Well he is a nice guy not looking for sex he met her and now he likes her and she likes him
2007-08-05 19:26:46 · 63 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
11 is too young to be doing ANY dating...let alone an 18-yo.
2007-08-05 19:28:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself this because I know this is about you. I don't know if you're the 18 or the 11, but I have a good feeling that you're the 11. What does an 18 year old want to do witha 11 year old. My boyfriend is 27 and I'm 18. He didn't start dating me when I was 9 and he was 18. He started dating me when I was 18. I know you might look older and maybe much more developed than other 11 year olds, but why in the world are you in such a hurry??? What are you about to miss??? You are 11. Don't grow up so fast, it will come back and hunt you later on in your years. Relationships are a lot of headake. Give yourself a break, let yourself enjoy life as a child cause you're going to have all of your life for all that other crap. When you're going to be at the age of experiencing life, things won't be exciting anymore because you already been through them. You might think it's cool to look and act older, but when you're going to be 22 and ask people how old you look and they say 30, you will feal like crap and regret what you are doing now.
But if you are the 18 year old. F*ck off!!! You're messing with a child's mind, you piece of sh*t. You can't get people your age for a reason, you lame parasite. Let that chield enjoy life. Let that child be a child. I'm 18 and I can never see myself doing that. It's sick coming from you. You make me sick.
2007-08-05 19:40:53 · answer #2 · answered by Girlie Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Still that is like rapest. I mean she has not even got into the 6th grade and he likes her. No something is not right about that. If i was her mother i be like "im sorry young lady but there is not way you are going out with a 18 year old."What is the parents of both of them thinking. The 18 year old could go to jail if the littlest thing would happen. i sure wouldn't want to take that chance. Maybe if the girl was a little older. Same year appart but diffrent ages.
2007-08-08 15:59:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ridiculous. They could not possibly have enough in common to date. Even if he is not looking for sex, which, pardon me, I highly doubt, an 11 year old is NOT mature enough to be dating anyone. At that age the most she should be doing is going to movies in co-ed groups. Definitely NOT dating anyone boy exclusively and certainly not someone almost a decade older than she is. Please inform her parents or someone of authority, a school counselor or teacher as soon as possible. Even if he thinks he "likes" her and doesn't want to hurt her, then he is hopelessly immature and not bright enough to be dating anyone. Why can't he find a girl his own age? He is either intimidated by them or they find something "weird" about him. And there is definitely something weird about an 18 year old who wants to date an 11 year old child who has likely not even gone through puberty yet.s
Please tell someone in a position of authority immediately, so this child does not get hurt.
2007-08-05 19:48:45 · answer #4 · answered by LindaLou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WTF!?!?!?! a 11 year old dating a 18 year old?!?!?!?!?
omgoodness.
1. a 11 year old shouldn't be dating. yet.
2. a 7 year difference. when the younger person is younger than 16 or 18. is BAD! bad things can happen.
yeah okay. so he's a nice guy and he's not looking for sex. SO WHAT!
that might change. he's getting older. and he's not getting younger either.
omgoodness.
im about to have a heartattackk
whoo.
2007-08-05 19:32:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
id say its bad... how can an 11 year old and 18 year old be on the same level in anyway.. physically, mentally, socially what is that? 5th grade and 12th grade or college? id have to say that that spells trouble... that would be like me dating a child from the after school program i used to work at... thats badddd news.. i hope the parents know.. actually i hope they dont know yet because if they approved of this something would have to be very wrong
2007-08-05 19:31:28 · answer #6 · answered by sweet_carofine 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why the HELL is an 11 year old "dating" anyway??? and that perverted a** 18 year old needs help... That's SICK... She's 11... how the hell does she know what she likes... and as for him... put him in jail now... before it's too late... The signs are clear as day...A future pedophile on your hands
2007-08-05 19:30:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
18 on 11 there is a sex drive it is impossible to not have one. And this is very wrong at that age it is very easy to mess a girl up emotionally for the rest of her life. She is still in her own puberty which means she is still discovering herself you should definitely let someone know about this because that is not right at all!
2007-08-05 19:29:47 · answer #8 · answered by Koty F 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
An 11 year old SHOULDNT even be dating. Kids should be kids for as long as possible! I can tell you right now if he is 18 he wants alot more than what he makes out. You will see.
(Boys only want younger girls because they are virgins).
2007-08-05 19:30:59 · answer #9 · answered by collielver 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dating an 18year old is not bad. What do they talk about , the age gap of 7 years is nothing . if started when the 11 year old is say 19. I feel all the same you can like and love a person regardless of age.
good luck
2007-08-05 19:32:17 · answer #10 · answered by ritarayar 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If you know this guy, tell him hes going to jail... Sex or no sex, if anyone finds out they are having a relationship, hes going to jail....By the way who would let their 11 year old have a boyfriend.??????? The mother must be crazy??? What?
2007-08-05 19:34:20 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋