I planned a nice birthday party for my almost 2 year old daughter coming up soon. I sent invites out and everyone knew the date early. Turns out, my husband's brother (also my daughter's godfather) has to be out of town on business. I guess I was naive to think that his new wife (my sister in law) would come, even if he couldn't since - oh, I don't know, that couple is named in our will as the people who would raise her if we died? I hadn't heard an RSVP back from her, so when I saw her at a wedding this weekend (a wedding for our husbands' 3rd cousin), I asked if she could come, and was surprised to hear her say no. She is having visitors in town during that time, and - here's the kicker - says her husband told her she "didn't have to go" since he couldn't be there. Um.. excuse me? Am I alone in thinking that going to a birthday party for a niece is a no brainer, and that she should have planned to come? My feelings are hurt at her nonchalance. Is she cold, or am I nuts??
2007-08-05 17:02:40 · 4 answers · asked by sadsil 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
That is kinda rude especially since they are the godparents. Are the out of town guests family or friends could their visit be postponed or could they be solo for a couple of hours for her to attend the b-day party. Maybe you should tell them how you feel they may not know they hurt your feelings and won't unless you tell them or they read this question. Good luck and have fun at the party don't let their rudeness spoil a fun day for your pride and joy
2007-08-05 17:09:16 · answer #1 · answered by rwvsm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but I disagree. Birthday parties are for children. There really is no reason for a lot of adults to be present except to supervise, and the other parents will no doubt help with that. It is perhaps nice when aunts and uncles can attend, but their absence should not be cause for this much drama, particularly when you know that they will have out of town guests. And while the role of godparent is solemn (especially to you), it really shouldn't be a factor unless you and your husband have plans to pass on within the next few days. Perhaps your sister-in-law had another good reason not to be there, and I can't say that I blame her.
2007-08-05 17:34:51 · answer #2 · answered by Tom K 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she really had visitors from out of town then I would say that's a good reason to miss the party but the part where she said her husband told her she didn't have to go, that's just lame. I would probably be a little offended, but don't get too worked up over it.
2007-08-05 17:28:04 · answer #3 · answered by bree 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is cold
2007-08-05 17:07:04 · answer #4 · answered by Katie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋