I am involved in with a great guy, but we had some bad times so he went and told his family about them. Now they look at me funny and I have been disrespected a few times. But, he finally told them to stay out of our affair since I was about to leave him alone I have no doubt that he loves me I can't began to tell you it would take up so much of your time. I care a great deal for him, he was kicked out of his family's house so now we're roomies, I just wanted him with out his family. Any one ever been here before? I would even consider marrying him I care about him alot even though I was disrepected by his family, I just I know how romeo and Juliet felt Help me please no depressing answers I care about him but please keep it real people thanks alot
2007-08-05 16:43:41 · 4 answers · asked by Gingersweet 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
parents are nothing ok n dont worry what his parents are saying to you ...all it matters that you have a great guy with you that actually sacraficeing his life just be with you...just dont worry what his parents are doing to you...because they are not the person who to judge who you are... just tell him that whose gonna be their for him until death and whose gonna support him for life until death and thats you whose gonna do that alrite n i hope everything works ok
2007-08-05 16:54:46 · answer #1 · answered by asian senorial 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move. You and your man find you another place away from his family. Tell them straight out girl. How you feel and what they are doing to you. If they dont repect you now they never will. Been their me and my partner gave them no choice. You either except me or stay out of my way. Dont visit them, ring them or anything like that. I sat back and waited till they came up my drive way and knocked on my door. It will happen. Good things happen to those who wait
2007-08-05 23:49:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My sister-in-law's mother once told her "you don't call and tell me every time you make love, so don't call and tell me every time you fight". Your man should have never made your personal affairs public to his family. It's up to him to make it right. Make sure he knows that you are willing to work on the relationship, but he must remember to keep your personal life just that, personal.
2007-08-05 23:47:40 · answer #3 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he will always love his family BUT everyone needs to find someone outside the family to love to start their own family --- when i first got married we had a lot of problems with both sides of the family hers never really came around and mine eventually accepted her as one of the family ---- best wishes
2007-08-05 23:48:41 · answer #4 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋