Well....this past week @ church, we've had Vacation Bible School, and it was a lotta fun, BUT I met this guy, hes 16, and im 13, and at first, he was cute, but now I could careless. hes been texting me alot, and talking to me on myspace.....and he curses and drinks......and as a Christian, I think its the right thing to do, SO I am thinking about leaving him a message on the comp. and telling him that......I dont want to end up cursing, and drinking, so I dont wanna talk to you anymore, and he doesnt live in my town, and plus....I think thats theres a pretty big diff. in our ages.....well being as young as I am. So do you think im doing the right thing? For MY safty?
2007-08-05 08:29:47 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We arnt going out.....hes just a friend, the quite francly, I dont want to be around.
2007-08-05 08:42:14 · update #1
Well, you have answered your question. I agree with you fully he will only bring you down with him, stay away from him. I really like seeing that some people still have their heads screwed on right.
WELL DONE!!!! :)
2007-08-05 08:34:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a Christian you would let him know that you don't think it's right that he does what he does and you do not feel it's good for you to associate yourself with him any longer...
Block him from Texting you... Delete him as a friend on myspace so he can't leave you any messages. I know you can do that.
You are right, there is a HUGE age difference when your 13 vs 16... He's ready for more and you are NOT!!!
2007-08-05 15:35:19 · answer #2 · answered by Susan Goodknight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I applaud you for being a great person. Yes, you are doing the right thing by telling him. Stay away from negative people they will bring you down. You have a good head on your shoulder and you do not need someone like this in your life even if he is just a friend. You need someone that is spirtual like you are. Good Luck!
2007-08-05 15:34:58 · answer #3 · answered by escape 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you are over reacting a hella lot.
If you don't want to drink and curse then DON'T.
Your being very snob about this guy. If you don't want to go out with him don't.
Cursing and drinking doesn't make you a bad person.
So what he's not the perfect Christian? There was no such thing.
2007-08-05 15:35:28 · answer #4 · answered by Miss Revenge 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If you don't like the idea going out with him, then Yes - send him a message, but don't tell him it's because of the drinking thing. I don't think you should mention that.
I sort of see it as preaching him about it.
2007-08-05 15:35:09 · answer #5 · answered by Alice_d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you are doing the right thing guy at that age really dont care about much of any thing anyways you dont want to be hanging around any one that isnt a cristan out side of church
2007-08-05 15:35:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel it was the right thing to do than you are. nobody can truely tell anyone what the right thing is because there are different options for the right thing, its just which would be right for them. but from the sounds of it, yes you are doing the right thing. and way to go for sticking up for yourself like that to be yourself instead of what others want you to be, thats deffently always the right thing to do.
2007-08-05 15:35:18 · answer #7 · answered by Leesha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm. Tho he sounds a lot like me and mi friends (we're not Christian), since u 2 r so diffs. I think u r making a good choice.
2007-08-05 15:32:55 · answer #8 · answered by vampsshallruleagain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T say anything about him being a bad influence on you to him! He will take offense of that. Just tell him that the age difference bothers you and that you are not ready to have a relationship with a 16 year old. That way, no one looks bad...
2007-08-05 15:32:50 · answer #9 · answered by Tue T 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I would tell him that you are not interested and try not to say anything that may upset him. Just say that and don't reply to his messages. Good luck and I think you're making a wise choice.
2007-08-05 15:34:52 · answer #10 · answered by The Curmudgeon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋