Family & Relationships - 5 August 2007

he told me he eventually wants to meet but I have had these reoccuring nightmares that this large stranger that is a guy is hurting me really badly in my dreams
is this a sign of what might happen if I decide to meet him, what do I do?
I don't want to meet him, I don't wan't anything to do with him anymore
help me with some advice please!
how do I break it off with him so that it's not obvious . .
like a casual break up?
mature answers please but I'm accepting all answers!

2007-08-05 19:23:22 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hey everyone.. i have a little deal here..
my friends and i are getting ready to go camping next week and im a little confused bcuz among the people who are coming are goin to be guys who.. are more than just buddies to me. One of the guys used to be my "friend with benefits". we havent talked in a couple of weeks, but i know he;ll be coming to this trip with hopes that he will have sex with me again. another guy is a good friend that i know likes me. we never been intimate.. we never even kissed. im not sure how i feel about him yet.. BUT i wanna sleep with the first guy, but at the same time i dont wanna upset and push away my second buddy.. what would u guys do in my situations? and BOYS how would u react that a girl u like would sleep with someone else, with u present, basically next door?

2007-08-05 19:21:45 · 18 answers · asked by Stacy 2 in Singles & Dating

okay so the guy i have been sleeping with for the last 3 months (we are friends with benefits) came over last night, and we were talking, and he said "i like you a whole lot, i almost love you, but i dont wanna say it" i didnt respond to this, just took it in, well a few minutes later we were laying in bed, and i was almost asleep, and he said, "no, really though, i do love you" do you think this is real? i mean, he gets crazy jealous when i hang out with other men... let me know what you think! (and yes, in case your wondering, i have already totally fallen for him)

2007-08-05 19:18:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i don't know how to please my husband.if you were my husband,which one you love the best?

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thanks for your suggestion
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2007-08-05 19:17:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Women call a guy a wuss if the woman is in control of a relationship, And yet if a guy doesn't do what the woman says, she is furious, and hates him.

or

He's a wuss because he's such a nice guy that gets her things all the time, and tells her he Loves her. And yet if those things weren't done, It'd mean he didn't care and is an "A hole."

Or

maybe a guy cuts in a line and she says "aren't you going to do something about it?" and he doesn't because he doesn't want to start unnecessary problems, he's a wuss. and Yet if he said something, he's stepping out of line and should of just gotten over it instead of acting Childish.

Why don't women know what they want? It is ridiculous.

2007-08-05 19:16:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my dob is 4 july1983,my birth of time is 11-10min night

2007-08-05 19:16:35 · 11 answers · asked by SUMITI K 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hes older but with a little help things can be great. sexy night gowns mean nothing. i can be nude and cant get the attention i need from my own husband. my thoughts are to look elsewhere. i dont know how much of this i can stand. im so lonely for affection it burns my heart deeply.I really enjoy sex so much and i always have. Weve known each other for 17 yrs. i need attention and companionship is a divorce the best thing because i feel i must get on with my life. HELP

2007-08-05 19:15:14 · 14 answers · asked by mssilky03 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok i know this dude likes me.... if the guy doesnt do anything should the girl make a move...or wait for him((asking out terms))

2007-08-05 19:15:12 · 11 answers · asked by =] 3 in Singles & Dating

ok heres the thing my gf used to be boy crazy until i came along and became her bf and i ask her if she still likes all the boys she used to be crazy about and she told me no but sometimes i think she's just lieng and right now i think she likes my friend...and i asked her a couple weeks later when i started to get even more worried and she told me she didn't but every now and then i start to doubt that and get a lil worried...and reallly i feel like i'm actually losing her....what do i do to get me to stop worrying and to find out the truth?...plz reply ASAP...

2007-08-05 19:13:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he doesnt treat me the same,he loves me but not in love.He lies about things he does.I know he dont admit to wrong doing,but everyting is gone help

2007-08-05 19:13:39 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-05 19:13:11 · 21 answers · asked by FireStone 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a few questions:

1. How old should a girl be before she can date? why?

2. How old should a guy be before he can date? why?

3. If you chose different for 1. and 2. ages please explain why, if you chose the same ages please explain why.

4. How old should a guy be before he loses his virginity? why

5. How old should a girl be before she loses her virginity? why

6. If you chose different ages for 4. and 5. please say why, if you chose the same ages please say why.

If you have any other comments on this general subject I would love to hear them, well actually read them..

2007-08-05 19:10:36 · 12 answers · asked by C.A.S. 5 in Singles & Dating

I am not good at keeping a conversation going. All my conversations go for a few minutes and always end up in awkward silences. Any tips?

2007-08-05 19:07:01 · 16 answers · asked by Valentino 2 in Singles & Dating

me and my husband have been dating for 2 years and we just got married last friday. since our baby has been born our relationship hasnt really been the same at home...but when we go out of town by ourselves or just are with eachother its different. how can we make our relationship the same as it is when we are alone as it is when we have our baby with us? i do appreciate your answers!

2007-08-05 19:06:41 · 6 answers · asked by ? 5 in Marriage & Divorce

He call me and told me should he move out w/ his granny or not. I say do what ever u want to. we have and fight about that so after that day we broke up. i don't want to broke up so i come home that day b/c i thought we could fix things. but he told me to give him some space and 3 months to think. But i hurt me is that he trying to ask my best friend out. but it is true he told me he want something to happen between them two. but if she is a good friends she should not let him flirt with her. i ask him to do something with me he said he don't know. but when my friend ask him he say yes without thinking. what should i do about this?

2007-08-05 19:05:33 · 7 answers · asked by My Tien L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a 16 year old female who has had a very hard life living with my grandparents and not my parents.. My brother was taken from by DHS from my parents as was I. I moved around a lot durning my freshman year and didn't do so good in school. My mom is a drug addict same as my dad and they try to walk in and out of my life. I want to move out so I can be away from all the drama and unstableness that goes on where I live.I have a boyfriend who is willing to help me, i am fixing to get my GED, and a job plus a stable roof over my head. I need to leave on my own to see if I can make it without having to depend on my grandparents like their 34 year old son does my dad is a BUM. Please Please Help Me With My Situation. I need to try to get out or I feel like I will be drug into my parents lives and I dont mean that in a good way (LITERALLY).... SOS

2007-08-05 19:03:47 · 15 answers · asked by Mel 1 in Family

What do you think about online dating? Lately that has become very popilar to look for a date/partner through online dating sites like perfectmatch.com, My Space, facebook, ect. but does that really work to look for a potential relationship through that way?...

.I mean I think in a way its kinda corny that someone would wanna look for their potential "soulmate" or lover, boyfriend/girlfriend, partner, ect through the internet instead of meeting someone in a more natural and casual way like at school, college, work, church, mall, park, ect...Not only that but its kinda like awkward arranging a meeting with someone u dont know online to meet with them face to face and probably both of them thinking in the back of their minds that when they meet they will get probably get intimate, you know what I mean? instead of meeting somone in like a chance encounter at a park(per say)....

Have any of you done the online dating thing? through which sites and how did it work out for you?

2007-08-05 19:03:27 · 8 answers · asked by Butterfly 2 in Singles & Dating

i wont let my ex go out with guys that i know will go out with her for sex and she doesnt realize it. shes still a virgin i think. but ive always pictured us losing out virginity to each othrer ever since we were best friends. she told me she wanted to stay a virgin until she was married like 2 years ago and it meant alot to me. i guess thats why im terrified it wont be me. shes so pure. i love her so much but idk what to do. its been 3 years and stuff and i love her for who she is, im not just lusting. but idk what to do.

2007-08-05 19:02:56 · 13 answers · asked by incineratethemachine 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, I posted this question last week, but it was mis understood. The follow ing is a rewrite:
Ok, so, my little bro is 12 and i'm 16. He wants me to give him the talk about sex. I know alot from my dad, but can't put it to words. I need to know what to tell him word for word!
HELP!
P.S. For some strange reason he will only listen if i tell him.

2007-08-05 19:00:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I brush eat mints use mouth was chew gum!!!!!!!! and still nothing!!!!!! we have been dating since the 16th!!!!!!!!!

2007-08-05 18:55:05 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been married for 1 year, and it's almost a sexless marriage. I dont kno why we have this problem cos, we both love each other very much and really want to make each other happy.
My husband has a stressful job, and is tired all the time and does not seem to want sex at all and even if he is not tired he's not possible to get aroused.
And I cant seem to enjoy sex, because I keep thinking I HAVE to enjoy it. So we both have problems that we need to sort out.
My husband does not feel comfortable talking to a counsellor.
We decided to give it a try starting from today - how do I make this more enjoyable for both? and I want him to want sex and not just do it for the sake of it.
How do I excite him? any advice/tips?
I would like to try massage therapy...where can I find information on this ( on the net)
and how do I relax during sex?
Thank you sooo much

2007-08-05 18:50:52 · 14 answers · asked by sapphire_wisdom 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 20yrs and interested in dating women between the ages of 22 and 30. Where are the best places to go to find SINGLE older women?

2007-08-05 18:45:59 · 19 answers · asked by black_nemesis03 1 in Singles & Dating

I would like to know the average length and width of the American woman's vagina, I know some vary, but.... I'm try to do a report for my anatomy class, and I picked this question.

2007-08-05 18:41:05 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i know its sex but is it a position????

2007-08-05 18:30:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have found this to be tremendous therapy, knowing I'm not the only one with problems. I'm gaining more confidence as I give out my opinions, advice, I'm feeling better with every answer I give! Heck I came on here to ask a pathetic question (still hurt over it) but wow, healing fast! For those of you asking questions because you are hurt, keep reading a bunch and throwing in your own two cents - you'll start feeling better.

2007-08-05 18:25:42 · 13 answers · asked by restlessprincess 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-05 18:18:48 · 14 answers · asked by firebabe208 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Or maybe how should I tell her? Her and her fiance don't make a lot of money. In fact she is the ONLY one working and has two jobs. She is paying for the wedding by herself whilst he contributes nothing and smokes pot all day long. He doesn't work and has no plans to ever get a real job. They've had fights about his habits that have made her want to end things but then she talks herself into sticking with it becuase she loves him. It makes me uneasy though because I think it's a mistake. I don't want her to regret marrying him years later when they are still broke, still living at his mom's house, and part of HER hardearned paycheck is still paying his drug habits. Should I voice my concerns? And if so how can I do it without losing a best friend? I just don't know how I'm supposed to stand as her maid of honor at the wedding and watch as she makes vows to someone that I think will only hurt her in the end.

2007-08-05 18:17:13 · 6 answers · asked by jinxmalfoy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Why is it so hard to find a good friend.................i mean a friend you can talk about everything.........you can lean you`re head on ............without he is thinking about having sex with you................a friend you can call in the night when you can not sleep...................a friend who is there whenever you need him..............why is that so hard to find????????????????

2007-08-05 18:13:58 · 8 answers · asked by night_age_germany 4 in Singles & Dating

If the father didn't sign the birth certificate, does he have any rights to the child? She already filed for Child support, if he was to give up his parental rights...would he have to pay? Paternity has been established, he's the father.

2007-08-05 18:12:37 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

okay ... let's just say that i am having some serious problems with family. one: my mom verbally and (sometimes) physically abuses me. two: i have an autistic 2nd cuzin who touches me and no matter how many times i tell them to make him stop, nobody seems to give a ****. three: my father won't speak to me anymore because i won't go to his (third) wedding. because of all this, im going through serious depression. if i tell the cops what goes on, i dont know if my moms gonna track me down and kill me or something. idk what to do! give me some advice so i can survive what i call my "teen life".

by the way, im only 13, so i cant move out. =(

2007-08-05 18:12:31 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family