this girl i have been seein says that she won't have sex with me for 3 months because she said guys have used her in the past, i was cool with it because she would do THAT OTHER THING(down), but now she has stopped doing THAT OTHER THING, and i am becoming a little frustrated, i mean i really like this girl and don't want to lose her but i have like 3 and half weeks until the 3 month rule is over, so i am wondering does she not like THAT OTHER THING and do women in general hate doing THIS OTHER THING or do they feel pressured into doing THAT THING,
2007-08-05 13:57:33 · 20 answers · asked by ebocka 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, her fears are well founded because it seems like you are just using her for sex like her other experiences.
2007-08-05 14:00:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Many, if not most, women do not enjoy performing oral sex. Often they will because they think they have to in order to keep you. Now, she may simply be testing you. If you can't even make it less than a month without some action, then you're not worth keeping are you? And maybe the problem is you're being selfish. Sure, she's been keeping you happy, but have you returned the favor? If so, more than just a token amount? So it's either a test to see if you are just after her for sex (which seems the case from this question), or she's feeling used already and isn't willing to put up with it any more. Or it's both.
Either way, it's time for you to prove your devotion, if there is any. If you really just want to score, it's time to move on before you hurt her any worse.
2007-08-05 14:05:25 · answer #2 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well, dude, about whether she hate DOING THAT or not, all depends on the girl. Some women like it, others hate even the thought. Maybe she got tired of doing that, and is waiting for the three months to be over. I really wouldnt worry about it, and besides, u dont want to ask why she isnt doing THAT anymore, cause that might give her the impression that all you want is sex. Besides, your wondering about THAT other thing, when ur real worry is if that means that she's leaving you. But dont worry, she has her reason for stopping, so dont put too much pressure on her to do THAT again.
Hope this helps
2007-08-05 14:12:22 · answer #3 · answered by ROCK ON 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well some girls like doing it and other girls like me feel very pressured to do it she probly got tired of doing it and needs a break if you cant go 3 1/2 weeks with out anything like that then jack off and btw she may not want to do it after the 3 month rule is over... you never know... good luck with that
2007-08-05 14:06:17 · answer #4 · answered by Charli W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't really excite me to do "that other thing," I do it because he likes it. I don't really understand why she has stopped doing it for you, it's almost 3 weeks away till she will give it all to you. Have you asked her about it? You need a good talk with her now before she breaks her "3 month rule" too.
2007-08-05 14:05:04 · answer #5 · answered by Kate J 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you need to just give her time. Chances are "that thing" is making her uncomfortable and she wanted to take a break from that to reevaluate your relationship. Also, when the three month period is up, don't pressure her to have sex with you. Let her make the first move. If she doesn't for a while then bring it up and ask if something is wrong.
2007-08-05 14:09:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I have news for you, sport. THAT OTHER THING is sex. No matter how you slice the cake and you shouldn't pressure your girl into anything she doesn't want to do.
What are you going to do if she decides she doesn't want to have sex at all? Relationships are more than that, dear boy and it seems to me that the only thing you're interested in is getting off. You say you like her, but you're frustrated. Who cares. Do you really like her? Or do you like her mouth on your d*ck?
Maybe you should break up with her and find yourself a sl*t who doesn't care about herself or her reputation.
2007-08-05 14:01:59 · answer #7 · answered by lanagrl78 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You have already agreed to wait 3 months for sex, so you can't really go back on that unless you want her to think that it's all your after. As for "THIS OTHER THING", just ask her why she stopped. I mean, what sort of relationship is it if you can't talk about that sort of stuff?
2007-08-05 14:05:12 · answer #8 · answered by *KK* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel your pain...I just broke up with "a champion other thing doer" Just do things to turn her on and hopefully she will reciprocate. Furthermore, I would question her regarding some of the things she's done in the past that she regrets. It is more her, than you.
2007-08-05 14:04:31 · answer #9 · answered by Buddy Love 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just wait a little longer. And doing "that other thing" does get a little boring sometimes so maybe thats why she stopped.
2007-08-05 14:14:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't pressure her, when she's ready she'll tell you and if you really like her, give her the time to come to you, because a girl hates nothin more than being pressured into sex believe me
2007-08-05 14:02:33 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋