How old should they be?

Question

I have a few questions:

1. How old should a girl be before she can date? why?

2. How old should a guy be before he can date? why?

3. If you chose different for 1. and 2. ages please explain why, if you chose the same ages please explain why.

4. How old should a guy be before he loses his virginity? why

5. How old should a girl be before she loses her virginity? why

6. If you chose different ages for 4. and 5. please say why, if you chose the same ages please say why.

If you have any other comments on this general subject I would love to hear them, well actually read them..

Answer 1

1. when they are mature
2. when they are mature lol =)
3. i chose the same
4. when he gets married
5. when she gets married
6. i chose the same for 4 and 5
peacee =)

Answer 2

1. 14 or 15 years old because she is mature

2. 14 guys are more mature everyone knows that no offense to ladies.

3. Because older guys know more and the ycan take care of a girl. For example if a girl start crying well the guy will know what to do so he will do his job in taking care of a girl.

4. He should be like 19 but now days its more of like 16. Why is that well its because ppl now days are drug addicts and think its all cool. But then again its wrong.

5. Girls should be 19+ because she would know whats right or wrong at that age.

6. I dont F---- know its the type ppl we have now days lol.


I dont know why would u ask this but then again maybe this will help u and u wont become a manwhore or a skank.

Good Luck !

Answer 3

1. Umm maybe any age after 13, but it also depends on the girl.
2. same as # 1, just it depends on the boy
3. Im not going to set a double standard.
4. Preferably 17, its a little more mature than other ages.
5. Same as 4.
6. Im not going to set a double standard.

Answer 4

my opinion on the matter? it all depends on the person. everyone matures at their own rate, that in mind.

1) experience says 13-15, but if i were a father i'd want to say 17.

2) again, experiecne says 13-15.

3)i think parents are generally more comfortable with sons dating younger, i'd rather have a son start dating at age 13 than a daughter.

4) absolutly no earlier than 16 and even that is too soon.

5) same as for a guy. but if it were my daughter she'd better be 21 at the youngest.

Answer 5

1. 16 - it's a maturity thing.
2. 18 - they mature slower than girls.
3. They mature at different rates.
4. 18 because by then he should be an adult and making responsible choices, if he's not, then he's old enough for his parents to say too bad, so sad, and not have to have the burden of raising him and his kid.
5. 18 same reason as for the boy
6. just read the reasons already stated

Answer 6

For 1 and 2 - I'd say 16. Younger then that is too young for either gender in my book.

As for 4 and 5 - preferably over 18 but definitely not before either gender is actually in love with someone and in a long-term relationship. Waiting for the right one is the way to go.

Answer 7

No set age, just simply when they are ready, when they are mature enough to understand consequences for actions. When you engage in sexual activity, you take the chance of pregnancy and STD's....both can be very life changing. If i ever have kids i think the age limit will be set at 16....as far as viriginty goes, thats up to them. I have friends that lost it willingly at age 9 all the way to some that waited till 25(both of those examples are women btw).....

Answer 8

It depends when the grl and boy both feel comfortable and the dating part is pretty much up 2 the parents until the kid is over 18! and 4 sex no younger then 16.

Answer 9

I think dating should start around middle school. Naturally it will be light crushes then, but it's a good way for kids to interact and get ready for future social situations.

For sex, there isn't really an age. Ideally, whenever they get married, but I would think before 17 or 18 they wouldn't have much of an idea about sex or how to handle it maturely.

Answer 10

i think boys and girls should be allowed to date around 15, 16. at this age they should have the propper teachings and understandings of a responsible young adolescent.
virginity... not everyone feels the same about sex. some are ready before others and some are ready later. (i lost my virginity at 17 and a half.. thats when i felt ready.) they shouldnt be having sex until they are old enough to understand the responsibilities in having sex.. safe sex. not only to avoid pregnancy, but also to avoid s.t.d's. they shouldnt be having sex until they are able to buy their own condoms..lol.