Why doesn't any1 like me?

Question

I am 13 years old and have never had a boyfriend i feel it is because i am overweight and spotty whenever i ask my friends they always say i am pretty then change the conversation but when i hear people saying im ugly behind my back i always feel lonely and depressed please help me

Answer 1

hehe.. u are talking as if u have lived your entire life out.. kiddo u are JUST 13 .. relax... having a boyfriend isnt a necessity.. trust me.. its a pain... u take one year at a time {}

Answer 2

Regardless of whether you are pretty or not so pretty there is someone for everyone. You just have not met the right person. In school years, people are very superficial. You may have problems if you are overweight. The real world is very different. Most people are not so cruel when they get older, and more mature. Try eating all vegetables for one week, do not have any sodas, or sweets, and you will lose weight. When I was your age, I was 20 lbs overweight because I was depressed over my mom being ill. In my junior year of high school, I lost the weight, and have never had problems again. Just eat plenty of fruits, vegetables, and lean meats. Try to avoid too much pasta, potatoes, rice, bread, gravies, sodas (unless diet), and sweets. Always drink plenty of water, and a glass of milk with your meals if you are not allergic. Milk is not only good for you, but helps to fill you up so that you do not overeat.

Answer 3

What does "spotty" mean?

Talk to your parents about your depression. They may be able to get you help and help you lose weight. If you aren't happy with the way that you look, then you can always change that with a healthy diet and exercise.

Many, many people have a hard time at your age and turn out beautiful as they get older. My boyfriend and I are good examples. We were both nerds in school but now we're hot.
lol

Answer 4

You shouldn't have a boyfriend if you're only 13!

Anyway, don't worry, both myself and my sister were pretty average looking kids, and now we're both models (not skanky car show ones either! She's all over Europe and I have modelled for L'Oreal, couture fashion parades, etc but find it boring sitting under a hair dryer for hours and hours)

I'm sure you'll turn into a swan in a few years. And I'm sure you're not ugly now either, you're just being hard on yourself and the other kids sound like nasty pieces of work. And there's always things you can do to improve your appearance. But you're very young, so don't worry, and trust me you don't want a boyfriend, they'll start to drive you insane soon enough! =)

Answer 5

okay ur 13 yrs ur going through ur ugly phase right now, but don't worry most beautiful SUPERMODELS were wierd and ugly as kids but than they matured into wat they r now. Remeber the last 1 mature is always the best looker, maybe other girls might look better than u now, but give it time u will deveop and guys and girls will be lining up 2 be with u . And if ur fat o well u have 2 choices stp bitching about it and lose the wieght or , love ur body the way it is, I love fat girls :] and ur friends no comment u just NEED a Make over

Answer 6

well just wait for the boyfriend situation....I'm 14 Ive never had a boyfriend but listening to my friends I'm not so sure id like to date a 14 or 15 year old guy..they say they're to immature at that age

id just get better friends. it usually helps alot to get start finding friends in a class you have. my friends used to be kinda like that too but then we got into 8th grade and things just got better maybe they need to just mature alittle

i wouldn't say you are over weight just yet i would say that sometimes but then i would really look and i wasn't overweight i just had some unwanted baggage here and there....start playing sports or working some more exercise into your routine.. i started basketball, running in the morning, cutting out soda, limiting the junk food and eating healthy. it helped alot i feel alot happier and healthy now

hope this helps

Answer 7

:'( im crying for you because u should not feel that way

its ok if u dont have a boyfriend, my friend's cousin got her first boyfriend when she was 23

if ur weight really really bothers you, then go swimming! or running, they're great ways to excersise and lose weight, also watch what you eat

please dont feel lonely and depressed because u have friends who dont want you to feel bad and if people are talking behind ur back, stick ur nose in the air and realize that everyone is beautiful in their own special way

Answer 8

Laura, find friends who will call you pretty because you are...i`m thirteen and i dont exactly catch the attention of most guys but i do catch attention..sorry i dont mean to rub it in you face if you feel that way...but someday you will find somebody that is right for you..and it could happen this school year, it could happen in highschool, it could happen anytime..all i know is that there is someone out there for everyone and we just have to wait until we find that person.thats very hard to do but having a boyfriend doesnt make you cool..and dont go out with a boy just because youre desperate because then people will start calling you a hoe.just wait .

i bet there is someone that likes you but hes too afraid to admit it...trust me..it happens


and arent you the Laura girl that added me on Yahoo Messenger?. why dont you ever get on?..you could IM me anytime.

Answer 9

Look at the mirror first and start liking yourself first. Talk to your inner soul and built confidence in your own personality.
Looks is not everything my dear. Lots of guys like and do love gals who are intelligent with pleasing personality.
All the best!!

Answer 10

Your at a changing time in your life. I wouldn't worry about it, in a few years from now you will be asking how to break up with your boyfriend. Just relax and have fun.