Family & Relationships - 31 July 2007

i feel like i have done a little too much as to chasing this guy. I have seen him out and about for the past couple years and he always tried talking to me but i blew him off,i saw him out recently and now that i am over my x i was into him,so i found him on myspace and sent him a message asking him to get together sometime,he replied right away with yes,and then continued to ask which salon i work at.i replied with,"why?you need a haircut?"and he recieved the message and no reply. do guys not like a girl making the first move?should i forget him?

2007-07-31 10:52:19 · 10 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend who i did something nice to and in return was mean to me because that person perceived that i was ''after'' him and i was causing marital problems for which were totally untrue on my part. That person who was so nice before was mean and when i confronted that person and said what they did was brutal, they just gave a snicker...a so what snarl.... but i got the impression it was kind of half hearted and the person was embarresed that i confronted them. That person probably didn't expect it. We had been on really good terms and totally on a friendship level. That person took a gift(t-shirt and magazine and newspaper articles, postcards, from a trip and a letter explaining what had been happening in my life as i hadn't seen this person in months) in the totally wrong way and just did a 180... what are your perceptions?

2007-07-31 10:52:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I don't know where to turn but here asking for some insights. I've married for nearly 5 years. During the marriage, he'd cheated on me once with a prostitute and several others with his online lovers. But everytime it happened, I've learned to forgive and hoped that he one day changed.Two months ago while visiting my mom, I caught him chatting again with females. His intention is more than being friends with them, I know this. I decided to leave and did that two months ago. he called me once in a while, but said he willl file for a divorce. Two weeks ago before he left for his 5 months deployment, I went to see him just b'cause I missed him too much. We talked things out and agreed upon many things, mostly to work our marriage. He left the next morning. Three days ago on the phone, he spoke so mean to me. I couldn't handle it, I said if he doesn't stop I'll hang up the phone. He said if I am the marriage is over. I was upset that he gave me the ultimate. I did hung up. He meant it

2007-07-31 10:51:24 · 27 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I love the way high heels look but I can barely walk in them, I even trip in one inch heels. I was trying on shoes one weekend at the shoe store and literally tripped up in a pair of heels. I really want to wear them at my wedding, though. Other then the fact that it looks better then wearing flats, I don't want to look so short in my wedding pictures standing next to my fiance who is a foot and a half taller then me. So should I do heels or not?

2007-07-31 10:48:00 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

We have been seperated for 4 months and I refused to sign her "uncontested divorce" papers that she printed on line. I want to find out if she has proceeded to file anyway.

2007-07-31 10:42:13 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and i have been happily married 15 yrs..My best friend cant believe that we have never tried anal sex..She said her and her husband do it all the time and its great but i told her that we have no interested in that and she said we are weird cause most if not all couples have tried it...Is she right about that..I told her that i ask hubby 1 time if he ever wanted to try not that i did but i just ask casually and he said "no thats gross"

2007-07-31 10:36:15 · 33 answers · asked by emma v 1 in Marriage & Divorce

White pant or black pants (especially in the summer)

2007-07-31 10:36:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

whenever im on the computer he has to say what r u doing? and when i say im on the computer he comes and looks for him self. and he constantly checks my own email and says "who is this person?". he wont let me go out to the movies with my friends unless a parent is going and he treats me like a baby! he told me i wasnt aloud to have a bf so i have to hide my boy friend from my dad. he also wont let me on myspace so im sneaking that too. i just dont know why he acts like that all of the time to me. (im 13)

2007-07-31 10:34:42 · 13 answers · asked by PresleyRenee 2 in Family

I am in love with a married man...I actually took me to his house when his wife was gone..we didnt do anything but talk...but i was so nervous and i felt so bad! We habve more of an emotional bond than a physical one...I know..it is bad and i feel terrible steooing foot into their home...how do i get over him?!! Should i tell his wife or will that make it worse?

2007-07-31 10:33:37 · 33 answers · asked by lovehim 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-31 10:31:22 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I sent this guy I know a myspace message asking him if he wanted to get together sometime,he replied right away with yes, and then asked what salon I work at,he said he was 'just being nosey'. I replied with'why?, do you need a haircut?' and he received the message and has not replied. its been two days, why no reply? what could be going through his head?

2007-07-31 10:29:30 · 5 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex fiance is now coming to my town every day. I broke things off due to the fact that we argued and he threw me into a fence and tried to throw me down. I have been the victim of assault years ago and couldn't get the look he had on his face at the time to go away. I simply can't forgive him.
He used to say that we had a long distance relationship-the reason he would hardly come to see me- I had to go to his town, which is only 12 miles away.
Now, he shows up here every other day and shows up at any place I go with my friends. He calls them and trys to find out what they are doing, though he avoids actually asking if I will be there.
The day after I took the ring back and told the store to call him to let him know I returned it to them (I didn't want to see him face to face) so that he wouldn't have to pay for it, he left me a voice mail on my cell phone that actually admitted what he had done. I have him saying: 'I wanted to beat your a#**, you need your a@#** beat!" help

2007-07-31 10:28:40 · 9 answers · asked by lissabeth 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a good friend who is male. I wanted,on my end to be more than friends. As time went on, it just never came to that point. But it's fine because we are the best of friends. Anyways I hadn't seen my friend for quite a long time and we just drifted our own ways. This was fine too because this happens in friendships.
A year later, this friend comes by my job to say hello to me and to just talk a bit. Then again we part company.
I later run into another friend and tell this friend that so and so stopped by to see me. This person whips around and says "Oh! you know, he's gay! I saw him holding hands with another guy!"
My first reaction was that I was stunned, than I recovered and said to that person that no matter what, I will always be the other person's friend!
The person in question never told me that he was gay all the time that I knew him. Should I confront him with what I know or just let things be because he is still my friend regardless!

2007-07-31 10:27:01 · 8 answers · asked by December Princess 4 in Friends

Please, i am looking for some extremely open minded women to listen to my fantasy. Im not a phsyco, im a normal guy with very different fantasy.

i have a fantasy about being shrunk to a couple of inches tall by a good looking lady and then eaten alive (swallowed whole not chewed). Are there any open minded ladys out there who may find this interesting. Anyone who would eat me if they had shrinking powers?

Please dont call me names, and please mail me if you have any questions you would like to ask or if you have any further comments.

Thankyou

2007-07-31 10:26:20 · 51 answers · asked by Den D 1 in Singles & Dating

1. I left my credit card and the waitress took it and I had to use the bathroom. When I came back the credit card was processed and he put my signature looking at the back of the card and he said I did it on behalf of you.
2. He asked me how much I am making.
3. He called me as unknown and then he opened uo his number. Then a 2 weeks later he called me once as unknown again and when I asked him he said he called his family and he made the number unknown.
4. He cancelled out a scheduled date to see his friends.
5. He called after he is done with friends and called me next day and asked me why I did not call him. I said I wanted to give him space since he said he will call me and I let him call me.
6. Once in his place, I put my cell on the coffee table and I used the bathroom. When I got out, he was going through my cell.

2007-07-31 10:21:52 · 4 answers · asked by bubi 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-31 10:18:44 · 7 answers · asked by kelly 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My friend called me the other day and told me that her husband has asked her for a divorce.They only got married in January.He told her the reason was that he doesn't love her anymore and that they are facing such a financial hardship that they can't get out of and he doesn't want to try.That very night that he asked her for a divorce he also told her that he bought a box of condoms because he thought it would make him feel better.Well,they aren't having sex and he's not staying at the apartment and neither is she.She went back to the apartment today to get somethings,the condoms aren't there and she found some items that don't belong to either of them.She decided to drive over to his work to see if he was there because he told her this morning that he was working all day,he wasn't there.I'm afraid she is obsessing and is carrying a false hope.I'm also afraid that she will find out that he is cheating and that she will loose it.He told my husbasnd last nite that he wasn't cheating

2007-07-31 10:12:35 · 24 answers · asked by Erika Schmitt 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband claims I nag all the time and treat him like he's 2. Keep in mind, he has been gone in the police academy for 6 months. I have raised our 2 yo pretty much by myself due to his work-related long-term absences and his work schedule (works opposite hours I work and usually takes daughter to babysitter during the day so he can sleep, fine). The other day, we went to visit him in Chicago (we are moving as soon as I find a job). Leaving the hotel, some of my belongings (none of his) were in the room and we would have to make a second trip to get them. I asked if he had the room key, because I didn't. He said he was going to leave the door open to go to the car. I said no because my things were in the room. He got angry because I was "treating him like a 2 yo", correcting his decision that he said, "didn't effect" me. THEY WERE MY THINGS!!! HIS THINGS WEREN'T THERE TO GET STOLEN AND I WAS MAKING THE TRIP BACK UP TO GET THEM, SO WHY DOES HE CARE IF I LOCK THE DOOR OR NOT?!

2007-07-31 10:08:47 · 20 answers · asked by Lady in Red 4 in Marriage & Divorce

my 1 year anniversary is Aug 31, I need ideas of something to get him, we don;t have much money and i got him an expensive watch yrs ago and he never wore it so that idea is out.... we didn't have a wedding ceremony so i can't put a photo album together of anything.....

2007-07-31 10:06:12 · 9 answers · asked by Life*goes*on 3 in Marriage & Divorce

what is so important about breasts?

2007-07-31 10:01:43 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-31 10:00:24 · 21 answers · asked by kate n 1 in Singles & Dating

Well? A lot of girls say its about personality. Really, or are you lying? I know you like hot guys because I like hot girls. But I'm a tall lanky guy myself, not hot.

2007-07-31 09:57:43 · 12 answers · asked by jblack988 1 in Singles & Dating

I stay with some of my friends in an apartment, but there is one girl is very close to me.. she has a boy friend but in another country.. we are so close.. and i can't stop thinking about sex everytime we are near and talk till late at night .. one day we kissed but i didn't do anything further coz i think it is wrong.. but how ? she is so attractive to me and we seem to like each other a lot

2007-07-31 09:56:55 · 44 answers · asked by NICK MCNITE 1 in Friends

Hi. please give me your honest opinion about my poem, i am 15 an i dont know how to judge if a poem is good or not

My feelings for you will for ever be there
The feelings for you I yearn to share
Alone I sit thinking of you
My love for you will always break through
In my heart I know you feel the same
But to you it is just a game
I know I can’t have you in my mind it is true
But my heart yearns always for you

Thanks for reading

2007-07-31 09:55:34 · 9 answers · asked by greyfox 2 in Singles & Dating

there is a girl that lives near me, im not sure she likes me. i have "met" her 5 or 6 times, when i get in the vicinity of her, i cannot make eye contact or be near, i seem distant and cold, im very shy and not confident, i have no self worth. ive been to her house a few times, each time i cannot talk normal, ive only responded to her in a simple fashion, "yes, no" e.t.c i am not myself around her.

im very good at masking myself so it may seem i dont care, or seem cold when im not like that, i just cant maintain eye contact or even create conversation. ive been out with her and others, she sat opposite me but the whole night i did my best to ignore her :( . i didnt want to but i couldnt help it. ive never had a girlfriend. my friend told me she thinks im good looking.

the problem is girls expect the guy to make the first move and ask them out, i cant do it, what do i do? is she waiting for me to ask? i dont have confidence or agressiveness to ignite it like other guys.

2007-07-31 09:53:20 · 16 answers · asked by mecicoplajjer 4 in Singles & Dating

My g-friend cheated on me with this fag and she called me a loser without a life and I need someone to tell me about a good song that'll win her back please help me!

2007-07-31 09:52:58 · 9 answers · asked by elijahkan8 2 in Friends

I know a few people who are into these series and go to Sci-Fi conventions like ComiCon or BayCon, and a lot of their conversations revolve around this stuff. I don't think I could for t his reason.

2007-07-31 09:50:18 · 9 answers · asked by mymammoth 3 in Singles & Dating

My friend is on a very compex situation, he moved about 1 year ago to another city, finished high school and started college, but he is planning to move back to my city. He said he really misses us (friends) and this girl who he really liked. He said he didn't adapt well in school and has no friends and nobody to hang out. But moving will be complicated... let me organize on pro and cons


Pros
- he will come back and hand out with his old friends
- he might get the girl (which is going out with another guy, so i'd give 40% chance she goes back to him right away)

cons
- his father won't back him up
-he will have to work for the "extra" stuff like cooking and driving and living by himself

What do i tell him? Just tell everyone to **** off and go after his happyness? Or just stay where it is safe and confortable and try harder to adapt?

2007-07-31 09:48:06 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My highschool was just being finished up from remodeling over the summer and the gym's inside
was being painted with our school colors and decorations, etc.
Lots of the kids who are going into the senior class next month volunteered to paint it and my brother was one.
and this little, Christian, witch, Adria just happens to also be one of them.
Late Friday afternoon, he and she were the only two left.
and she claimed that he raped her.
We have no reason to suspect this is true because he came home just like any normal day, he's been doing this for two days out of the week
for the past month, and nothing seemed out of place about him or anything.
Now, she was taken to the hospital, and was found with semen in her that matched my brother's blood type.
However, the thing ppl don't know is, she was dating my first cousin who was a senior off and on at the same time
and his family is Christian. And she completely denied this to the doctors because they asked her if she was seeing anyone and she lied and
said she wasn't.
you know the type..blonde, gorgeous, rich daddy, loooveeesss Jesus yet a total s l u t who can't keep her legs closed
and a b i t c h to everyone? Yet she gets away with it because she's so active in the church, and leads the youth group bible study.
So no one believes you who doesn't go to your school and everyone who does is already friends with her and they're just the same?
Her parents are just as bad, they were somehow able to get intelligent Design taught in our school, which wasn't too hard because the entire school board is either
Orthodox Christian or Catholic.
My brother would honestly never do anything like this!! He is the sweetest guy. He
helps out at the homeless shelter, and sometimes does food drives for my school.
And my parents and I, believe this was some type of ploy against my family because we're Atheists.
She has never been nice to me OR my brother. My brother really liked her one time and asked her out
and she told him to spazz off, because she wouldn't date someone who was stupid enough to sell their soul or some stupid crap.
And that really hurt his feelings.
He is only 17 and we don't think it's fair that she said that just because my brother is an Atheist.
What should we do?

2007-07-31 09:47:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my girlfriend broke up with me, but i still love her, and its been only a couple days. she acts like she still loves me. i really wanna be with her, but im not sure if she wants to be with me this is our second time to break up. should i stay, or go, or what should i do?

2007-07-31 09:47:23 · 30 answers · asked by j_matusalem 1 in Singles & Dating