we met online. during our first month, he already proposed to me that he wants to marry or "zawag" me.he teaches me Arabic online,he created a lot of screensavers with my pictures on it n music.He sends me a lot of his pictures (picture when he was a baby,his mom and dad,his graduation,family's living room,comp. room,his friends with background view of pyramids.he even keeps my pictures in his mobile(he shows it everytime we chat through webcam.he even save my pictures on his comp. monitor,i talked with his sister in the web too.we have been chatmates for 3months now.he told me now that he is studying english in an institution because of me.he is inviting me to go in egypt but i told him i dont have enough money.he said we share money 4 my trip.he even inquire about fiancee visa in egypt but he said VERY EXPENSIVE n money scarce in egypt.he told me he love me, miss me so much n longing to hug me kiss me.he said he have space in cairo 4 future wife n business.does he truly love me?HELP!
2007-07-31 16:55:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
After only three months? No he just wants a green card or to steal your money. It took me two years to fall for my internet friend and even so we joke about being married, but I know that will most likely never happen. Be smart and dont get hooked.
2007-07-31 17:00:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You just be really careful and think with your head and not your heart girl. Even the fact that you have felt the need to ask for opinions on what to do on this site should start the alarm bells ringing in your ears. Listen to them and also to the advise that you will get from those who answer your question. For they are all going to say basically the same thing, BE VERY VERY CAREFUL. I am not sure at all what you mean by a "fiancees visa". It is awful to have to say this but many of the Egyptian guys are soooo good at saying just the right things at the right time and making you feel like a princess. It is part of their natural charm but it can be taken too seriously by many western girls. He admits he has no money. So how is he going to support you.Family always comes first in Egypt and I would bet anything that the pictures will be the closest you ever get to his family. It awful I know, but is not uncommon for girls to come over here to get married on a contract that is in fact a short term agreement. It will allow him just enough time to get money of you if he can. Before you pay any money for the trip get him to send you the share he was going to pay. The photos he shows you and all that stuff really don't mean anything. Ask if his Mum is home when you are chatting on the phone you can just say Hi to his Mum and see what his reaction is. Every Egyptian guy has a mobile so you have his number. It could be any friend that is pretending to be his sister. The likelihood that all he says is true and that he will be able to support you in anyway is a bit much to hope for. How will you survive there? You won't be able to find work. My cousins in Egypt say that work is really hard to get and the wages are really bad even if you have a Uni degree. I hate being a devils advocate but it is best that you know the reality. This is becoming almost a number 2 pastime after soccer, for many Egyptian guys who have financial responsibilities and worries., I know its wrong and not acceptable but with the economic situation that exists there. Can you really can't blame them in some ways for taking a chance and having a bit of fun at the same time..
2016-05-19 03:42:39 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm. That's pretty tough. You would be taking a lot of chances going to a strange country and a different culture for someone that you don't really know. My ex-wife's sister had a relationship similar to yours, although in her case she was 26 and he was 18 from England. That was hard enough, but they kept chatting and eventually he visited and they got married and just last month they had their first son. To be honest, he is one of the most genuine people I've ever met --- my ex's sister got really lucky though.
I would insist that if you do meet that it be in a neutral place. Lord knows while it's unlikely, I'd hate to think that you get sold off as a slave in Egypt or something. Another thing is that you should also consider that there are probably plenty of men in this country that would treat you nicely and chat you up well. Present company included. :)
It sounds like a romantic picture, but there are so many unknowns. In my opinion, the smart money would say to pass. But when is love ever smart? :)
Good luck.
2007-07-31 17:00:53 · answer #3 · answered by vincentp 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He doesn't even know you for God's sake so how the hell could he be in love with you, or you with him for that matter. Infatuated perhaps but certainly not in love. Until you two meet in person and get to know one and other this is highly improbable. So do yourself a favour and realize that you are suppose to be adults and also realize that people can be anyone they want to be on the computer and although he may be 100% with you the fact is he may not be also. There are a lot of people who embellish tales on line and then when you meet them they are far from what you believed. In addition please be careful with the amount of information you share with this guy on line because he may not be in Egypt at but in the same state or neighbouring state to you. Best of luck to you with this dilemna.
2007-07-31 17:02:24 · answer #4 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, he doesn't. He's too young to even know what he wants. And Egypt is not a nice place to live, why do you think they all try to go somewhere else? You're an American, and people go to any extend to live there. His love may be real, but read about the country, customs, religious beliefs, about how much freedom a woman has, and how many wives the man is allowed to have before you decide to go. (I would not go, ever, I would not believe that he loves me)
2007-07-31 17:00:49 · answer #5 · answered by Lily 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
im not sure if its true love. i believe its possible to fall in love online but i wouldn't completely trust it until u met and dated a little. it does sound like there could be something but not sure.
2007-07-31 17:04:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wake up and smell the coffee....
He wants what you have, perhaps citizenship to get him out of Egypt, or, on the dark side, perhaps to have you go there and become a slave.
Don't go - date local guys that you can see.
2007-07-31 17:00:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you talk for five hours a day you two have something! I suggest maybe just dating for now get to know him better!
2007-07-31 16:59:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
most likely not.
becareful.
dont' trust people like that
good luck
2007-07-31 17:20:01 · answer #9 · answered by Bella Latina, 22 summers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop being stupid
2007-07-31 16:57:43 · answer #10 · answered by abetdgreyt 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋