to have sexual thoughts about my cousin. I feel horrible but she is really really cute. Is it wrong to feel this way? Is it considered incest?
2007-07-31 16:29:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Bad...stop it...start thinking about me instead.
2007-07-31 16:32:04 · answer #1 · answered by KDJ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's not considered incest in most places of the world, but it is considered in some of the US states. I don't think you should feel horrible because a lot of people have had feelings for a cousin before. Some even date/marry them.
2007-08-01 19:02:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you and how old is your cousin? If your in your peak of teenage years, no its not wrong. Why? Because when your in puberty as a boy, a stiff wind could get you excited. You can fantasize all you want, but to make it reality? Making moves on the cousin. VERY WRONG. Its completely normal to have fantasies at a peeking adolescent age. To act on one ,such as having sex with your cousin, is very wrong. To fantasies about it, is one thing, to act on the impulses and hormones, it is considered INCEST.
2007-07-31 23:39:04 · answer #3 · answered by hbuckmeister 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normal feeling...it's understandable if you're attracted to her. Incest is, technically, within the immediate family but most states restrict marriage between first cousins without special permission (mainly to inform the couple of the potential implications of genetic-related birth defects). European royalty used to exclusively marry within certain close family ties...
2007-07-31 23:36:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is considered incest if it's a blood relative. You could think she's cute, but I really wouldn't take it any further. Maybe you could think more of her as a sister & that might help. But it really wouldn't be a good idea to pursue it any further than that...
2007-07-31 23:34:55 · answer #5 · answered by Sue C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes & No . Its only human to notice when someone is "cute" although it is ok to find someone atractive it is not normal to think of your cousin in a sexual way she is family stop you dirty thoughts there so many other women to look at besides your cousins!!!
2007-07-31 23:39:07 · answer #6 · answered by BulletGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if your just having thoughts about your cuzzin and not doing anything with her sexualy or of that matter then no that is not incest.There are alot of cute girls out there.Try to find one that you are not related it....even though its not incest it still is kinda gross..and wrong.
2007-08-01 00:04:58 · answer #7 · answered by guitarmofo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. It would be incest according to most religions. The law varies from state to state. It might not be a good idea to get involved with her, but fantasizing is normal.
2007-07-31 23:33:33 · answer #8 · answered by nunya b 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not a good idea, especially 1st cousins. You will have to be around them the rest of your life no matter what, which could be embarrassing. I know from exp.
2007-07-31 23:34:19 · answer #9 · answered by Dianne m 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i personally don't think it's so bad. i don't think it's incest, either. but, it's better if u don't
i mean there are tons of cute girls everywhere...
goo luck!
2007-07-31 23:33:03 · answer #10 · answered by Bella Latina, 22 summers 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋