Family & Relationships - 5 August 2007

younger man?
Im talking about 20,25 or more og an age diffrence.I know people whould say its non of my buesness as long as there happy and love each other.Think about it this way e.g Imn 18 my dad is 47 and my mom is 43.If they both got divorced and my dad dates a women who is 20.@ years older then me ill be discusted and im sure if i was my dads age and my daughter was my age now ill be discusted with her dating a man close to my age.Im not the only one who feels this way even open mind people have this feeling alitelbet but wont admit it.Why cant people love some one there age?Women think older guys are more mature and older women feel younger men give beter sex.I think they all have personal problems and selfestym issues.

2007-08-05 20:30:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm curious as I plan my wedding. Consider the price of the church, the flowers, the photographer, the wedding dress, the tux rental, the honeymoon trip, the presents to the wedding party and parents, the centerpieces, the DJ, the invitations, the reception hall rental, the food, the drinks, the cake, the limo, the rehearsal dinner, the champagne toast, the engagement pictures, and even the engagement ring. I'm probably forgetting some things...

2007-08-05 20:22:26 · 16 answers · asked by Mark S 2 in Weddings

Married for 10 years, my relatiosnhip with my husband is strained we have no sexual relationship for the past 5 years. no conversation, have one daughter

2007-08-05 20:14:45 · 7 answers · asked by KK 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-05 20:13:49 · 14 answers · asked by riverrat115 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have been married 4 years, but i've noticed that i'm not as attracted to my wife as i used to be. i find myself fantasizing about other women. what do i do?

2007-08-05 20:12:09 · 35 answers · asked by cabodefogo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am the oldest out of 4 kids. I feel like my mom favors my sister (3rd born). She constantly takes the 3rd born's side and won't listen to my side of the story. Every time I talk to her about it --I'm not rude or anything I just tell her how I feel-- I just end up getting yelled at. I'm not bratty or obnoxious towards her (or anyone for that matter) & I get really good grades too.

I don't think this because she gives me more chores and work around the house-- thats not it. She just seems to take the 3rd born's side on EVERYTHING, listens to her more, & she even sometimes has special lunches with her on weekends. My other (2nd born) sister notices it too.

Is it my imagination or is she showing favoritism? Because I don't notice this type of behavior with my dad. For all the parents out there: do you favor a child?

2007-08-05 20:06:46 · 19 answers · asked by smile :) 3 in Family

how can i talk to pepole when they dont alow it awnser if u do or dont please!!

2007-08-05 20:01:48 · 10 answers · asked by philldillmill 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband makes enough money to pay ALL our bills, but due to we had to fix the a/c in the car we got behind. We have paid my mom off for the loan she loaned us. Now we just owe our monthly bills, rent, car payment, insurance, phone.

Okay he waits to pay car note with all the utitlites instead at first of the months check. So what if it will be sent in two weeks early. Because he does this we are still behind.

I told him that for now own I want him to turn his pay check over to me and after all the bills for that two weeks were paid I would give him the rest back. I told him I would cut out cash for his gas in car and cigs and gro too.

He got mad and raised hell. I am trying to help out. Since all he does is work and sleep. He tells me he doesn't have time to call and get put of budget bill. I told him he has to due to his name is on the account.
When I had the bills in my name before I left him last year all our bills were paid up to-date and on time and he still makes the same

2007-08-05 19:58:52 · 9 answers · asked by Msbearr 6 in Marriage & Divorce

is thin really in or are you into girls with curves? what do you prefer?

2007-08-05 19:58:14 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I found this past week that I CAN'T place trust in my wife no matter what I do!
She had a cyber affair, and it almost became physical if I had not gone with her to high school reunion!
She even lied to me when I became concerned about her involvement with the the guy who just so happen to be her 1st love but she said that is was innocent nothing to be affrad of!

I read the emails she left on and decided to nip it in the but with the guy and told his wife at the reunion, to say it was a disaster would be a kindness.
We separated for 3 months and got back together in part because of the children but because i thought I was ready.
She asked to go on a road trip and I almost flipped out in front of the kids!

I instead said I thought now was not a good time and said we could talk about it later on but I find myself not trusting her!

I honestly think our marriage of 16 years might be coming to an end what can I do to TRUST AGAIN, and save the marriage?

4 post in profile on subject!

2007-08-05 19:56:17 · 7 answers · asked by Free-Lance 5 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my friend have been talking on aim and we bet on who can stay up the longest... well she just lost so since she lost she has to do somthing.... but i have no idea on wat she should do lol any ideas?

2007-08-05 19:54:11 · 8 answers · asked by pyrokid000 1 in Friends

I am about to get married to someone I have been seeing for a year. Most of the relationship has been over the internet and phone, although we have spent several weeks together. I really care about him but its not wild crazy love like my first relationship...... I am also scared about leaving home an going to a new country since it takes me a while to make friends..... w

Is it normal to have doubts just before you get married? I am feeling a bit overwhelmed by the whole thing. But I think its important to get married and its not like we fight or are completely mismatched..... just that sometimes the whole thing seems like too much of an effort...

2007-08-05 19:51:03 · 14 answers · asked by ls2c 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife and I moved abroad 2 years ago, and we are a bit lonely away from home, in spite of our lovely daughter. A bit after we arrived, I met a woman, a good friend with whom all was clear, as I love my wife and daughter immensely. Once, unfortunately, we kissed, and everything spiralled. She fell in love with me, I felt horrible, tried to push her away repeatedly, but we ended up fooling around a few times. She is a decent and patient woman and believes it is our fate to be together. My wife found out 6 months ago and since then we have been trying to work things out. That could be it.... But 3 months ago, I found my wife's diary, which made it clear that she has been in love with someone since way before we moved here. I confronted her, she admitted. And now I am lost! I have since realized that I miss and most probably love this other woman. Something is broken in my couple. I am torn between my wows, the fear of lost happiness and the promise of something luminous. What to do?

2007-08-05 19:50:07 · 12 answers · asked by Abel Tiffauges 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-05 19:49:17 · 14 answers · asked by badass-mofu 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-05 19:45:36 · 13 answers · asked by hokulani544 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Now be honest guys. What makes a guy do such a thing? What makes a man look for other women in the area? Specially when the are giving plenty of enjoyment ;p You can cook for them, clean basically make sure his life is good to go, and he just turns around and screws other women. Whats up with that? And if it true, once a cheater always a cheater?

2007-08-05 19:44:05 · 28 answers · asked by Squeakers 4 in Marriage & Divorce

who says it's ok? no sex. of course. lol, it's not me. im just asking at what age is it acceptable to date some one of age? 18 19 20 or 21.

what if it was serious. and they had plans of marriage

2007-08-05 19:38:26 · 12 answers · asked by Ryan B 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-05 19:35:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what if he's respectful and good looking,and always treats you like a princess, and has a great career and his only flaw is that he is inexprienced when it comes to relationships. Will that keep you from not dating him?

2007-08-05 19:34:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm a blonde but some ppl think brunettes r more attrackted. waat do u think?

2007-08-05 19:32:28 · 15 answers · asked by awsomealesha 2 in Singles & Dating

I NEED TOWRITE AT LEAT 10 SENTENCES TELLG HER HOW MUCH I LOVE HER AND THAT I WANT TO MARRY HER.

2007-08-05 19:32:16 · 6 answers · asked by firmupcleveland 1 in Singles & Dating

If you're a guy who's had his first kiss later in life (20's), will it be special to you? Will that GIRL always be special to you?

2007-08-05 19:32:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

WDYT of these beach wedding vids? I love the first one. The wedding party has a blast! Would you have a beach wedding yourself?

Beach Wedding #1: http://beachweddingplanning.blogspot.com/2007/08/beach-wedding-video-wedding-at-the.html

Beach Wedding #2: http://beachweddingplanning.blogspot.com/2007/08/our-beach-wedding.html
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2007-08-05 19:31:45 · 4 answers · asked by snickerdoodle 1 in Weddings

Just trying to see who is nice.. I love my man, 6 years together, make love every day, I cook, clean, Watch Disney movies with the kids, take them to the pool, kiss them, hug them, him too...never judge his family, dont ask for money, love candles and music and chillin, not jealous... Does anyone think Thats COOL?

2007-08-05 19:28:58 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

k i am 17 yr old f, and i was molested 3 years ago by a teacher, i have gotten help but still am in a lot of pain that i sometimes dont know how to handle, i am terrfied of guys and wonder who is going to hurt me next (i dont think all guys are bad, i am just scared), even though i have time till i want to date for marriage I am terrified of tha fact of being touched or even being around guys. What should I do

2007-08-05 19:28:22 · 10 answers · asked by futuredoc 3 in Singles & Dating

Well he is a nice guy not looking for sex he met her and now he likes her and she likes him

2007-08-05 19:26:46 · 63 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It is usually like a 3-4 weeks or like 2-3 months. What's average? I normally jump into relationships early but I'm "dating" someone now and that's not the norm for me so I'm trying to see what is the norm as far as making the relationship a comittment.

2007-08-05 19:26:24 · 2 answers · asked by PAboy05 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-05 19:25:08 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

what if you have everything you asked for beautiful face and beautiful body, and then theres an annoying person who will say "no matter how beautiful you are, there is going to be someone more beautiful than you" is that really true, i hope it isnt because everyone is an individual and beauty is in the eye of the beholder isnt that true?? and then you start feeling like sh!t ahhhhh.

2007-08-05 19:24:40 · 6 answers · asked by californiadudette1991 2 in Singles & Dating

I am married with 5 children and two are mine and three are his... I haven't spoken with another adult that is not related to my husband in four monthes! Am I crazy or is this controlling or do alot of wifes do the same?

2007-08-05 19:23:55 · 15 answers · asked by Kathrine B 3 in Marriage & Divorce