Family & Relationships - 31 July 2007

My husband and I have decided to file for divorce. I have decided i want sole custody because he does not know how to take care of her. And he is somehow involved with this creapy 50 year old man (my husband is 23) anyways that is part of the reason for divorce. I know he doesnt want full custody but he said he kind of wanted weekends. I will let him see her whenever he wants and she can stay at his mom's and he can stay there too. Just want to know did anyone have trouble getting sole custody of your kids? Or i would like to hear from anyone who has been divorced. this is one of the hardest things i have ever had to do.

2007-07-31 01:41:28 · 10 answers · asked by heather_michelle41607 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What brought you to that decision?

Are you not worried about loneliness in older age?

Any bachelors free to comment.

I am considering it and am trying to weigh up the pros and cons.

2007-07-31 01:38:45 · 9 answers · asked by abluebobcat 4 in Singles & Dating

"If I can not get you to see the difference between a childs birthday gift and an adults TV set then there is no sense discussing any further about the events and conversation that occured this morning."

2007-07-31 01:38:43 · 20 answers · asked by Tara MD 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How do you feel when you are in love?

2007-07-31 01:38:17 · 4 answers · asked by sudu n 1 in Singles & Dating

not really...
haha but would like a good answer

what EXACTLY does 'being formal friends' mean??

2007-07-31 01:35:51 · 11 answers · asked by ymmmmm 3 in Friends

Right, I have the career opportunity to go to New York. I'm a Londoner, and I love New York and its always benn kinda one of my dreams to end up there. The only problem is going - it'd be leaving everyone behind. I've had depression in the past, and this sort of big change is hard to get through in a way. I mean, i'd be leaving behind my parents (which I would feel guilty about), my friends, my relatives which I spent all of my childhood summers at and my cousin. I look at new york, visit and think WOW, and I want to be there, but its leaving everything behind and going. I know i have to follow my own goals and dreams, I've had my parents tell me that when I was given this opportunity, but I feel guilty n a sense, and as if im in the wrong for leaving it all behing. I know I shouldn't but I do. does anyone have any advice on how to deal with this and move forward??

2007-07-31 01:24:13 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

How can i deal with my strict mother?
Im in my early teens and my mum isnt making it easy for me. Last week was the local police patrolled dance party that everyone goes to ,I wasn't allowed and she didnt say why.
I cant travell by myself except to school and back on the local bus and she gets mad when i talk about having a boyfriend.
I know she has a strong right of concern to a certain extent and some people on here will tell me off but how can get her off my back so that we can both get along and be happy and let me do some things by myself sometimes as i know im getting older these days .

Any advise appreciated!

2007-07-31 00:47:05 · 13 answers · asked by Stelle S 1 in Family

Hi, everyone . I am running away from my country due to the war in Afghanistan. First, which country admits immigrants? Also, when you surrounder yourself to the police, what will be the process? can someone please help? thanks

2007-07-31 00:34:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he does not want to be with anybody or bother by anybody. besides, he just want some weird pictures. =( oh well... so i listen what he wants. he is totally by himself.. i feel terribly bad. i feel guilty so much. did i make a wrong decision?

2007-07-31 00:28:21 · 6 answers · asked by S =] 2 in Friends

After drinking a lot of wine. My sister asked to hold my son. We were on a beach trip with other family members. I let her and she walked out onto the large deck to calm him down. She seemed ok to me but my wife didn't think she should hold him. After I took him back from my wife (my sister seemed slightly offended by this but didnt' say anything) my aunt made a comment about how parents shouldn't let their anger out around your kids; that she would "pray to God" for help to stay calm when she was raising her kids and how kids personalitys are determined by how we act around them; how if we act ignorant so will our children.
My wife is very stressed with the twins and our 5 year old. She sometimes gets more angry with the kids than she should. While agree with her comment it didn't seem like the right time for it. I defended my wife and said she was just being protective of her baby. My aunts comment seemed out of line and wrongly timed to me. Am I wrong to have felt this way?

2007-07-31 00:28:07 · 11 answers · asked by MetalHeart 4 in Family

I'm really not so sure. Your opinion, please. :)

2007-07-31 00:12:20 · 23 answers · asked by Mary 6 in Other - Family & Relationships