Family & Relationships - 5 August 2007

My brother got paroled from jail, he is 24 im 21. I tried to help him out with a place to stay. I hoped he would get a job and help out, start his life. but instead he goofed off and i was stuck paying $850 a month for rent. now I have no money, and I want to go to school, start my life. Its a year later. And he hasnt done a thing. Our lease is up and im living with my boyfriend and his wonderful family, but my brother has no where to go. I love him but I cant help anymore. I feel let down also because he didnt try. SO my question is what can he do about housing? he doesnt work so ther is no income. He needs help. I cant do it anymore.

2007-08-05 11:24:36 · 9 answers · asked by Nadine P 2 in Family

ok this is really weird and not like me at all. I've seen this girl at a few of my friends parties. She's so beautiful but i just can't bring myself to go up and talk to her. I can't stop thinking about her and haven't even met her yet. I'm so infatuated! Is there something wrong with me? Any advice how I can meet her or what I could say to her?

2007-08-05 11:24:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mother passed last month, and my sister is the excutor, she said that she didn't have to read the will , she is mad at my brother for not sighning some papers, need help thanks

2007-08-05 11:17:24 · 2 answers · asked by JT B ford man 6 in Family

im 16 years old and my grandma is going out of town. I live with her. Last time she let my mom stay here with me but she didn't like some of the stuff my mom did. So this time i have to stay with my aunt. my aunt has two sons. 6 and a 9 month year old. the six year old really gets on my nerves!!! Like i get to the point that I cant stand it. He's very smart mouth and annoying. I wont have my computer, i have to travel everyday across the bridge to cheerleading practice and church. I wont be able to hang with my friends, my phone has no signal across the bridge and i wont be able to go shopping like talkin about it. I really dont wanna leave the comfort of my home. What should i do to fix these problems and make it easier on me.

2007-08-05 11:17:12 · 2 answers · asked by Chey babez 1 in Family

My BF and I have been together for 6 years. I DO NOT want to cheat on him. But I am curious about experience other things sexually. I'd like to experience 3 somes, swinging, & group sex.
He is the only man that I've ever been with, Im 26 years old and I want to experience these things while Im still young. I dont want to cheat on him. I love him very much, and I do want to be with him. He has clearly expressed that he doesnt want to experience these things. So what do I do?? It is selfish for me to break off our relationship to test the waters. Yet it is selfish on his part if he says i have to choose. I want to experience these things yet I dont want to lose him. I need help this is a hard one.

2007-08-05 11:17:01 · 22 answers · asked by BabyMomma 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-05 11:15:57 · 34 answers · asked by DGGrim 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Just a few questions...

I'll be attending a bridal shower the weekend after next, however tomorrow is the only chance I've got to shop. I often try to be unique with my gifts, though after doing a little search on Bridal shower gifts, I'm getting the impression that's not necessarily the way to go.
For her bridal shower, I planned to give her a customized piece: A picture of her and hubby set in crystal ... along with a $50 or $60 gift certificate to either the Body Shop or a lingerie place. What do you think?

For the wedding, I was thinking of just giving her a $50 - $100 gift certificate to the store where most of her registry items are from.

Gift certificates for these types of things don't come off impersonnal, do they? I mean...what if more than one person gets the same item off the registry, then what? For the wedding gift, would it be better to just put cash instead of the Gift certificate?

Sorry about all the questions.... :)... thanks!

2007-08-05 11:11:40 · 13 answers · asked by ebonii_cuteee 5 in Weddings

It's the thought
Of that gentle grip
And sweet smile
That tears me in two
I still hear your giggles
Your childish laugh
And then your cries
When I was out of your view
For just a moment
I remember putting my arms
Around you
And scooping you up
Wiping your little brow
Telling you
Everything is all right
Well don't you feel alone
Never alone again
Your journey on this plane
Was not meant to be
But take my love
To guide you on
Just look back on your voyage
And I'll be there
Catch and keep my smile
Like I keep yours
The dark shadows have gone
The shining, the twinkling
Of the light
Is there for you
To follow
And I will help
To guide you
Your journey is not endless
My love is...

I only wish
You could have stayed
Long enough to understand
How to say
Goodbye mummy and daddy

2007-08-05 11:07:42 · 13 answers · asked by Dave H 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Last night I stayed up on YouTube till 3am. I work third shift and usually am up late. I'm on vacation this week so I have nothing better to do until we leave to go rafting. Anyways. She got mad at me for staying up late. Saying that her last gf cheated on her and did the same thing by staying up late. Whatever. I'm angry that she is mad about this. We've been together 2 yrs. Tomorrow is our two year anniversary. I feel that I should be able to do what I want without her questioning me, just cuz someone else did something to her. Should I apologize for something I didnt do wrong, or should she get over it!?

2007-08-05 11:04:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Firstly, I love my husband dearly. He's a wonderful man in every way. Except in bed. He's on the small side and I just don't feel fulfilled afterwards. I feel miserable. I've even thought of buying a vibrator. I feel just awful!! Any reasonable suggestion would be greatly appreciated!

2007-08-05 11:04:22 · 19 answers · asked by ankhshepsut 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i was living in minnesota when my ex husband got custody and when i turned 18 i moved down to louisiana where hes at and we got married now were getting a divorce my family wants me to come back to minnesota. if i get my own place and a job can i get custody back where he was taken away? if u need more details just ask

2007-08-05 11:01:54 · 4 answers · asked by darklotusobo 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband feels sorry for himself all the time lately. Its either his job he finds fault with, or he thinks that everything costs too much, and he is so paranoid that hes loosing his hair, and cant remember anything, cant hear as well, and he just cant accept that these things happen when you get older, but we all have to just hang in there and do the best we can with what we do have. He can be very happy one moment, and the next get very upset about the slightest little thing! Is this normal?

2007-08-05 11:00:28 · 12 answers · asked by autumn wolf 4 in Marriage & Divorce

We were married for a total of 3 yrs.

The guy was terrible with money, I had to do everything - cook, clean, groceries - while he just sat on his butt, smoked pot & drank. He had terrible credit. When we were dating, it was fun, sex was great, he was charming. Then, we get married & I realized it was permanent.

I asked for a divorce 2 wks after the wedding but we stayed together for 3 yrs because we had some sort of sick connection..

Part of me is so mad that I married that loser I can hardly forgive myself. And part of me wants him back b/c all there are is losers out there. For all our issues, he really did make me happy at times.

We got divorced after 3 yrs & he married someone else w/in 6 months.

How can I get over being so used as well as being so stupid as to stay in a relationship that was so abusive to my soul?

2007-08-05 10:57:46 · 9 answers · asked by asldfkjdfj 5 in Marriage & Divorce

On one side he feels like he shouldnt leave us cause hes our dad but on the other side we could really really benefit from his new salary so to speak, I start college in 3 weeks, my sisters 21 and still lives with my mom and my lil bro is 12.

He asked me and my sister what we thought

I tried to say he should make his own decision but then i said we could really get out of this rut with all that money.

He's telling me his decision tommarow.

What do you think should/can happen?

2007-08-05 10:57:02 · 9 answers · asked by Yume Kid 3 in Family

I think is cheating in fisrt rank for the cause of divorce in this world , what do u think?

2007-08-05 10:50:14 · 27 answers · asked by tatinurwidjaya 2 in Marriage & Divorce

cuz i want 2 add him

2007-08-05 10:48:22 · 8 answers · asked by oseremi a 1 in Singles & Dating

I would say southern Italians. What about you?

2007-08-05 10:46:30 · 7 answers · asked by ya 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

never been kissed

2007-08-05 10:46:26 · 16 answers · asked by danny 2 in Singles & Dating

what make boys jealous. thanks

2007-08-05 10:39:10 · 14 answers · asked by sweatheart 2 in Friends

I've noticed this for quite a long time that the average American male is attracted to a girl that is of legal age that looks like she is in elemetary to high school. Look at the so called beautiful women American men love so much, Eva Longoria looks like a little girl, she has no curves, not much breasts, and it pretty much looks like she is still going through puberty, the same thing goes for Jessica Alba. What happened to the days that American men liked women that actually looked like women such as Marylin Monroe and not some little kid? There is a girl at my school she is 18 but looks like she is 8 years old. She is 4'10 really small and childish, no curves, no breasts, and pretty much looks like a little boy with a girls face, hair, and voice. All the guys love her and they tend to be the guys that look like they work out several times a day and are really tall from 5'8 to 6'3. People carry her like a baby, treat her like a baby, she can even fit in a toy car for kids.

2007-08-05 10:35:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

im married and it is my dream to go or work abroad,until i met this certain guy in a net,we are chatmates,he wants to get me here and we will live together in his place in uk,,,i want to grab the chance of going to other place,will i accept his offer,so i can go abroad or not...............what do you think.......

2007-08-05 10:33:56 · 15 answers · asked by reya m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i know this is a bit strange, but i've always thought it would be kinda stellar to meet my true love on yahoo! answers or something...but...i always look really ugly in photos...it really hurts my feelings because i'll post my pics on yahoo! answers and ask what i can do to look better(i feel that photos help more than words) but since i don't even look like myself, i always get insulted, laughed at, and/or the tips people give me prob. wouldn't even look good on me!!!
i look old and serious and masculine in photos, but i KNOW i look young, carefree, and feminine in real life--i see it in the mirror and i get asked out and people tell me i'm adorable and cute all the time!(in real life)
should i just forget my dream...
am i just not cut our for internet love?!
and...any suggestions on how i can look better in photos would really help!!!
thanks^^
take care,
Celene DX

2007-08-05 10:33:36 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I recently descovered that my husband is cheating on me through phone records and other weird behavior on his part. After confronting him he denied it and told me that all he wants to do in his life is go out and drink with his "friend" and sit on his rear and watch t.v. I have chosen to leave him but I have not told him yet for fear of what he might do because of his very shot temper. Plus I have also caught him lying to me almost daily. Just wanting to be reasured that I am making the right decision in leaving and getting a divorce, because even after all of this I do still love him even if he does not show any love back.

2007-08-05 10:33:29 · 17 answers · asked by sonjarettig 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im 13 14 in sep and since iwas 12 ive hated my mom every lil thing she does bothers me BAD to day we had a horrible fight since i dont know went i slammed my door clled her a ***** and she called me a immature ***** whos spoiled which inst that true then she tell me i have no friends but i do then she tell my dad it was my fault but she started it tell me is this normal and do u and your mom fight like this

2007-08-05 10:30:04 · 23 answers · asked by shelby92793smile 2 in Family

Delema has a restraining order against me. I do not have one against her and she is now living in my house again since July.
The same things are happening again that cause the restraining order and do not know what to do. I want her to leave but thinking this will make her mad and call police. I am in a pickle. She knows something I guess I do not. She came in sofften my heart and I let in. She is up to no good again. I have asked her do you feel I threaten your life and she says kinda. Such Bolonga!!!!!!!!!!!!! I want the Restrain order lifted and I can't I need imput A.S.A.P.

2007-08-05 10:28:10 · 10 answers · asked by designnews440 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My hubby had two spinal surgeries this past year, and I had to stay home with him. The doctor finially told him he could go out on the boat as long as he had someone to help him in and out and all he did was sit and fish. He can also go to the race track as long as he does not climb bleachers. Anyway, I told him to go fishing and he said " not without you, it would not be fair , you have done nothing this summer" Last night he could have gone to the races , but again, even though I don't like races, he said " it's not fair to you" I am going nuts. He has been around me 24/7 for a year. I usually go to visit my gay friend twice a year, I suggested it and he said " what , I can't go?' How do I tell him nicely I need some space?

2007-08-05 10:28:03 · 3 answers · asked by vivib 6 in Marriage & Divorce

my bf and his ex broke up, like, 3-4 years ago... now, he claims they've both moved on, and that they don't do well together in a relationship.... but they're still friends... now, HE claims that she's moved on, and it looks like it.. but still, i wonder, should i be worried?

and it's not him i don't trust. it's her

2007-08-05 10:24:18 · 12 answers · asked by miuscuita06 2 in Singles & Dating

My friends threw me a moving away party. One of my friends got me this sweater. It's really ugly (not really my taste). The thing is she got it at Walmart but didn't give me the receipt and they won't let me return. That friend always saves receipts. How can I ask her polietly for it?

2007-08-05 10:23:00 · 4 answers · asked by Jasmine 4 in Friends

my cousin is staying with friends at the moment and he would like know if he i a priority case with the local council as he as got problems with wallking and moving he`s arm

2007-08-05 10:22:22 · 7 answers · asked by will f 2 in Marriage & Divorce

first day of school is coming up!
but how can i make a good impression on the first day of school?

2007-08-05 10:21:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships