Family & Relationships - 31 July 2007

I'm getting married and unfortunately I have 2 brothers and my fiance has 2 brothers. We both don't have any sisters. Since the groom chooses the best man and groomsmen, he chose his brothers and 2 of his friends for the best man/groomsmen roles. I have no problem with that. But I would like to include my brothers somehow in the wedding. Our wedding isn't going to be really religious or anything so there won't be any biblical readings. Does anyone have any suggestions on how I can include my 2 brothers?

2007-07-31 16:49:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

going anywhere. and really...i know what he was saying. because we went out for 2 months but i only ever saw him twice because i would be gone one week, and then he would, or one of us just couldn't make it. and when i did see him, all my friends were there too, and so we were never together just us two or anything. but it was all about to change this week and we were supposed to be hanging out a lot more now that neither of us were really busy the rest of the summer. but idk.....i still REALLY love him tho. and i always find myself thinking about him and i want to give it another try, but think it might be that we should just be friends for a while and see if he wants to or not after we've spent sometime together as just us you know?? and hes called 2 times, and we talked for about an hour just normal.it wasn't weird or anything. but he burned me this cd he has to give to me and i really want to talk to him and hang out with him but i dunno how to ask just casually about it?

2007-07-31 16:49:10 · 1 answers · asked by thngshvchngedforme 2 in Singles & Dating

Another girl hangs out with him, but his wife is always there. I don't want to hang out with him, but him asking me is starting to make me feel uncomfortable. The other girl says he's just being friendly, but I think he just waiting for the right opportunity at the right time to make a move. My co-worker is kind of naive to me, and I've never heard of a married guy asking single women out for a drink, especially while their wife is pregnant. Now that his wife has had the baby I definitely see no reason for us to hang out. What do you guys think, is he just a friendly guy who wants to hang out, or is he up to no good?

2007-07-31 16:47:54 · 13 answers · asked by tolula 3 in Marriage & Divorce

guys what do u look for in a girl if u got to make ur perfect girl what would be the most importiant part about her? please answer very importiant!!!

2007-07-31 16:45:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I experience a friendly rapport with her???


I’m a 32-year-old heterosexual(straight) single Male who is open-minded, laid-back, confident a n d “being (himself)/myself”; and spiritually humanistic but not religious.



It is at least 4 years since I have either (gone on)/(had a ‘date’) or been in an intimate(non-platonic friendship) with a peer-aged female; of any race/ethnicity; and therefore; my amorous/‘romantic’ skills has become a little ‘rusty’— such skills are as follows: communication/conversation, listening, caring, trusting, emotional(‘feelings’), and physical/sexual intimacy(increase the mutually consentual affection/passion-- hugs, kisses, massages, maybe even sex[presume coitus; and/or giving/receiving oral ‘sex’], etc.)

2007-07-31 16:43:45 · 7 answers · asked by CuriousbyNature 1 in Singles & Dating

my guy and i have this ongoing battle. i refuse to tell him how many guys ive slept w/. he says its because i know the number is more than he has had. he claims he's only been w/ between 10-20 women. i say he's lying. i know my number is more than 20 but i wont say how many. im 26 and have been active since 13. he's 31 and has been active since 14. he claims there is no way i should have more partners than he cause im younger and a female. how many sex partners is too many? how many partners have ya'll had and do you share this info w/ ur boy/or girlfriend? do you lie about ur number? does this even matter in ur relationship?

2007-07-31 16:43:29 · 5 answers · asked by the_kid_doesnt_care 5 in Singles & Dating

I have always had issues being open with my emotions. It took my 16 years to tell my parents I love them.

Here recentally my boyfriend has been expressing his feelings to me in a lovy dovy way. I.E."I feel like we are the only two people in the world. When I stare into your eyes, nothing else matters," I want to be able to do that. I feel the same things about him, but I can't voacalize it. Can you help me? What can I say to him and what can I do?

2007-07-31 16:42:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my parents are so stubborn. they want a strong convincing reason on WHY TO GET IT?

SOME ONE PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!

2007-07-31 16:42:03 · 13 answers · asked by immaboss 1 in Family

wat do u look 4 in a girl????? like wat aspects matter

2007-07-31 16:41:38 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husand will never agree to leave his parents and go live alone as he is totally his mommy's boy...and at times its ok but at times it frustrating i cant make a routine or i cant make my daughter do what i want her to do or learn that is because of the continueous interfernce....i am so confused and depresed as my family doesnt live here so i cant even fo to my home so fast...i dont know what to do it so depressing....having no wasy out....

2007-07-31 16:41:22 · 13 answers · asked by HIRA 1 in Family

Can you please rate this girl and tell me if you think she is pretty?

http://hs.facebook.com/photo.php?pid=924560&id=730900340&ref=mf&pwstdfy=c9445c4a8a2dd18ab30873204251a196

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2007-07-31 16:41:02 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

lets see how many random thoughts we can get on this!! whooo !!!!! lol

2007-07-31 16:39:30 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Please look at my last question....

Today i told her that i wish we could go ice skating again and she thought that i thought it was boring, but i told her i was happy. Then i asked how she felt and she said she felt"...very...happy". I asked her if that was sarcasm because when we were there, something was different and i couldn't tell if it was me or her. She said no, it was more of a crush. So she told me she liked me and i told her i liked her too, but it wouldn't work out. I told her how she was my first kiss and first girlfriend and she said i owed her to be her last kiss in jersey(where we live). Then i told her i had no clue way i liked her and she didnt know why either. But i made a list of possible reasons which was just a long list of things i liked about her, including the way she walks, how her hair is perfect, how she never seems to cry like other girls, the way she can make anything funny, and how she can always make me smile. I typed this to her on aim and i didn't

2007-07-31 16:39:22 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have a 12 year old cousin, her 11 year old brother, and his 6 year old brother. They ALL DRIVE ME CRAZY! The 12 year old disrespects my parents and me even though they stay at our house every weekday after school because their parents are working in the afternoon. They come to our house and destroy it! One time they broke three pieces of my mom's china! She turned as red as a tomato! The 6 year old once dropped my cell phone in the toilet on purpose and when i confronted him he kicked me in my shin and ran away! The 12 year and 11 year old cuss so much that my 2 year old sister and brother mimic what they say! The worst thing is that when me and my parents tell their parents they do all this stuff, their parents deny it and say that we're LYING on them!
I desperately need help before me and my parents BLOW!

2007-07-31 16:36:28 · 5 answers · asked by Magnificent Bliss Rocks! 2 in Family

Well I'm 18 and he is 37 but he has been wanting me since I was 15 he even went as far as asking my mom can he marry me.
WE knew each other through my mother's ex-boyfriend who is his best friend.

2007-07-31 16:35:16 · 15 answers · asked by Miss L 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok this guy is ruining her life and i need to get rid of him. So if you con give me some ideas that are sure to get rid of that *** then i will really appreciate it. You see every thing that I have done didn't even seem to work and I'm out of ideas. She wasn't into drugs and s#$^ like that before she met him so I realy need some good ideas to get rid of him for good

2007-07-31 16:35:10 · 3 answers · asked by Wips and Chains 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I told him to stop texting that woman but it seems that he is still so interested and the woman also keeps on entertaining his calls.How can i stop this?

2007-07-31 16:34:57 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

How does it smell? does it smell good or bad? what about beyonce or jennifer lopez booty

2007-07-31 16:34:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i don't know but it's like everytime i'm around him my blood pressure goes sky high. he's always doing things to get on my nerves he's so irritating, i can't concentrate when he's around and i don't get to sleep cause i sleep in the same room with him so he keeps me up with his nonsense all night and that's one of the reasons i've just joined the Navy to get the hell away from him but that's not the only reason.

i wrote this cause i thought if i shared my frustration with someone else that it would help

2007-07-31 16:33:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

to have sexual thoughts about my cousin. I feel horrible but she is really really cute. Is it wrong to feel this way? Is it considered incest?

2007-07-31 16:29:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My ex and I both met at college. We only dated eight months but we were really close. I loved him so much and im sure he felt the same. About a two months after we started dating we found out that his mom was pregnant. That was a good thing. But then in Feb we found out the baby had a serious heart condition and the doctors only gave the baby a 50/50 survival chance(we started dating in October and broke up in June). At this point my boyfriend wanted more "space." I was tottally willing to give him that but it made me feel like he didnt want me there through a crisis and that maybe it was in a weird way, an exscuse to ignore me a little. But I was still there for him. All through March we hardly would hangout and he would hardly talk to me. I wanted to be there for him. I hardly ever pressured him to go out though because I knew his family life was crazy right then. But he would make plans all the time with me and then cancel last minitue.

After the babay was born things got a little better but then we started fighting all the time. We eventually did break up and I took it so hard. We didnt talk for about 3 weeks but then we slowly started talking again. He always says how he loves me and wants to be with me but "he cant right now." I really love him and want to be with him but I feel like for the last five months I havent had a real realtionship with him. I dont know what to do. I dont kno if I should wait and try to be there for him when he can or if I should try to move on. Its awful because im getting so emotionaly torn apart but I know everythings crazy with him right now.

btw, the baby is about 3 months old and still alive. Not at home, still in the hospital but as of right now hes doing as good as he can be for his condition.

2007-07-31 16:29:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

So this guy I like....this is the second time he has done it to me...shame on me. We went out on a date and about a week later he kissed me...he just got out of a painful relationship so I expected him to go slow. But it has been more than a month since anything has happened but he still tells his sister he likes me. What is this suppose to mean? What do I do?

2007-07-31 16:27:26 · 12 answers · asked by lovely_chickady 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm 13. they keep calling me mean names. mostly just "bxtch", i dont even act meanly i dont do anything. i didnt care at first but NOW i do. my mother always tries to impress my brother, god knows why, hes mean to her. so when HE calls me a bxtch, SHE calls me a bxtch, my dad never does anything about it just shakes his head at them. so today my mom said stop being such a bxtch because she told me to do something and i said "in a minute" she didnt hear me so she yelled the same thing again so i said louder "IN A MINUTE" and she said stop being such a bxtch. i got fed up, and i didnt care, so i called her a bxtch right back.she should stfu people arent supposed to call their children "bxtches" no matter what, what a great example shes setting. if i have children i'm going to be a way better mother then her.

what should i do about this. when they call me a bxtch should i talk back? or just be quiet?

2007-07-31 16:26:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My boyfriend and I have been together about a year and a half and are getting engaged within a year. Our friends are getting married and I'm one of her bridesmaids. Well I was talking to my friend and she said that on the invitation it will say to Jessica and "a guest". But she said he's invited and the "guest" is him but his name won't be on it. I guess it's just suppose to be a what-if something happens. Which I think is stupid since we're getting married too. This really upsets him and I've tried telling him that it'll be ok and they want him there ect. But he seems really hurt by it. And I don't blame him. They're pretty much saying if anything happens with us hes uninvited bc he's not in the actual Wedding and I am, so i guess they can't uninvite me?. Idk he's so hurt by it and I don't know what else to say. He said he's only going to the wedding bc I want him to. What do you all think about this? What else can I say to help him feel better?

2007-07-31 16:25:55 · 11 answers · asked by Jessica 4 in Weddings

I am a writer and photographer for a biweekly magazine, and it's true that i work with a tight schedule and gets very busy during the deadline week. But every now and then my friend would laugh at me, saying i live my life the wrong way, that i shouldn't live it around deadlines and that i am stupid for putting up with this job for so long.

Does he actually have a point or he's just being rude?

p.s : he graduated early this year from college, but until this moment he still freeloads with his parents and wouldn't get a job because 'he doesn't feel like it yet' and 'still want to take things easy in life'.

2007-07-31 16:24:53 · 13 answers · asked by dizzy 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-31 16:24:20 · 7 answers · asked by Ella 1 in Friends

My husband has more excuses and promises than anyone I have ever met. He is able to express himself in ways that push just the right buttons in me and without much effort on his part---I believe! I want my marriage to work and I have accepted every little crumb he throws my way....literally I am like a kid at christmas....everytime I think the big bow means theres a gift....and every time I find out the box is empty, I buy into the sad story, the lengthy excuses, the aches, pains, promises of next time.....I started making a list to see it in black and white and I can't believe how much of this crap I have put up with.....and now I dont have much respect for myself for getting into this mess....and no clue how to begin to rebuild my personhood (hope that makes sense...because I dont know exactly how it got this bad...its been really small things.....that have escalated...and now he trash talks me daily_)....I am strong in other areas of my life....but here I am braindead. Help?

2007-07-31 16:23:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what do people do to control their anger...i really get angry sometimes especially at my aunts and my mother, but i never show it in front of my aunts. my aunt taunts me soo much and agrivates me soo much..then my mom always insults me and then i take out all on her...i reallly dont want this to affect my health or anything...please this is really important i have learn how to callm down, what should i do?

2007-07-31 16:21:41 · 13 answers · asked by apple 5 in Friends

My parents bough tickets to an Indians game ont he same day my high school is having their homecoming dance. I have a girlfriend...the first time i've had one for homecoming so id get to go with some one special to me. And i don't wanna let her down but the tickets were 46 bucks a pop and they've already been bought. They were bough before i even knew about it, so what should i do?????

2007-07-31 16:21:36 · 12 answers · asked by luvsmusic 2 in Family

A lot of people that try to hang out with me are people that i actually despise, and for good reason. They are too sexist, too mean to other people, too cocky, too disrespectful, and even racist. I already stopped being friends with a lot of these people, but if i continue, i would lose a lot of my so called friends. What should i do, and how come i find it hard to find good friends?

2007-07-31 16:20:28 · 3 answers · asked by sandman 1 in Friends