he did this a couple years before he met me...and no i dont want people telling me its nothing to do with me, it was before me, whatever...point is it does bother me and i feel he should have told me before we were intimate together because the way he described himself to me when we met was he wasnt even into strippers, he found them degrading so imagine the bomb this felt like when he told me...
i find it completely against his character of the man i fell in love with that he could do something so digusting and degrading, he said he just wanted to try it cause its what all guys do (hes from england)...im number one, upset he didnt tell me before we got together especially considering we talked about things like this and two i just consider it a sign of character for a man to be able to do that...and its not the kind of guy i want to be with..how do i get past this or get over it or should i? he said he didnt enjoy it, he hated it, felt disgusting and wrong but that didnt help..HELP!
2007-08-05
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