Family & Relationships - 31 July 2007

Tired of having to go places where liquor is involved. Prefer a place where we can get to know each other without any reservations but not having to be in a motel/hotel. I need a very gentleman, honest, sincere, loving, outgoing, needs to have a secure job, sponteanous, loves to travel, loves sports, and music. Must enjoy musicals. Must be a great lover and enjoy sex to the fullest. Where are you, I know you exist. Must be at least 6 feet tall.
Another quality this man must have is a good sense of humor. Good education and must enjjoy family get togethers.
Hope its not to much to ask for!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-07-31 21:34:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She has been treated bad by a lot of people. I am trying to be nice to her but it is getting hard. She is divorced and is dating a younger guy and is getting hard to mess with.

2007-07-31 21:32:31 · 2 answers · asked by Michelle Y 1 in Friends

i don't know what to do...
I am 30 yrs old and in a 5.5 year living together relationship, we have our problems but we work them out, anyway I want to have kids and we have talked about this over the years and have agreed, ok this year we will have kids but it never happens, there is always a reason why the kids thing cant happen that year. My point is, i'm over it and I'm pretty sure I want to leave and go out on my own, but I feel scared cause that would mean I would be starting all over again, but if I stay i know I will be wasting another year with this person. He says he wants marraige & kids but nearly 6 years later, I'm over it. Has anyone else been in the same situation and left the relationship?

2007-07-31 21:29:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2007-07-31 21:16:17 · 2 answers · asked by davidsmiller2000 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-31 21:11:50 · 10 answers · asked by manoj v 1 in Weddings

She has a lot of problems right now in her life.

2007-07-31 21:09:46 · 8 answers · asked by Michelle Y 1 in Friends

Ok, I have a friend that goes to the same school as me, we like to hang out and everything but, at school he always teases me and embarreses me, for example i asked a serious question about when guys got sperm..and hes blabbed all to my friends about it..

But the wierd thing is, outside of school when he comes over my house he is normal and never teases me or anything and we get along really well.

Its pretty obvious hes trying to be cool by teasing me, and I've had a serious talk to him about it but he doesnt takeit seriously, laughs and walks off.




Is he my Friend??

2007-07-31 20:54:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have told my dad for the 1st time over the telephone for the 1st time that he is my boyfriend. I didn't want to lie to my dad that i was with a friend because i figured it is not good for my boyfriend & also i don't lie to my dad over such things.

I don't know how my boyfriend felt but i sense that he was very happy. He even told me to send his regards to my dad while i was chatting with him. My dad lives in the other end of the state.

So guys, how do you feel in this situation? Happy? Surprised? Honored?

I might be wrong but is this also a male thing for you - to be accepted by the father of your girlfriend?

Any insights are welcome!

2007-07-31 20:50:15 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-31 20:33:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

not too long ago i met a guy in college. he is 22 years old just finished university in england and as a matter of fact he topped his dicipline. he has recently moved to Canada. he is gentle and kind and very generous. he also has old fashioned etiquetes, opening doors, paying the bill, walking to the door etc. i heard that he dated briefly in college but doesn't date anymore. i asked him why he doesn't go out any more and he said he finds dating a waste of time. he wants to finish off his post graduate specialisation, find a decent job, have his own place (he is house sharing at the moment) and only then he wants to be involved in a relationship. he is a muslim, not very practicing but i know for sure that he is very careful. he doesn't drink, indulge in premarital sex, gamble, discuss other girls etc. and he is not gay!!! i really like him and find his company very charming. he doesn't want to date till he settles down (which is another 2 years or so, till he turns 25)

2007-07-31 20:32:45 · 6 answers · asked by bushra m 1 in Singles & Dating

We have been dating for six months. The best six months of my life. Rarely any problems or fights (if they are, they are over nothing!), great sex, great fun, great friends. It's everything I ever wanted in a relationship. A couple days ago he slept with his ex who was very abusive. Physically and emotionally. (stripper crackwhore, literally). He was very drunk (no excuse) and is very devistated, I can tell. He loves me and I can tell that too. I love him very much but am kinda stuck. How could this happen? His ex wont stop bothering him. Where do I go from here cause I want him in my life still. Any advise would help.

2007-07-31 20:27:44 · 19 answers · asked by annbannan 1 in Singles & Dating

To give you a little bit of info about myself, i do allright for myself i have 2 cars i am a secretary at a hospital pretty decent home I really work hard for the little bit of things i have. Now I am what some call mixed my mom is black and my dad is white i was raised black not that any of that is a issue, but I am confused we got into an argument just b4 it ended & he called me poor white trash what was that about?????

2007-07-31 20:25:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-31 20:17:05 · 12 answers · asked by Tam 2 in Singles & Dating

OK. I'm going to be a fresh(wo)man. Everybody that lives around me is one year older than me, and I don't exactally like them all that much; they do bad stuff. SO, as if going on a bus with them isnt bad enough..I need help on what I should do when I walk OFF that bus and am on Campus Alone! It'll be hard to find my friends from Junior High. ALSO; what should I do when It's time to go to lunch & I don't really know anyone? I'm nervous as heck! I don't want to be stressed/nervous/scared all at the same time for my first day!

Thank you guys!

2007-07-31 20:16:35 · 10 answers · asked by Beckkky 1 in Friends

The dream I had was about my exboyfriend and first love. In my dream I met his fiance and I was ok with it. Do you think that means that I have truly moved on and am ok with seeing him with another woman?

2007-07-31 20:12:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

his wife was gone and now shes back and he stills wants to come by and talk from time to time. ive explained to him i cant see him until he is over with with her. he said he plans to leave her whether we be together or not. but in the mean time he wants to come by and say hello and talk for a while and leave. we are not intimate anymore since she is in the house with him. i have feelings for him that are very deep and its hard to let go. we work together so its hard to stay away from him. i cant change jobs at this time. he keeps coming at me to talk to him as if we are friends or something. i cant look at him that way. i dont think he wants me to date anyone else while he is trying to leave her and get his own place. i need help in learning to say no and stick to it. it could takes months for him to leave and get on his feet if at all. so how do i let him go and stick to it. its very hard cause i have feeling for him. but i know its wrong. plz no nasty remarks.

2007-07-31 20:11:01 · 12 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Singles & Dating

I'm a guy, and I have a friend who I like a lot. He is quite sanguine and I sometimes have trouble talking to him in public/social settings. He is very popular and I'm not, so I'm afraid of what ppl might think. I'm concerned that if ppl see we are friends they might dissuade him from being my friend. U know, sometimes guys behave affectionately but in a non-sexual way? I want to but I feel afraid that ppl might assume the wrong things. It is so frustrating, society expects guys not to have feelings or affection in public even among friends.

2007-07-31 20:09:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ive already got ova the infatuation and have moved onto the real deal, eg loving the good and bad about him weve already planned our whole lives together. do you think i should stay steady or be exited about our future?

2007-07-31 20:08:37 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

She's about twenties (more than 16 years younger than me) still a virgin and her parents seems a bit strict, we got together sometimes and do all sort of things except penetration, lately she wants me to de-virginized her I explained that she should reserved it for her future husband but recently she asked again when will I do it but I was thinking that she might regret it when she finally found someone right for her.

If I asked a guy he will tell me to go for it so now I asked for ladies' opinions.

2007-07-31 20:07:14 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know they say an ex is an ex for a reason.

But apart from that if you did. Did it work? if so what happened if you dont mind sharing.

2007-07-31 20:02:51 · 14 answers · asked by . 3 in Singles & Dating

I masturbate around 1-2 times a day but i would like to lower it to atleast 1-3 times a month because i can;t seem to ejaculate without pornagraphy and i really don't want my first time to take me 30 or so minutes to ejaculate. Can you help me?

2007-07-31 19:59:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i want to tell my boyfriend that i'm not happy in our relationship but i dont want to end it. he gets really jealous and selfish at times and i can't stand it. i love him though and no matter how much he hurts me i always love him. i want to tell him this but i dont want him to get mean or angry about it because whenever i bring something like this up he does. what would be some ways to tell him this without making it sound like i'm breaking up with him and how to keep him calm while i'm talking? thanks!

2007-07-31 19:57:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have lived together for 6yrs. We had a big arguement over a car and she moved out and now lives in her moms second house. We patched things up over a 5 month period and I finally ask her to marry me!! She asked me can she have time to think about it. How long should I wait?? (She has in the past asked are we ever going to end up married and I replied "when we are both ready and finished with school.) I'm in my early 30's and she is in her late 20's.

2007-07-31 19:54:55 · 6 answers · asked by help101 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-31 19:50:58 · 15 answers · asked by wishfulthinking 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Most of my friends have done it already and say it is amazing. My bf keeps telling me how great it feels and that he loves me. I have thought of it but I am scared of something going wrong like a unwanted baby or an STD. I don't know what i should do. Id love some advice cause i really need it.

2007-07-31 19:47:37 · 65 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I had to stop taking birth control for health reasons so I asked my BF to start wearing a condom from now on and he refused. He called me selfish and either I get back on the pill or we won't have sex. What gives?

2007-07-31 19:47:15 · 29 answers · asked by JuDyLicious 3 in Singles & Dating

sometimes i hear these voices in my head....i try to make them stop but sometimes they get really really loud. they tell me to do theses things that i know are wrong. i try to fight them but sometimes they over ride me. then they go away for a couple days. then sometimes i black out for a couple hours and dont rember what happened or how i got somewhere. i guess my question is this normal?

2007-07-31 19:46:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am 13 years old and have never had a boyfriend i feel it is because i am overweight and spotty whenever i ask my friends they always say i am pretty then change the conversation but when i hear people saying im ugly behind my back i always feel lonely and depressed please help me

2007-07-31 19:44:55 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i m a 22 yr old girl n i m presently seeing a guy for the past 1 yr..i had my belief tht i wud not hav sex till i get married..my bf is not a virgin..n i had told him tht we ud not hav sex until we get married..he was completlt alrite with it..but until recently we r getting really attracted to having sex..i mean we almost had sex once..n since then i m really scared..i dont want to do it..but wen we r alone..i cant stop myself..giv me some ideas of how i can stay away frm sex..n save my relationship also..coz i hav a feeling tht if i break up wid my bf..i can avoid having sex..i m really confused..i cant stay away frm him..wht do i do..please help..!!!

2007-07-31 19:43:42 · 16 answers · asked by naina s 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Here's the blunt truth. I can't get it up or hard like I used to and I leave her feeling unsatisfied. What are some good tips?

2007-07-31 19:42:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating