Family & Relationships - 31 July 2007

Some guys just go with easier girls when demure girls don't give in. I am worried if I insist on not sleeping with guys until we have developed a relationship I won't be able to get any guy as they all go for easier catches.

2007-07-31 17:26:42 · 24 answers · asked by prettyinpink 1 in Singles & Dating

been married several times .

2007-07-31 17:25:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-31 17:24:33 · 7 answers · asked by loveseat 2 in Singles & Dating

do guys think that dumb blonds are hot? the ones at my school do but i just find it annoying soo what is your opinion and yes i know not all blonds are dumb and shouldnt judge but seriously!!

2007-07-31 17:23:11 · 14 answers · asked by *Josie* 4 in Singles & Dating

i've never really had a best friend besides my sister. why can't i make friends? any suggestions?

2007-07-31 17:20:07 · 10 answers · asked by sacredsettings 1 in Friends

2007-07-31 17:16:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i havnt been able to find a decent guy ! whats wrong with all of them

2007-07-31 17:16:16 · 25 answers · asked by jan11322003 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been extremely short tempered. I am to a point where I think I need counseling.. I know I need it. I dont want my children to be affected by my temper, but lately I have noticed that I am yelling more and more. I really would like therapy but I cannot afford it, we live paycheck by paycheck and dont have any funds for counseling. If anyone could point me in the right direction or has any information on where I could get free counseling I would really appreciate it.
Thank you before hand, I really dont no where to turn.

2007-07-31 17:15:50 · 5 answers · asked by kazee 4 in Family

she told me she was gay, then later on we were makeing out and she told me the she is still, discovering her self.

Plus i here lesbian girls are crazy... i dont know.

2007-07-31 17:14:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

an xbox so i can get gta Iv, after her birthday ill ask her out again

2007-07-31 17:13:40 · 20 answers · asked by dean 1 in Singles & Dating

skinny, tall, 13, light-brown hair, blue eyes, tan skin, long skinny legs, athletic, glasses, a few freckles, fun, good personality, and good fashion sense

2007-07-31 17:11:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

especially if you'r latino and dating a Chinese male.
in general do latino women find Asian male dateable?
both sides are welcome
thx. in advance

2007-07-31 17:10:45 · 10 answers · asked by j. h 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my husband for 10 yeras. About a year ago, we separated because he cheated on me... since then we worked out or problems and decided to make our marriage work. We went to a marriage counselor and it has done wonders for us.

Well, to make a long story short... a cople of days before my husband and I got back together my mother in law called me to insult me over the fact that i wouldn't let her take my 2 young toddlers to Disney without their father. She started going off on me, and saying how my husband should have left me years before and that the only reason he cheated on me was because I was a horrible wife and he was only with me because of our children. She went as far as saying she was going to call HRS on me....

Of course, i didn't stay quiet. I gave her a piece of my mind before telling her that my children would never go to her house again without their father or I would call the cops and accuse her of kidnapping. (i have always allowed my children

2007-07-31 17:09:40 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what you think about it????

2007-07-31 17:08:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friends always used to tell me that any guy I would date would only end up wanting sex. I guess you could say it was kinda true. At times, anything was really bad. I felt like giving up on love for sometime until it would happen. Like I wouldn't force it to happen. It felt like somehow I was being mistreated & it made me feel worthless. Now I've been dating this guy for well over two months and he's really the sweetest guy yet. He acts affectionate in public and when we're alone. I can see that he does care and my friends see it too. They actually like him and how he treats me. But for some reason, I cant help but feel like I have this haunted thoughts behind my head. Like the worst scenarion can happen. Or like it might end up being too good to even be anything decent and real this time. He's the type to have alot of friends, girls or boys, and when he's with the girls, it's like I wonder why he chose me over them. I know I'm not that worthless, but it's just the feelings I had..

2007-07-31 17:08:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Girls don’t realize that the nice guy has been there all along. He never had to pretend to be a good guy to get girls because he is naturally like that. However, girls don’t see it for some reason or another. They look at the nice guy as a friend, a trusted companion to whom they can tell their sad story to about their asshole boyfriend. But the nice guy isn’t THAT naïve. He was trying to score with the girl he listens to all along. The problem is that since he is a nice guy he keeps listening. Since girls get attached to things that pay attention to them, they think of the nice guy as a friend.
When they get the emotional support from the nice guy, they don’t need it from the asshole. The nice guy gets the **** end of the stick while the asshole gets all the action. I am starting to wonder if being a nice guy is really the route to take to get girls. Girls aren’t looking for nice guys, they say they are but they’re not. Girls look for the perfect asshole,but there is no such thing!

2007-07-31 17:05:58 · 27 answers · asked by JBSF 2 in Singles & Dating

I met this guy about 5 mths ago. After a month of hanging out with one another, we became good friends. It was strictly plutonic. After hanging out with each other almost every single day, I found myself developing feelings for him. He also started changing his ways. Whenever a guy called me he would ask me who he was, if didnt answer his calls, he'd ask me where i was. I was confused because after 2 months he had never but the moves on me yet he was acting jeolous. I made the mistake of telling him that i liked him. He told me he liked me to, but that we should just take it day by day. One night after partying we had sex. The next day he didnt even say anything. We've never talked about it and it's been 2 months. He continues to call me every single day and still wants to hang out. I don't get it. I know he thinks Im pretty because he tells me all the time. Everytime he's with guy friends he wants me around. He continues to question me when guys call me. What's going on? Hes not gay

2007-07-31 17:05:47 · 3 answers · asked by venusluv 1 in Singles & Dating

My best friend says given the oppurtunity any man even a happily married guy would cheat..I agree cause we all know how men are no guy is gonna pass up the oppurtunity for some "strange" even if he is happily married.

2007-07-31 17:04:48 · 35 answers · asked by nicole c 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Tubby is sad.

2007-07-31 17:04:16 · 12 answers · asked by Tubby 2 in Singles & Dating

My ex-boyfriend dumped me for another younger and prettier girl (it wasn't the first time.). I told all my friends and we all agreed that I'm through with him. Then his new girlfriend moved like 5 states away(seriously). Well they broke up and he asked me back out. First I said no even if he begged. Then I said if he convinced all my friends he was good enough for me then I would. Well he convinced all my friends and literally got an his knees and begged me to take him back (I can't make this up). I am so confused. Should I take him back or not?

He was my first love and I still really like him. HELP!!!

2007-07-31 17:02:19 · 20 answers · asked by REY MYSTERIO ROX!!!! 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 7 mos preggo. My bf and I were together for 2 years. We had our issues but I really loved him and we talked about having a baby for a while. Then i got pregnant and everything seemed ok. I know he was a little overwhelmed and he had just opened a restaurant with his family. He decided that he didn't want to have the baby b/c he was too busy. He's 32, I'm 34. I'm a very responsible person and I would have never let this happen had i known he was gong to abandon me. This happened 3 weeks ago and he also sent me a horrible e-mail saying he had another gf. I don't know what to believe anymore. He's immature and selfish and I can't believe he would do this. I haven't talked to him but I need to. He said his piece and I feel like I should say mine. I still love him and miss him and yes, I know I made a mistake in trusting him. But I really believed in him and that he would do the right thing. Man was I stupid. I'm mad at myself, even though I'm happy about the preggo. What do i do now?

2007-07-31 17:00:47 · 7 answers · asked by pussnboots333 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-31 16:59:18 · 14 answers · asked by Douglas J 1 in Singles & Dating

Ive been with my husband for 4 years, married 2 lived together 1 prior. I have 3 kids from a previous marriage. He has 2 from his previous, although he doesnt have custody of his. He is a truck driver who is only home every other weekend. His x wife is a horrible spiteful manipulative woman. I try very hard to go above and beyond for my husband and my step children, and gone through alot from his x wife in the process, her walking into my house w/ out invite, her lying to my husband to cause us to fight, her trashing me and my husband to the kids, her always being late and not having any respect for our household as if we are to cater to her, she uses the kids as pawns, and has even gone as far as to try and humiliate me and physically harm, and when her son was sick she told me to give him a tylenol then she picked him up took him to the docs and had a tox screen ran on him. implying i had od'ed him. I have watched the kids in the past to help her while she worked, and weeks at a time

2007-07-31 16:59:18 · 7 answers · asked by Bre B 1 in Family

has started to come around and getting very friendly with my mother-in-law. My mother-in-law brings her to family parties and introduced her as my husbands ex-girlfriend. They talk alot and act like they are the best of friends. I told my husband that it makes me feel uncomfortable and a little embarrased. He told me that I was being silly and that it was his mothers bussiness.
What do you think?

2007-07-31 16:59:18 · 48 answers · asked by Izzy 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I've found that from a guys position anyways, that the more you want a relationship with a women to work the chances of it ending are more likely? but when i just let it be and have the thought that if it works out it works out, and if it doesn''t then it doesn't.

With that in mind my relationships seem to work out better, anyone have this samething happen to them before?

2007-07-31 16:57:21 · 3 answers · asked by Doug 1 in Singles & Dating

before she had told me she liked me but i just didnt pay much attention, now i think i really like her :/
what should i do??

2007-07-31 16:57:06 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

we met online. during our first month, he already proposed to me that he wants to marry or "zawag" me.he teaches me Arabic online,he created a lot of screensavers with my pictures on it n music.He sends me a lot of his pictures (picture when he was a baby,his mom and dad,his graduation,family's living room,comp. room,his friends with background view of pyramids.he even keeps my pictures in his mobile(he shows it everytime we chat through webcam.he even save my pictures on his comp. monitor,i talked with his sister in the web too.we have been chatmates for 3months now.he told me now that he is studying english in an institution because of me.he is inviting me to go in egypt but i told him i dont have enough money.he said we share money 4 my trip.he even inquire about fiancee visa in egypt but he said VERY EXPENSIVE n money scarce in egypt.he told me he love me, miss me so much n longing to hug me kiss me.he said he have space in cairo 4 future wife n business.does he truly love me?HELP!

2007-07-31 16:55:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Help. Before marriage husband chose to hang out and not care for our family, so I filed for child support. After about 2 months he got his act together and started taking care of our daughter. So we went to court and I closed the case and had all the past and present arrears that was owed to me to be wiped clean. This motion was granted that day in court. Balance $0.00. Later he got a letter that said Balance $2,000 and I called and was told it was for her healthcare. Then it turned to $3,000 5 1/2 years later now its $4,000?! He never called to find out why!! Years later we got married, $230 came out my taxes towards it and now the sheriff is after him! The people they spoke to were told that he would have to pay $4,000 for bail! I checked online to see if money from irs was applied, and it wasnt. I will call tomorrow. He had one years ago and paid $250 he was ok.But if he or I go to child support will he be given the option to pay only a portion? We're broke! Any help would be great.

2007-07-31 16:53:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i may sound crazy but if anyone knows what im taling aout please help .... people keeping saying just be yourself but i dont really know who i even am so wat do i do??

2007-07-31 16:53:03 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my family hates it is it wrong

2007-07-31 16:51:43 · 14 answers · asked by Lizabeth H 1 in Other - Family & Relationships