he told me he eventually wants to meet but I have had these reoccuring nightmares that this large stranger that is a guy is hurting me really badly in my dreams
is this a sign of what might happen if I decide to meet him, what do I do?
I don't want to meet him, I don't wan't anything to do with him anymore
help me with some advice please!
how do I break it off with him so that it's not obvious . .
like a casual break up?
mature answers please but I'm accepting all answers!
2007-08-05 19:23:22 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to stay away from this guy. He is preying on you, and will only continue to do so. You can always blame your parents, "I'm sorry, I cannot talk to you anymore. My parents have been checking into my online activities and have been very upset with me. Please do not contact me anymore."
If he continues to contact you, you may need to alert your parents and get them to file a complaint. You can also just block him.
I hope you have not given him any personal information, but I am going to bet that you have, even if it was unintentional. If he seems angry with you, definitely let your parents know what is up!!
2007-08-05 19:30:45 · answer #1 · answered by devyl gyrl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you do need to walk away. A 50 yr. old man talking with a 17 yr. old (he's not right or maybe even not all there) No offense on minors but a normal 50 yr. old man wouldn't be trying to meet a 17 yr. old. Think of it like this...if you were 50 do you see yourself trying to chat and meet up with a 17 yr. old? NO. You can tell him the truth and you don't feel right talking to him(you don't need to go into you being scared or your dreams) just end it and don't reply no more at all. If he wont stop emailing or if he threatens you at all-you need to tell your parents or even a school counselor. If you gave him any personal information to let him no where he could find you-then I would tell someone as well...just to be safe and not sorry!
2007-08-05 19:39:56 · answer #2 · answered by confused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please do not meet him if you are feeling this way. Does he know where you live, your number, the area you live in, your real name or any other information about you?
The only reason a 50-year-old is interested in a 17-year-old is for SEX! The personality and maturity of a 50-year-old is very different to a 17-year-old, even i wouldn't want a girlfriend that young and I am only 25.
I recommend you tell your parents. Cease contact or tell him you are moving.
2007-08-05 19:31:35 · answer #3 · answered by GW 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a 58 year old man... and I'm telling you to damn-well stop communicating with that guy RIGHT NOW!
No more eMail, no phoning, no snail-mail, or whatever else... nothing! DO NOT answer him in any way, shape, or form anymore. Stop your relationship with him "cold turkey". Period!
Let me tell you, girl, he is interested in you for sex, and *only* for sex. At 17, you're what's known as "forbidden fruit". You are nothing to him but a potential ****-toy. Sorry, but that's how he fantasizes about you.
So you cut him off *right now*... unless, of course, you don't mind becoming "just another statistic".
2007-08-05 20:05:54 · answer #4 · answered by watergoat06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I appreciate that you don't want to hurt his feelings by just cutting him off but, believe me, he will understand.
If you wish, you may mention that you have discussed this with your parents and they have forbidden you from talking to him. If he persists, tell your parents. On no account meet him or give out your address.
It is unfortunate, don't you think, that we live in a world where people your age and people his age can no longer be friends?
2007-08-05 19:36:19 · answer #5 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, those nightmares might be saying something. I wouldn't meet if i were u. U can easily block his Email. Your 17 and he's 50? It sounds like he has something up his sleeve.
2007-08-05 19:31:04 · answer #6 · answered by King James 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well tell him that your parents have found out that your talking to a 50 some yr old gentlemen and they don't want you talking with him. Or you could simply say that your uncomfortable talking to a man who could be her grandfather and that you would rather not meet him. Which would be the truth.
2007-08-05 19:27:37 · answer #7 · answered by Koty F 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have to be kidding. If this is a cop, this is some lame detective work. If somehow this is serious, you dont need a PHD to know that you should have never started email communication with some strange old man. Now your having nightmares? Come on now, a lil common sense please.
2007-08-05 19:31:14 · answer #8 · answered by topofnewyork4 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If his only form of contact with you is email, then you're safe. If you haven't given him your full name, what city you live in, or what school you go to, then you should be fine. Also, tell an adult such as your parents if you still don't feel safe. You should have nothing to do with such an old guy. He is most likely up to no good if he is talking to someone that is far from his age. Be safe.
2007-08-05 19:27:43 · answer #9 · answered by invisib0l 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ok Be Very Polite, Tell Him he is to old and you are looking for poeple in you age group, And dreams are signs of future it might sound crazy but they are, thats the way god sends us warnings he sends us nightmares not to scare us to inform us of wat could happen if you dont change wat you doing, And He could be a sex offender if you know his name then look him up in the doc search screen then if hes been to prison it will show or if he has got a dwi or anything, and if he keeps on Block him from your e-mail and if he finds a way to contact you then it is time to go to the police or tell your parent or gaurdien and they will take care of it
2007-08-05 19:34:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋