I ahve known him for 5 years... we love each other a whole lot we not based on sex nd he never makes me do anything i dont want to... im 16 nd he is 19... He came to meet my parents nd dey had a problem with his age... I dont see a problem with us bein together... our love his mutal its not just something i think
Him: it like dey all against us
ME: wat they think dont matter... its what we think, nd what we want
HIM: we got 2 fight 4 dis relationship
ME: Well i love you enuff to fight for it... Do you?
HIM: yyyyeeeeaaaa
ME: lol well den dats all dat really matters... right?
HIM: yea u rite
So do u see a problem... nd y... nd if you dont... still why?
2007-08-05 16:34:49 · 25 answers · asked by Lakay aka Mizz B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No its only 3 yrs! As long as you are mature enough to handle it (which im sure you are!) Good luck!!!!
2007-08-05 16:38:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would probably be concerned as a parent but I would not judge just because of the age difference. If he treats you with respect and you are still following the rules of the house then your parents should consider. But, if it is just that your parents are not ready for you to date in general then maybe you should listen to them. Parents only look out for what is best for thier children. I know it is hard being sixteen and thinking you know what you want but remember your parents have been around a long time. Dont push a relationship too hard...just maintain a healthy friendship and your parents will really grow to like him if he is all that you say he is. GOOD LUCK!
2007-08-05 16:41:44 · answer #2 · answered by TB 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age is just a # so have fun but don't do anything ur not ready yet cus some of the thing yr bf is ready 4 could be something you plan in three years from today so if you both understand and love each other very much, i think that's what really matter;)
2007-08-05 16:41:47 · answer #3 · answered by Lala 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-09 07:32:51 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see any problem with it, otherwise everyone would marry someone who HAS to be of their age, and that's kinda stupid. My husband is 4 year my senior, and I have a friend who got married with a man 10 years her senior, and they're happy. Probably your parents don't feel comfortable at the moment cos you're still in high school and he's already 19 and all. It wouldn't be a prob after you grad, I guess.
2007-08-05 16:41:40 · answer #5 · answered by Hanna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll back away from the consensus here and say that I don't see a HUGE issue with the age difference between you two.
HOWEVER, you're 16. Nothing lasts forever. Causing a huge rift between your parents now isn't going to help matters. Sure, you feel like Romeo and Juliet, but really...we're not in a Shakespeare play here and you still have to deal with your parents.
Sit down and talk to them. Find out if it's more besides his age. Maybe you can work something out.
2007-08-05 16:39:49 · answer #6 · answered by ~*~ strryeyedgrrl ~*~ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im with my boyfriend .. Im 15 hes 18 .. my parents dont care .. age doesnt matter .. Ive been with him since I was 14 and he was 17 so thats prob why .. were 2 yrs and 10 months apart
2007-08-05 16:38:06 · answer #7 · answered by Britney 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they have a problem because your under age and he's over. 3 years is nothing later on when you get older, but for now yea, it is. You are lucky to have parents that want to protect you. If you can keep going slow until you become of age and he can wait for you, then you're sure to be happy in your future. Trust your parents on this one....
2007-08-05 16:44:42 · answer #8 · answered by restlessprincess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a little old for you! If he really loves you he will wait till you are of age! You have a lot to do and a lot to see yet..Don't get involved with an older guy! He's more than likely been there and done that! Your just starting...If you really want to be with him take it slow!
2007-08-05 16:43:01 · answer #9 · answered by queenbezzzzs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend is 16 and dating a 20-year-old, and I swear I wouldn't be surprised if they got married (they're about the only high school couple I can really say this for, but...). Do what makes you happy.
2007-08-05 16:38:21 · answer #10 · answered by Olivia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to explain to ur parents that age doesnt matter...
my parents are about 20 years apart (yes they are boaters) and they still love eachother very much.
do his parents have a problem with age?
i personally think 3 years is nothing
2007-08-05 16:39:02 · answer #11 · answered by andy a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋