my family hates it is it wrong
2007-07-31 16:51:43 · 14 answers · asked by Lizabeth H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
no, as long as he treats you right and isnt a bad influence.
he could be bad for you and your parents see this.
or your parents could just be good old-fashioned racists
2007-07-31 16:54:31 · answer #1 · answered by Cristina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No that is not wrong, you can't help it if you are in love with a black guy. Your family will have difficulty accepting him but its your life afterall, right. Make them understand why you have strong feelings for him, and show them the true person he is deep within.
2007-07-31 16:57:49 · answer #2 · answered by fuzzy dice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not wrong. All that matters is who he is and what he brings to the relationship, color should never even be an issue. I for one would pick a tall dark and handsome black man over a white bum any day..
2007-08-04 12:19:49 · answer #3 · answered by RPrincess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Love is color blind! Who cares what everyone else thinks - if you love him and he loves you then it is not wrong! the color of people's skin doesn't matter, its what they are like, personality wise that really counts (cliche i know). Your family will learn to accept your relationship when they see how much you love him - no matter what happens, your family wants you to be happy, and the reason they don't want you to be with him is because they think he is different - prove them wrong!
hope this helps!
2007-07-31 16:57:02 · answer #4 · answered by IMPROCRASTINATING 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not wrong my daughter is married to a black gut and I have three beautiful grand children but its not gonna be easy because there are gonna be people that are not gonna like it,like your parents maybe you need to talk to them and let them know how you feel dont leave your parents out in this.
2007-08-01 09:56:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope not wrong at all.As long as you have feelings for him race shouldn't matter at all even though you will get your occasional haters and prejudices its somethnig you have to deal with if you really love this guy.
2007-07-31 16:55:50 · answer #6 · answered by SMX™ -- Lover Of Hero @};- 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Based solely on race, it's not wrong. Your parents are, of course.
2007-07-31 16:54:25 · answer #7 · answered by Mickey Mouse Spears 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not wrong...YOU love who YOU want to love ...your family can not control this and nor should they dictate who you can love ....they are obviously racist so just iognore them and love the man...its YOUR LIFE>>>>YOUR CHOICE!!!!
2007-07-31 17:00:26 · answer #8 · answered by littlemisssaigon 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no its not wrong, if he makes u happy and treats u well then thats all that matters, right?
2007-07-31 16:54:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in the bible it says a red bird shall not mix or covent with ablue bird sounds like race to me
2007-07-31 16:57:08 · answer #10 · answered by sissy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋