you got drunk and talked about a woman you heard about at the comic convention. I heard she was hot woman who was amputee who wore the machine gun leg like in "Grindhouse". (haven't seen Grindhouse, she says it looks stupid.) She says I was standing on top of the bed talking about this woman I've never seen and that she was hot. She ended up ignoring me and going to sleep. I had hoped for some hotel sex after the RUSH concert. (Earlier, my wife said she was so happy she would have had sex in the back seat in the parking lot, but there were too many car close by.) In the morning we had sex, but she didn't want to even look at me so she put a pillow over her face while we did it. Later was got breakfast, but then she wouldn't talk to me the whole rest of the day, and still is distant.
2007-08-05 13:48:41 · 21 answers · asked by ralph 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I didn't go to the convention, I only heard about it.
2007-08-05 13:54:33 · update #1
She doesn't care how drunk I get, as long I don't do anything illegal or vomit in public.
2007-08-09 11:04:49 · update #2
duh! what are you nuts.......how would you feel if she ranted and raved about her trainer at the gym ...or the guy next to her at the office..........
2007-08-05 13:56:45 · answer #1 · answered by Sam h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly don't see the big deal. Granted, I don't know all the circumstances of you marriage, but if my boyfriend wanted to have few at a concert it wouldn't phase me. This is mainly because he almost never drinks--twice in the past six years--so I'd just figure it's a special occasion type thing. Do you frequently get drunk when you have plans with your wife? If so, that may be part of the problem. If not, she should really let it go.
As for talking about that woman, I don't see the issue there either. Women talk about men from movies and TV shows being hot all the time. No big deal.
2007-08-05 21:37:20 · answer #2 · answered by thegnomeofwrath 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No mater how fat we are or how fine we are, we always want to be the only sparkle in your eye sight, so just imagine the old saying when a person is drunk they speak a sober mind, now back to the point. If the role was switched and she talked about the guy who just got back from fighting this great ole war and he looks like Stone Cold Steve Austin, but he has a real long LONG fake wooden leg how would you take this.
2007-08-13 20:13:20 · answer #3 · answered by sodgirl6763 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a winner!! Drunks use alcohol as an excuse to act out their real feelings. Truth be told you honestly do not respect her. You are not the person with the problem.. It's her for putting up with such an inconsiderate loser. Good day.
2007-08-05 20:59:34 · answer #4 · answered by Marbel R 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you have to ask that question when you already got the answer. I think no woman will ever thank you for getting drunk when you get away on a weekend, idiot! She's expecting romance. Now surprise her on a weekend getaway and dont ever get stupid again. You hear me?
2007-08-05 21:04:29 · answer #5 · answered by johnmonroe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a real prize! Gee, getting drunk, ranting about some other woman, then forgetting all about her. Sweet, nice little weekend.....You should be apologizing to her and trying to make it up to her, and don't forget how she's feeling so you won't do anything like this again.
2007-08-13 12:54:10 · answer #6 · answered by makeloans2 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reverse the situation. How would you feel? And don't try to tell us you wouldn't care. If you had any speck of love you would care. That is why she is upset, she loves you and she cares, and she is jealous. She wants your attention on her, which is where it should be. Let her cool down, and don't mention this "hot chick" or any hot chick, for your own sake.
2007-08-13 12:21:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would of been a lil upset but I wouldn't of been a b**tch abt it. Sounds like your wife needs to loosen up a lil bit. Or she took you getting drunk a lil to hard. Depends on how drunk you were and if you embarrassed her.
2007-08-05 20:56:59 · answer #8 · answered by nana_14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be really pissed off. Sorry, but wasn't the weekend suppose to be the get-away. Also, If I was her, while you we're sleeping your smash off, I would of rolled your butt outside the door to sleep it off. Can you blame her for being distant to you? I sure heck wouldn't. You really are getting off easy for your behavior.
2007-08-13 01:17:17 · answer #9 · answered by honeybee4u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is stupid if you take your wife with you for the weeked she want you try to spend sometime with her also.
So what you talked about other woman big deal it matters who your with her.
2007-08-13 11:24:13 · answer #10 · answered by mmurray001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be mad if my husband did that to me. FYI no woman wants to hear their husband talk about how hot some other woman is.
2007-08-09 17:29:28 · answer #11 · answered by Emily G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋