Family & Relationships - 5 August 2007

2007-08-05 17:04:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, well, my friend told me that(he's like best friends with a bunch of girls) most of his friends that are girls take showers and go to the bathroom with other girls but then when a guy does it, it's just gay.....and I was thinking about it, and he is right. How come it's okay for girls but not for guys? And the girls are just friends with each other, so....yeah...

2007-08-05 17:03:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I planned a nice birthday party for my almost 2 year old daughter coming up soon. I sent invites out and everyone knew the date early. Turns out, my husband's brother (also my daughter's godfather) has to be out of town on business. I guess I was naive to think that his new wife (my sister in law) would come, even if he couldn't since - oh, I don't know, that couple is named in our will as the people who would raise her if we died? I hadn't heard an RSVP back from her, so when I saw her at a wedding this weekend (a wedding for our husbands' 3rd cousin), I asked if she could come, and was surprised to hear her say no. She is having visitors in town during that time, and - here's the kicker - says her husband told her she "didn't have to go" since he couldn't be there. Um.. excuse me? Am I alone in thinking that going to a birthday party for a niece is a no brainer, and that she should have planned to come? My feelings are hurt at her nonchalance. Is she cold, or am I nuts??

2007-08-05 17:02:40 · 4 answers · asked by sadsil 1 in Family

OK, so the other night, this guy and I were hooking up. We've been going out for a while, and we finally decided to have sex. However, it must have been during the act or something, and I freakin started my period! I didn't realize until we were finished, and by then, Aunt Flow definitely had made a pretty big vist. He didn't say anything about it, but I did apologize.
If you're a guy, would you be completely put off by this?

I really like this guy, and I want to know what he might think of this situation! Please don't make fun of me :(

2007-08-05 16:59:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so i met this guy the other day and on the first date we start making out. which is fine..he's caressing my hand, kissing my neck blablabla...then he starts pressing his u know what on me to the point that i can feel it. now i never gave him indication that he can do this in any way...i called him a perv for doing this.
i no longer want to see him again.
am i over reacting..was i wrong.

2007-08-05 16:59:18 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I went to thise summer session for NJROTC and the officers were super different from the guys I'm use to. They aren't that great looking, but they are so serious but can have fun. I find myself strangely attracted to them because they are so mature. How can I get them to notice me, even when I'm younger, unexperienced, shy, and are friends with my older sister. How do I at least become friends with them? They seem so unapproachable because they seem so serious.

2007-08-05 16:59:05 · 5 answers · asked by francesca C. 3 in Singles & Dating

I am 5'4, about 165lbs, with 38DD's, (38-30-42). I have a medium to large athletic ass (* round but not huge). I am a size women's 10, so I am thick but still have an hourglass figure (you can pinch an inch on my waist though).

I am also 1/2 Pacific Islander and white, but i have a little bit of an Asian look to my eyes, but I look Hawaiian. I have long black hair (I get a lot of compliments on it) and light brown skin. I have a clear face with big brown eyes, a button nose, and full lips. I am a good dancer, I'm funny, I love to flirt. I have my navel and nose pierced (who doesn't though?)

I get a lot of attention OBVIOUSLY, with my **** and my face. Do I sound attractive though? Sometimes I wonder if guys just holler @ anything?> Give me you're opinion.

2007-08-05 16:58:53 · 7 answers · asked by shiveringbliss 1 in Singles & Dating

I know there are people out there that abuse pregnant women. I am pregnant and was abandoned by my bf 3 weeks ago. He has violent tendencies so I know this is for the best. I am concerned as to why he left me (I think he cheated and has another gf who may be preggo) but the source was him and he has lied about stuff in the past. He wanted me to get rid of this baby and when I refused, he left and sent me a horrible e-mail. I wasn't sure what to think but I did get a call from his gf (I didn't know at the time) who threatened me as well to stay away from her bf (he denies all this ) Of of course I don't believe him. It makes me sick to think I could have been exposed to something b/c of his infidelity. He has been violent to me in the past when drinking. Do you think I have anything to worry about? I know that when some people are desperate, they can do crazy things. I'm planning to file for CS, but he doesn't know it. He has shown up here before very drunk late at night.

2007-08-05 16:57:10 · 3 answers · asked by pussnboots333 4 in Family

Do you think I'm attractive? I didn't have a camera so I had to draw a picture of myself.

http://i184.photobucket.com/albums/x73/elephantman159/Photoofme.jpg?t=1186372509

2007-08-05 16:56:33 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i went to my bf's he lives a half hour away. he had one of his kids over and didnt warn me, and i was just sitting over there watching a movie with them bored shitless. i stayed til movie was over and they were gonna go to bed. i wasnt sleepy so i said i was going home. is this rude? or shouldnt he understand i dont wanna sit up staring at the ceiling? he is being an jerk about it.

2007-08-05 16:54:17 · 2 answers · asked by knowitall 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-05 16:54:11 · 4 answers · asked by killswitch_serenade 2 in Weddings

Hey everyone my real name is Jessica but allllllllll my friends call me Jessie. I'm going into 8th grade and i think jessie sounds too "little kiddish" ya know? But i'm so used to it that when people call me Jessica it sounds so weird! haha. I really want people to start calling me that either this year or in highschool but the problem is, is that everyone forgets and no one calls me it! How do I let everyone know i wanna be called jessica....and do you guys agree with me that Jessie sounds little kiddish or do you think i should keep it?

2007-08-05 16:53:31 · 7 answers · asked by *~Jessica~* 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

if you were 6'2"? :)

kind of the same height diff as..
http://www.vince-vaughn.com/gallery/displayimage.php?album=25&pos=11
http://www.vince-vaughn.com/gallery/displayimage.php?album=25&pos=22
http://www.vince-vaughn.com/gallery/displayimage.php?album=25&pos=23

2007-08-05 16:53:28 · 7 answers · asked by lara 1 in Singles & Dating

So a guy I've briefly met twice named "Jack" texts me and invites me to see a movie w/ him and his friend "Allen".

I responded "I really want to see that movie, but I'm busy tonight. Sorry! :( Besides, I'm sure you and Allen will have a very romantic time together. ;)

Would you: 1) be offended by this 2)understand that it's a joke 3) feel like there's no chance in hell that this i like you, or 4) try again to go out with me another time?

2007-08-05 16:50:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been with my guy for 3 and a half months.
He came with me sat night to a friends going away which turned out not to be a really good night, she pretty much told my guy behind my back about my past that im not proud of and stuff he didnt need to know.
Anyways after I left his house yesterday he was affectionate all day and seemed fine, I asked him via text if he has lost repect cos of what he had been told and he said no he hasnt lost respect and we are all good but I know he was a little fuinny about what he heard and he admitted it was stuff he didnt need to know.
Basically for him to stick by me and be fine after that means he likes me heaps yeah cos im guessing most guys would piss off but the fact is we are still together??
He also told me that night before this happened that he loves me but he was drunk and I said I wanna hear it when he is sober, he reckons it had been on his mind for a while and couldnt get the courage to say sound genuine?

2007-08-05 16:49:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-05 16:45:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i've tried to confront this person, but they just blow me off. they don't like to talk about it. they only smoke a couple cigarettes each night, but i HATE it. i worry about them. any advice on what to do!? i've tried every single appoach i could come up with, but they won't quit!

2007-08-05 16:44:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am involved in with a great guy, but we had some bad times so he went and told his family about them. Now they look at me funny and I have been disrespected a few times. But, he finally told them to stay out of our affair since I was about to leave him alone I have no doubt that he loves me I can't began to tell you it would take up so much of your time. I care a great deal for him, he was kicked out of his family's house so now we're roomies, I just wanted him with out his family. Any one ever been here before? I would even consider marrying him I care about him alot even though I was disrepected by his family, I just I know how romeo and Juliet felt Help me please no depressing answers I care about him but please keep it real people thanks alot

2007-08-05 16:43:41 · 4 answers · asked by Gingersweet 1 in Singles & Dating

My father in law and his wife are harassing their 17 yr old son's girlfriend about the way she dresses. I have met her and she is a really sweet, good girl. They think that she dresses too sexy (she wore a string bikini in front of them). They told the son that if she didn't dress differently that he couldn't see her anymore. Her parents don't have a problem with the way she dresses so who are they to tell her how to! Should I say anything to them about how tough they are being? By the way, they called her over to have her explain to them why she dresses this way.

2007-08-05 16:38:02 · 5 answers · asked by jolesaja 1 in Family

He is a 33 yr old married man. Two daughters. And everytime were together we do nothing but laugh. I feel so good when he hugs me. He has never forced me to do anything that i wouldn't feel comfortable doing. He has never slept with me but has performed oral sex on me. Without asking for anything in return. I never performed oral on him. We were caught by the police the other night while he was satisfying me. I haven't spoken to him since.

2007-08-05 16:36:54 · 21 answers · asked by monstaboo07 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a associate who is a little on the ''wild side''
She tells me that I am missing out on all the fun because I'm not giving into the potential guys who i can have a ''wild night with''.
I've always told myself that I would loose it to a special person who i know would love me, respect me and my body. But when it comes to it, it does seem like I'm missing out on the fun, and pleasure. But then again I think how could I sacrifice one night of pleasure, it could turn into a lifetime of pain. I want to be liked, I want to be well known with great friends. Entering my senior year, i feel as if there is probably going to be more peer pressure when it comes to my virginity. I've stayed strong, but don't know how to stay stronger. Am I really missing out on anything? Should i just go for it? Is sex really worth waiting for?

2007-08-05 16:36:36 · 56 answers · asked by DJ 6 in Singles & Dating

I ahve known him for 5 years... we love each other a whole lot we not based on sex nd he never makes me do anything i dont want to... im 16 nd he is 19... He came to meet my parents nd dey had a problem with his age... I dont see a problem with us bein together... our love his mutal its not just something i think

Him: it like dey all against us
ME: wat they think dont matter... its what we think, nd what we want
HIM: we got 2 fight 4 dis relationship
ME: Well i love you enuff to fight for it... Do you?
HIM: yyyyeeeeaaaa
ME: lol well den dats all dat really matters... right?
HIM: yea u rite

So do u see a problem... nd y... nd if you dont... still why?

2007-08-05 16:34:49 · 25 answers · asked by Lakay aka Mizz B 2 in Singles & Dating

She sent a horrible message to all of his other friends that are girls. The other girls' feelings are hurt by this & he is not here for 1 wk to defend them or himself. Should I call her mom or leave it alone? Honest answers only & nothing mean or nasty please.

2007-08-05 16:29:52 · 7 answers · asked by Kim 5 in Family

2007-08-05 16:28:54 · 24 answers · asked by Curiosity Saved the Relationship 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So I am going into high school and I met this girl in seventh grade. I was going out with someone else at the time but I knew she liked me. I was going to ask her out during the summer after seventh grade but I never saw her. So in eighth grade we went out but she kept cancelling dates so I broke up with her. A few months later we decided to get back together, but the next day her best friend told me she wanted to break up. However, I later found out that she had never said that, but we didn't get back together. After that we both saw other people for a while but now she told me she might still like me. That was last week and now she won't return my calls.

What the hell should I do?

2007-08-05 16:25:39 · 8 answers · asked by Asher 2 in Singles & Dating

this guy that im pretty much in love with is movin all the way to arizona.. i live in indiana and this jus seems so unreal to me rite now. i found out today that hes movin tomorrow. hes gonna come back in 3 months but he's gonna go to a different school.. so i wont ever see him.. prolly ever againn =[[ i mean i have a HUGEE crush on him & i lovee him. and i wont see him ever again =[[ pls someone help me feel better cuz i feel like dying..................................

2007-08-05 16:25:37 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Please help me be functional! Here's the situation, in a nutshell- I can't like a guy without it becoming an obsession. Then, I can't talk to him anymore, or be around him without blushing, because I like him too much. Consequently, I never push past the initial phase of, "Oh, you're in my class. How nice." [smile and turn away] So then my subconscious, craving interaction, sets up an amusing little series of fantasies and creates a history and personality for the person in question. I never get near enough to find out if I've hit anywhere near the mark, so I continue to obsess because, of course, my imagination has only let one or two VERY minor faults slip into his character. I daydream that some day he'll make the first move and I'll find out he liked me all along. When it doesn't happen, I get depressed. Then I don't want to talk to him, because I'm mad that he didn't do anything about a crush he probably knew nothing about and then I blame myself (rightly so) and try to move on.

2007-08-05 16:23:41 · 2 answers · asked by artfuldodger1300 2 in Singles & Dating

My Wife and I have a sufficient sexual attitude,but sometimes we party.Then it comes to this. Morning love versus evening love.Evening love to me is after I've had alcohol and we-d to make me mellow.To me morning love is more electric and fun.Do you feel like i do?

2007-08-05 16:23:22 · 10 answers · asked by Dano 2 in Marriage & Divorce

This is just a question asking what was the lamest excuse for an intense break-up or divorce?

the worst i've ever heard was, "he didn't cook morning breakfast after s-e-x in the morning"

your turn :]

my site:http://www.squidoo.com/theloveofmylife

2007-08-05 16:22:31 · 13 answers · asked by Chris Knight 1 in Marriage & Divorce

A HUSBAND IS AT HOME WATCHING A
FOOTBALL GAME WHEN HIS WIFE INTERRUPTS,

HONEY,
COULD YOU FIX THE LIGHT IN THE HALLWAY?
IT 'S BEEN FLICKERING FOR WEEKS NOW.

HE LOOKS AT HER AND SAYS ANGRILY,
FIX THE LIGHTS NOW?
DOES IT LOOK LIKE I HAVE
GE WRITTEN ON MY FOREHEAD?
I DON'T THINK SO.

FINE,

THEN THE WIFE ASKS,
WELL THEN, COULD YOU FIX THE FRIDGE DOOR?
IT WON'T CLOSE RIGHT

TO WHICH HE REPLIED,
FIX THE FRIDGE DOOR?
DOES IT LOOK LIKE I HAVE WESTINGHOUSE
WRITTEN ON MY FOREHEAD?
I DON'T THINK SO

FINE, SHE SAYS
THEN YOU COULD AT LEAST FIX THE STEPS
TO THE FRONT DOOR?
THEY ARE ABOUT TO BREAK

I'M NOT A CARPENTER AND I DON'T
WANT TO FIX STEPS.
HE SAYS, DOES IT LOOK LIKE I HAVE
ACE HARDWARE WRITTEN ON MY FOREHEAD?
I DON'T THINK SO
I'VE HAD ENOUGH OF YOU.
I'M GOING TO THE BAR!!!!

SO HE GOES TO THE BAR AND DRINKS FOR A
COUPLE OF HOURS..................................

HE STARTS TO FEEL GUILTY ABOUT HOW
HE TREATED HIS WIFE, AND DECIDES
TO GO HOME

AS HE WALKS INTO THE HOUSE HE NOTICES
THAT THE STEPS ARE ALREADY FIXED.

AS HE ENTERS THE HOUSE, HE SEES THE
HALL LIGHT IS WORKING.

AS HE GOES TO GET A BEER, HE NOTICES
THE FRIDGE DOOR IS FIXED.

HONEY, HE ASKS, HOW'D ALL THIS GET FIXED?
SHE SAID, WELL, WHEN YOU LEFT I SAT
OUTSIDE AND CRIED.

JUST THEN A NICE YOUNG MAN ASKED ME
WHAT WAS WRONG, AND I TOLD HIM.

HE OFFERED TO DO ALL THE REPAIRS, AND
ALL I HAD TO DO WAS EITHER
GO TO BED WITH HIM OR BAKE A CAKE.

HE SAID,
SO WHAT KIND OF CAKE DID YOU BAKE?

SHE REPLIED,
HELLOOOOO.
DO YOU SEE BETTY CROCKER WRITTEN
ON MY FOREHEAD?
I DON'T THINK SO!

2007-08-05 16:22:01 · 18 answers · asked by ameribicgirl 3 in Marriage & Divorce