Me and this guy have been friends and my friend just met him and they instantly crushed but i thought he liked me for some reason and right when he met her it all changed what should i do? should i let him go completely?
2007-08-05 14:00:59 · 16 answers · asked by Min 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well it depends on if your friend knows that you like this boy,
if she knows you like him, then she is probably not a good friend because if she really cared about you then she wouldnt take him from you even if she likes him, you guys shouldnt let a guy ruin your friendship, i mean its not like either of you will marry this guy,
if she doesnt know that you like him, then there is nothign you can do, because if you tried to break them up or win him for yourself then you would ruin your friendship with her
Hope I Helped!
2007-08-05 14:05:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay before u do that maybe u can talk with him first to see how he feels or felt about u before she came alone. Because if u don't it's gonna drive u crazy.
Maybe he never knew how u felt about him and maybe once u tell him it may change things for the better for u
I hope that it turns out in Ur favor because it hurts to see the person u really really have strong feelings for with someone else
U may want to talk with her 1st because she may not know u had feelings for him and she will feel bad if she and he start a relationship and finds out later that u in fact like him, she'll think she came between u and him
So talk to her 1st explain to her that u have had feelings for him, Ur not sure if he has the same feelings but u have been times when U think he may have felt a spark. But U are sure that u do have strong feelings for him. Tell her that all this was hard for you to come to her with this but because ur my friend and he's too is my friend it would really hurt to see them together as a couple because of ur feeling for him.
Now if it in fact he ends up with u GREAT and now u two know how u feel, if he wants to be with her how may I ask are u gonna deal with that?
Good Luck
I hope Ur the one, because it sounds like u really like him
2007-08-05 14:18:56 · answer #2 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the time the chemistry between people is instantaneous and can not be controlled. You can not make someone like you as in being interested romantically in you, that is a spontaneous thing. Maybe he likes you as a friend. So let things take their course. Would you like to be with someone that forces you to ?
2007-08-05 14:05:54 · answer #3 · answered by Julia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want this guy to notice you, you should go out with your girlfriend alone, and psyche out the most handsome admirable guy in the club or restaurant, when your friend goes to the washroom, tell the guy(who should be there byhimself) that your friend thinks he is a hottie. when your friend comes back after a couple glasses of white wine, tell her that this gorgeous guy is totalling eyeing her out. encourage her to do some flirting. Then when she gives him her phone number she will be too busy for your soulmate, and there you will have to cheer him up for losing your friend.
there you have it.
2007-08-05 14:08:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is something you need to do some deep soul searching on. If you do something you could lose him, and your friend that he just met. If you wind up really into him, then you may wind up losing him if you do nothing. My advise it to pray about it, and seek God's will in your life. Then be honest with everyone. Tell him how you feel about him, and tell her how you feel about him. From there the ball is in his court. He will have to decide who to pursue. There is no good outcome if you are dishonest with either of them though. Please keep that in mind.
2007-08-05 14:06:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oo that is a very sticky situation. But there is a way to solve it. Spend lots of time with him. Say wannna see a movie? Do stuff with him. Stuff that dosent include your other friend. Find what he lieks in a girl. See what ur friend has that you dont..stuff you are lacking. Good luck..Hope you get him to like you!
2007-08-05 14:04:50 · answer #6 · answered by Skye 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should let him go completely for the sake of your friendship. Boyfriends come and go, but good friends are hard to find.
2007-08-05 14:03:38 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Same thing kind of happened to me. I just shruged it off. Just all be friends. And only time can tell how things will turn out. Hope I helped =)
2007-08-05 14:04:43 · answer #8 · answered by juliet88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can I be frank? I lost my best friend over a guy. We were closer than sisters, and then we had a huge blow out. So, please, be careful.
You can't change his feelings, but howabout tell him how YOU feel. I find someone more attractive when I know they like me.
2007-08-05 14:06:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him your feelings.
brakes your heart means he wasn't a great friend after all.
tell your friend that you like him and known him for a very long time.
she'll understand and probably back away.if not she's not going to be a great friend.
but don't let no one break your friend ship.
2007-08-05 14:05:27 · answer #10 · answered by lili_xo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋