i wont let my ex go out with guys that i know will go out with her for sex and she doesnt realize it. shes still a virgin i think. but ive always pictured us losing out virginity to each othrer ever since we were best friends. she told me she wanted to stay a virgin until she was married like 2 years ago and it meant alot to me. i guess thats why im terrified it wont be me. shes so pure. i love her so much but idk what to do. its been 3 years and stuff and i love her for who she is, im not just lusting. but idk what to do.
2007-08-05 19:02:56 · 13 answers · asked by incineratethemachine 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If the two of you have a good relationship, you should be talking to her about this.
If she loves you and respects you, she's not going to go sleep with someone else while you are dating. You can't force love and affection, though, so if she has grown away from you, you might have to let her go.
Controlling her in any way will not keep her close to you - it will only turn her away from you. So, by telling her she cannot go out with someone else, you are effectively giving her a reason to walk away from you forever.
2007-08-05 19:08:55 · answer #1 · answered by devyl gyrl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about you all getting back together, see what she says, tell her how much you love her and remind her of the plans that you all had made, tell her you would like to keep your promise to her and one day get married, so you all can live happy and have kids( win her back.) Tell her you love her so much until it hurts to see her with another guy, and you know that they are out just to get her virginity.
2007-08-06 02:12:14 · answer #2 · answered by I am women 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you Love her, tell her. Don't send guys after her that jsut wanna use her. Do you really wanna think about them touching her in such a Loving way? If you truely care for her, don't try to make her have sex with every guy but yourself.
2007-08-06 02:07:11 · answer #3 · answered by Nib 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm afraid she's your ex, meaning that you don't have much say anymore. If you are genuinely concerned for her well-being, you should express it to her.
You seem to care a lot, but make sure you do things for the right reasons. Don't be narrow-minded in thinking "Mine! Mine!" Reason with yourself before you confront her.
Good luck!
2007-08-06 02:06:55 · answer #4 · answered by wolfey6 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Gealousy
2007-08-06 02:05:48 · answer #5 · answered by Jerdy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just tell her how you feel. I know that's the most cliche answer, but it's the truth. You'll forever regret it if you don't. Life wouldn't be worth living if it was without risk.
2007-08-06 02:06:30 · answer #6 · answered by Sparechange 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since she's your ex, it's obvious she doesn't want you. And therefore, it's none of your business who she dates and it's not your job to interfere in her life.
2007-08-06 02:05:59 · answer #7 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get over her, she's your ex not your gf so it's no longer any of your business
2007-08-06 02:15:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont let em go out just for sex
2007-08-06 02:05:47 · answer #9 · answered by chris 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Respect her wishes & enjoy your time together.
2007-08-06 02:05:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋