im married and it is my dream to go or work abroad,until i met this certain guy in a net,we are chatmates,he wants to get me here and we will live together in his place in uk,,,i want to grab the chance of going to other place,will i accept his offer,so i can go abroad or not...............what do you think.......
2007-08-05 10:33:56 · 15 answers · asked by reya m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yeah, I'm sure he wants to "get" you there. Be careful. Sounds like he's got more on his mind. Go for it, but, know what it is that you want before you go.
2007-08-05 10:38:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, you're married. Why are you talking to someone else about this other than your husband? Second, all the guy wants is to break your marriage up. He will say all the right things, but in the end, you're married. I don't know how much more to say...you're married...talk with your husband about that you want to work abroad.
Now, if you really love your husband...tell him that you've been talking to another guy online and that he's asked for you to move in with him in the UK. Feel unconfortable? Yeah, you should stop talking with that other guy, unless you want to get a divorce first.
2007-08-05 10:43:55 · answer #2 · answered by goldenfir 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really think that this is a good idea? Not the point about what you are doing to your husband, but going to let a man you only talked to online, pay for you to come meet him. YOU HAVE NO IDEA WHO THIS MAN IS OTHER THAN WHAT HE'S TOLD YOU!!! And seems to me he's telling you what you want to here and catering to your every needs. Now ask yourself, what do you have to do in return. There's a reason people say " If it's too good to be true, it usually is" and "nothing in this world is free". It's your life and your decision but you're taking an awful risk just to work abroad. How about working here and saving your money for the trip? Then you will not be indebted to anyone but yourself. If he wants any money for any reason, RED FLAG!! You're fixing to be conned!!!
2007-08-05 10:58:55 · answer #3 · answered by Needtoknow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Reya m,
No, not a good idea. Great goal to go abroad, yet there are countless other ways to do it. Don't go live with some guy-you have no idea what could happen to you.
There are jobs like teaching English in so many different countries. Then, you'll have a job, money and independance. Then, maybe a chance to save your marriage.
Blessings,
Denise
2007-08-05 10:42:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly you should know better the person that you called chatmates. You should meet him in the real world not only cyber, actually you are married to somebody else. You should discuss with your husband then, actually what exactly are you seeking in this life? Happiness? Money? Peace? Ask yourself and get know better about your cyber friend and much better if you know his background, his family and his history of life. Just becareful.
Secondly, what about you invite him to come to your country? what is his reaction?
2007-08-05 10:43:28 · answer #5 · answered by tatinurwidjaya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without ever really having met this guy in person and hes asking you all this on here,you may be setting yourself up for the nightmare of a lifetime. Not all that glitters is gold so be real,real careful here. Id do alot of checking upon this guy and his background even before considering any offer especially if youre giving up your family. Words are cheap on here so watch out. Personally any offer coming from someone I never met in person raises all sorts of red flags and have learned to walk away from those. Theres too many other opportunities out there to accept one that could land me in a world of trouble. Please be careful and do alot of checking before making any move here. Remember its not having what you want but wanting what you have
2007-08-05 10:48:52 · answer #6 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like you are leaving your husband for another man. Quit lying to yourself. If you want a divorce, just do it. If you want to save your marriage, quit talking to this guy who is offering more than a "place to stay" and get marriage counseling.
2007-08-05 10:39:17 · answer #7 · answered by Serena 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
your married, you took your vows. Why go live with another guy when your husband will be at home still "connected" to you?
If you really want to step out on your husband then divorce him first or at least explain to him what the situation is, maybe he'll understand.
2007-08-05 10:41:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-09 07:03:02 · answer #9 · answered by rask 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you are a bored housewife, you might want to at least tell your husband that you are needing something exciting in your life-travel, accomplishments and substance
2007-08-05 10:42:01 · answer #10 · answered by brian c 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋