l NEED HELP WITH A FRIEND THAT IS MOVING?

Question

Please look at my last question....

Today i told her that i wish we could go ice skating again and she thought that i thought it was boring, but i told her i was happy. Then i asked how she felt and she said she felt"...very...happy". I asked her if that was sarcasm because when we were there, something was different and i couldn't tell if it was me or her. She said no, it was more of a crush. So she told me she liked me and i told her i liked her too, but it wouldn't work out. I told her how she was my first kiss and first girlfriend and she said i owed her to be her last kiss in jersey(where we live). Then i told her i had no clue way i liked her and she didnt know why either. But i made a list of possible reasons which was just a long list of things i liked about her, including the way she walks, how her hair is perfect, how she never seems to cry like other girls, the way she can make anything funny, and how she can always make me smile. I typed this to her on aim and i didn't

really get a response until about 2 minutes later. It said the " 'the girl' was in the other room and this is her mother, i needed to see something online". I wondered if she saw what i typed. A few minutes later the girl came bac online and i'm not sure if she got the messege, but she said said goodbye because she her friend was coming over, and that she loves me, which i wasn't sure if it was significant because she types that when she says goodbye to me everytime. What do you think she thought?

Answer 1

Scott, Scottie, Scotaroma! The Scottinator! Ether way enough making fun of SNL and lets get on with this life lesson. Done a little research on your situation buddy and I'd have to say this frist love is really kicking that ****. Ether way the problem with youngin love, is that it never changes. Even adults still play it like a butch of lost school kiddos looking to get laid, so understand that if you don't understand love now, you proubly never well, but you can make fun of youngins for not being able to, too thou! Wonderful! Not really, but back to the subject. She loves you cat, doesn't matter what she thought about your romantized list of wonderful qualities she has, or that you guys had one heck of a night skating. Shoot I wish it was that easy.... What it well, and always well, come down to is what she does with that love, and what you let her get away with, and of course also what you do with it, ACTIONS!!!. I'm afriad she really isn't sure what to do with it and unless you ballz up and tell her, just enjoy the ego bust this is giving you but don't expect much from it, plz, or else its going to hurt again. The biggest lesson and HUMAN being can finaly except is that were ALL equals, from man to woman, from retard to genius. We are humans and this human I'm afraid is just like most people from our generation, just flowing along waiting for something deep, meaningful, and intense to follow. So unless you can give her that, its just a matter of time....