how can u be urself ifu dont really know who u r ?

Question

i may sound crazy but if anyone knows what im taling aout please help .... people keeping saying just be yourself but i dont really know who i even am so wat do i do??

Answer 1

Maybe we should tell you "just act natural" instead of "just be yourself"... Act however you normally do around people who you are comfortable with i.e. friends/family. Good luck!
~Bob

Answer 2

They don't ether. Thats one of those, everyone knows what to say, but not how to do it, type things. Ether way its about you figuring out what you plan to do with this life of yours. Its that simple. Frist step thou:

1. WHY DO YOU GET UP IN THE MORNING? Very important, if you just do it, because, your lost, if you do becouse of someoen else, your lost, you need to know why.

2. WHY DO YOU NOT JUST KILL YOURSELF? Also very important, knowing the answer to this question with yourself is so, so important, because its the thing that well keep you from doing something stupid when life gets to hard.

3. WHAT DO I LIVE MY LIFE FOR? Sort of the point of the whole thing, but stay away from living it for anyone else, or even god. This is about YOU, and what you hope to accomplish here. Is it love? Is it Money? You need to know!

That should get you started, next is to expanded that mind to, to educate yourself, by yourself. Its very, very important. Your best bet for this is stories! Novels! Books of any kind or flavor! And of course history/nonfiction books. Even watching movies!!! Just don't ever comment to one form or another, but this helps you to see how other people have answer those questions and weather or not thats for you or not.

OOOooooo and of course, understand the sigle hardest thing any of us individuals have to do is love ourselves, very, very hard.... good luck!