Family & Relationships - 5 August 2007

one night i came home early very early and fond my wife in bed with two black men, and picture of her nake with both of them.we have been with each other for twenty years now.

2007-08-05 14:31:00 · 12 answers · asked by brain b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Planning our wedding, got most of the big things taken care of, now trying to figure out the small things... right now it's music. I'm planning on having music during cocktail hour, and obviously the dancing part, but when else is music normally played (entrance, cake cutting, flower/garter tossing, etc)? Both of us are more into classic rock and country music, and our song is I'll Stand by You by the Pretenders.
I really want Keep Your Hands to Yourself by Georgia Satellites played sometime, but not during the dancing, any suggestions when?
Also, any other suggestions of any good classic rock songs? I really want to stay away from stuff like Stairway, and nothing Elvis-y. Any help is greatly appreciated!!!

2007-08-05 14:30:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Does it hurt to loose you virginity?

2007-08-05 14:27:20 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Since I have been active on Yahoo answers for the past few weeks, I can't believe how may of our children have such a HORRIBLE relationship with their parents. Especially our girls. I am a mother of 6 children and I have very open relationships with all of them. I am not saying that things are always good, because they are not, we have our moments, but I listen to what they have to say even though they are wrong most of the time. Everyone, including my baby has their own opinion. It is sad to me that young girls can't talk to their mothers about basic hygiene issues. FIrst of all, every mother should start talking about their periods and what to do way before they start. They should explain to them what is going on with their bodies. It is scary for all parties involved. We need to be parents and guide our children. Let them know that they can talk to us about anything and let them know that everythig is ok. Make them comfortable.

2007-08-05 14:26:42 · 11 answers · asked by Med Emergency 3 in Family

I am engaged to a man who is currently paying child support for his daughter who is 4 yrs old. His daughters mother is very vindictive now that he is in another relationship and took him to court recently to get more than the $600 a month he currently pays. She lives with her mother but told the judge she currently splits the mortgage with her mother paying her $900 a month and added a bunch of other expenses she has to pay. Neither had a lawyer but my fiance is now ordered to pay $1147 for one child. Which is 40% of his month income. She told him recently once we get married, she is going to seek money from me as well because as his wife she can receive 20% of my income as well. Is this true? We are currently speaking with a lawyer to adjust his payments as well.

2007-08-05 14:25:14 · 14 answers · asked by T J 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Why is it that can extremely hate your mom or dad but when they die you still feel crushed and cry?

2007-08-05 14:23:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Until last night I had the best boyfriend in the world and then it all came crashing down. He told me that he didn't think he was going to marry me so there was no point in continuing. I am crushed and I feel like the last 2.5 years meant nothing. He was my best friend and now I have no one. I can't get happy. The sad thing is that I feel like he just wants to forget that I meant anything to him. I think its easier for him to just forget me. I have no appetite and I can't even smile and I just wish I knew if he is even a little sad. He sure doesn't act like it. What do I do to stop hurting? Why is it so easy for him? I just need advice I guess.

2007-08-05 14:10:47 · 9 answers · asked by Noodle 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-05 14:10:07 · 5 answers · asked by Mercedes <3 3 in Singles & Dating

guys- on a date, would u rather the girl order a salad so she doesnt pig out in front of you, or would you rather her order something, like a hamburger, that she would actually enjoy?

does it bother you when girls eat in front of you?
or does it bother you more when they dont?

2007-08-05 14:05:50 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband has kids from previous marriage. We are planning to have a baby, but I am not pregnant yet.
On the meantime, my mom in law wants my husband to make a will that states that if he dies, everything goes to his kids. Can he do that?
He signed his life insurance (the one he gets from work) to his kids. Is that legal?

Tthe main issue hear is that I make more money then he does. I put the down payment on the house we bought. I bought our cars and I pay the mortgage. Most of his money goes to the ex wife as she won very high alimony and child support.
I think its not fair that he is leaving me with nothing. I usually reject the subject when it comes up, so, there is no will so far (other then putting his kids as beneficiaries on his life insurance).
Is there anything I can do to make sure that I am the beneficiary on his life insurece?

2007-08-05 14:05:15 · 22 answers · asked by Michelle 1 in Marriage & Divorce

it ain't like we having sex, we just love each other very much so I went to her parents and show them who I was, but they didn't like the fact, that I was older, so whats wrong with that? n plus her said that 19 yrs old have more sexual thoughts than a 16 yrs old, is true?

2007-08-05 14:01:38 · 12 answers · asked by tyrone_smith14072001 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Me and this guy have been friends and my friend just met him and they instantly crushed but i thought he liked me for some reason and right when he met her it all changed what should i do? should i let him go completely?

2007-08-05 14:00:59 · 16 answers · asked by Min 1 in Friends

this girl i have been seein says that she won't have sex with me for 3 months because she said guys have used her in the past, i was cool with it because she would do THAT OTHER THING(down), but now she has stopped doing THAT OTHER THING, and i am becoming a little frustrated, i mean i really like this girl and don't want to lose her but i have like 3 and half weeks until the 3 month rule is over, so i am wondering does she not like THAT OTHER THING and do women in general hate doing THIS OTHER THING or do they feel pressured into doing THAT THING,

2007-08-05 13:57:33 · 20 answers · asked by ebocka 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-05 13:55:47 · 21 answers · asked by unk0wn 1 in Friends

ok so this is what happened:

My boyfriend logged onto my myspace page. And instead of reading about me and asking about me and what i had on there and finding out more about me he found a comment made by a girl whose picture he liked. he went to look at her and page instead, telling me he thought she was pretty. Completely disagree with this. Am i being unreasonable or is he someone i should just drop and not waste anymore time with.

2007-08-05 13:55:40 · 16 answers · asked by Laura 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok here's the deal, i know it sounds like a big gap but im 18 (turned 18 in march) and the guy i like is 40... he's NOT married, im not like that i wont be with someone who is already taken, but yeah i really like him and he likes me to... we have know each other for over 2 years now and i really care about him, he is always telling me how sweet and caring i am, and that im the best person he has ever known... the thing is all my friends think its weird and my family is VERY unhappy about it :-( should we try to make it work or should i listen to everyone else? after all dont people always say "age is just a state of mind..." ?

2007-08-05 13:55:36 · 32 answers · asked by becky89_2007 2 in Singles & Dating

My mom and dad are going through a horrible divorce/separation. She's been dealing with the separation for two years now. She has become my best friend, and she was just starting to get over things, and she wanted to get back out and date, and meet people, she wanted to change her life around. My father recently has yet again, played with her emotions, I won't go into detail. But after being lovey with her, giving her false hopes, etc... He decided to pack up and leave to go be with another woman. He's distinctively said he wants to be with her and her family and not ours any longer. My mother is torn about this, I just want to try and make things easier for her, is there anything I could do?

2007-08-05 13:51:44 · 16 answers · asked by Jaclyn T 2 in Marriage & Divorce

you got drunk and talked about a woman you heard about at the comic convention. I heard she was hot woman who was amputee who wore the machine gun leg like in "Grindhouse". (haven't seen Grindhouse, she says it looks stupid.) She says I was standing on top of the bed talking about this woman I've never seen and that she was hot. She ended up ignoring me and going to sleep. I had hoped for some hotel sex after the RUSH concert. (Earlier, my wife said she was so happy she would have had sex in the back seat in the parking lot, but there were too many car close by.) In the morning we had sex, but she didn't want to even look at me so she put a pillow over her face while we did it. Later was got breakfast, but then she wouldn't talk to me the whole rest of the day, and still is distant.

2007-08-05 13:48:41 · 21 answers · asked by ralph 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-05 13:43:09 · 5 answers · asked by Tubby 2 in Singles & Dating

We are 40 and 33 years old, he is happy about me being pregnant but he doesn't think he is ready to get married. Should I still have his baby?

2007-08-05 13:41:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what guy doesnt want to have s** with a hotie?? say / type yes or no

2007-08-05 13:41:01 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have a very close relationship. We have been dating for four months and we were best friends for five years. We both liked each other and were close enough to be dating during those five years- minus the kissing, sex etc. We are both very much in love and I cannot think of anyone else better to spend my life with. Recently, he asked me to marry him. Of course, I said yes! We both think we will be engaged for some time, maybe getting married near the end of our second year of university. Right now I am seventeen, heading into grade 12. What do you think of this. I think it is acceptable, but I am afraid of what my friends and family would do or say if they knew. I want people to be happy for our engagement, not scold us for being "young and in love". I hate when people say that! What are some suggestions to get around this getting married young is bad stereotype? Thanks.

2007-08-05 13:40:33 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have pictures of my old boyfriends from like 6th 7th and 8th grade. i have sort of kept just because its my life and memories not because it means anything is left between me and those boys! i am 26 years old and my current boyfriend is upset by this! am i being disrespectful keeping them?

2007-08-05 13:40:08 · 12 answers · asked by brooklyndt21 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I havent seen my family in over fifteen years. They live in Cali, Colombia and my father insists that there is a way to have a live video chat with them, however my question is: Does this have to do with with something for example yahoo/aol/messanger web cams? Because I'm under the impression that you will need some sort of intant messanger thing to do this, but my father insists that it's not require. Can someone straighten this mess up for me? Thank you.

2007-08-05 13:39:23 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

plz my boobs r gonna kill me.they r small(35)and i'm 14years old is there any way to fix that?

2007-08-05 13:36:55 · 1 answers · asked by bad girl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-05 13:36:35 · 4 answers · asked by Gypsy Gal 6 in Singles & Dating

I love my husband and respect him very much . We have had a lot of major fights over the past year and have grown apart .I have caught him lying to me on more than oner occasion .Im finding it hard to trusrt him . It seems like when he's around I feel like I have to walk on egg shells to avoid a fight , so I get stressed . I realize that we're married and we are supposed to work this kind of stuff out , but when is enough , enough? How do you know if your still "IN " love with your spouse? We've been together for almost 10 years .

2007-08-05 13:35:32 · 21 answers · asked by lildomenk 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ive been going out witht his girl from sleepover camp for almost two weeks. the camp ended a week and two days ago. i gave her my house number but wasnt able to get hers. she hasnt called me yet so i am thinking about looking her number up in the phone book. do you think that will be a little weird or should i just wait untill she calls me because i want to talk to her but i think she is shy and is afraid to call me. i am also shy but i really want to talk to her because i miss her. when do you think she might end up calling me? any other suggestions will help me too. oh yeah we are 12 but donty say we are to young because i dont care.

2007-08-05 13:35:13 · 8 answers · asked by chelseafc108 1 in Singles & Dating

I am serious. Teenagers and children are becoming today's new adults. I know some kids at school that drink and smoke. I know some girls at school that have sex already. I know a lot of girls have been fingered or made out with their tops off. We are 13. What is wrong with today's children and teenagers? I am one of the cleanest girls I know, along with a few others at school, but I am beginning to wonder...what's wrong with kids?

2007-08-05 13:34:19 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My brother in law is separated from my wife's sister. His girlfriend often calls me to complain about him and their relationship. She tries to get together with me at least once a week but I work at night and live 30 miles from her and have been busy. When their relationship is good, she wants all of us to hang out. But when it is bad she wants to spend time only with me. She's said I have a sexy voice. I'm thinking about seeing her alone to see what will happen. If she tries something, how far should I go ?

2007-08-05 13:32:52 · 4 answers · asked by Buddy Love 5 in Singles & Dating