a relationship would mean ruining somebody else's life like I guess I feel about my own life. I just wish my friends would accept the fact that some people should stay alone all their lives since it would be better for everyone that way.
2007-08-05 07:06:51 · 5 answers · asked by geezloume 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
its obvious that ur frustrated
but u have to accept the fact that 4 every half there is another trust me
its just that u havent find him\her yet
wait a while n ull know wat am talking abt
best of luck n remember there is nothing impossible
ba dude..
2007-08-05 07:17:47 · answer #1 · answered by A's 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think some people are not mean to be in a relationship, but I do think that some people are just not mean to be together. If, as you say, grew up in a complicated family environment being in emotional/romantic relationships will be hard, it happened to me.
Learn to love yourself, get to know yourself and do it on your own. When you are happy and comfortable in your own skin is when you are ready to love others. For instance, you would be able to handle arguments better, and deal with heartache in a healthy way. Relationships are hard work, but there is no reason why you shouldn't be able to have one.
If you like spending time alone, set boundaries with your partner, we all need time by ourselves, and stay away from needy/demanding relationships. Some people take longer than others to be happy enough with someone to start a relationship, so don't worry!
Good luck
2007-08-05 16:55:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that your problem is clearly lack of self-esteem. No wonder with how you were treated. Remember that just because people say things about you, does NOT make it so. Start to think more positively about who you are as a person. Start to see the good things you like about yourself...and as you begin to like who you see in the mirror, you will very likely feel as though you have something to offer.
Part of healing from a hurtful past, is to forgive the people who hurt you. There is obviously something very wrong with people who would treat a family member badly. They need help. Families should be about loving one another, no matter what. All the best to you...
2007-08-08 23:15:41 · answer #3 · answered by Deb 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well some people can be by themselves but by choice and i think in your case that is how you feel cause of the way your home life was. but you know there are partners for all. you just have to be opened adn ready for it. there is omsone for you and if you look you will find the person and be happy. its not that all aren't so quiet or whatever and that depends on you. you i am sure are nice and good and that is what most are looking for you are just have been put down by famly i guess and that will leave also that feeling just look around abit.
2007-08-08 22:16:41 · answer #4 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are some people who aren't meant to be in a relationship. I'm one of those people. I'm not happy about it, but God is in charge and His answer to me was "No." So as far as I can tell on this side of the grave, I will be single always. And there's no marriage in heaven, so there's no hope to enjoy that there.
2007-08-05 15:14:48 · answer #5 · answered by iridealone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋