guy behaviour - guy answers appreciated?

Question

ok so this is what happened:

My boyfriend logged onto my myspace page. And instead of reading about me and asking about me and what i had on there and finding out more about me he found a comment made by a girl whose picture he liked. he went to look at her and page instead, telling me he thought she was pretty. Completely disagree with this. Am i being unreasonable or is he someone i should just drop and not waste anymore time with.

yeah he does look at my page, but seriously, that just felt a little wrong.

yes the comment was the first one made - ie at the very bottom of the page

Answer 1

You would hate me. Im a people watcher. I will be with my girlfriend and dinner and she will say Ryan, Ryan? I will say im listening but check that girl out. She is very pretty. She turns around and says yeah she is.

I notice everything and make comments. My girlfriend knows I would never cheat on her but she knows im going to look.

Its kinda like the mona lisa, nobody cares if you look at it, but if you touch it, they will cut your balls off and put you in jail forever.

Best advice I can giveyou.

Answer 2

Well maybe he was just making a comment, it shouldn't be blown out of porportion. But also need to watch him close if ever he does it again maybe he is looking but I don't see nothing wrong with looking at a picture of a girl and making a comment on it. Maybe your been insecure for some reason.

Answer 3

It could be one of two things.

He could have just been remarking on the fact that he though she was pretty because he saw the comment.

Or hes someone who you should dump because he finds her attractive.

Find out if the comment was further down the page to see if he was just snooping or it happened to catch his eye.


Maybe you should just talk to him and really ask him about the situation.

Answer 4

My ex-boyfriend used to leave me the same mushy messages on my comment page as another girls - myspace is a good place for stalkers - so of course, I had to check out my competition and found that he had been leaving us both the same messages. When I called him on it, he said we was too lazy to do different messages - but I said, why do you need to leave her love notes. Needless to say, not my bf anymore!

Answer 5

WTF?

he is a jerk-off. Girl, you need to drop him. You could get so much better. No girl deserves him. It would be different if he went to her page by himself and thought you weren't looking, but to go to her page right infront of you..and say she is pretty..is just really jerky.

Answer 6

This issue is soooo case sensetive, it's not even funny. The best advice I can give you is to talk to him. Ask him what he meant when he said she was pretty. Maybe he was just joking. If he was serious, he won't tell you unless he WANTS you to dump him. There isn't really any generic advice for something like this. Talk. Thats it.

Answer 7

Did he go back and read your page at least? If so, I wouldn't dump him just yet. He might have just been randomly clicking on stuff that caught his eye. But watch out for other signs that he may wander.

Answer 8

He sounds a tad immature. He needs a couple metaphorical "slaps up side the head" to understand when you should or shouldn't say something.

Answer 9

i think guys are like that already.
its annoying but u cant really stop it.
i mean if there was a hot guy.. would u go look at his page? it doesnt mean that u like them because they're hot it just means u wanna check them out.
i dont kno how guys think. but yeh.

Answer 10

If he really looked at someone else's profile and not yours......

definitely not worth it.

He's obviously more interested in the other girl than you.

sorry.