Family & Relationships - 31 July 2007

How old are you now and how old was you when you lost your virginity..I am a 38 yr old woman never married and i was 13 when i lost my virginity..I have been with about 40 men and i never had an std or unwanted pregnancy..My best friend says i have been with way to many men but i dont think so cause like i told her most men have been with more women then i have been with men.

2007-07-31 08:53:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i dont think the man or the woman should get money to live off of cuz they did not hold a job or have no job skills!!!

the man should not have to take care of her after the marriage is over

2007-07-31 08:52:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I met someone online in December, and we have been dating off and on since. I am not ready for as serious of a relationship as he is, and would like to move on - I am very busy, and have tried to get together with him to discuss this and every time, something comes up that prevents the discussion. I will admit it, I am chicken to tell him in person, as he does have a little bit of a temper.

2007-07-31 08:50:51 · 12 answers · asked by KD 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-31 08:49:32 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

by sweet i mean about love friendship and other nice things

2007-07-31 08:48:14 · 1 answers · asked by girl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

what do u like in a girl?

2007-07-31 08:47:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I asked this question before but i want more answers! please read this and answer. PLEASE!


A while ago i asked my mom if i could make a myspace and she said no. but i did anyways, mostly because i felt pressured by friends, them saying that everyone had one andd that they were cool. and now i deleted mine cuz i felt bad that i made a myspace when my mom told me not too....but i still feel guilty. i think i should tell her but i am scared of what my punishment will. also we are going to mackinaw on sunday and i really want to go but i don't want my mother to make me stay home if i tell her. what should i do?

2007-07-31 08:47:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-07-31 08:45:13 · 7 answers · asked by nikie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ladies, I have a question about woman and sex. I have been married to my wife, who is older than me by a few years for about four years. Our sex life was incredible at first then it all but stopped. We would have sex 5 to 6 times a week and now maybe once a week if I am luckly. I still treat her well I believe. We both work and I make her breakfast everyday and coffee too. I give her hugs and kisses several times a day and spend time with her one on one. I even give breakfast in bed every Sunday. I tried talking to her but she tells me that it makes her feel guilty if I say anything about sex. So what am I doing wrong..and I have not gotten fat nor do I ignore her needs..So where too from here..any ideas?

2007-07-31 08:45:00 · 16 answers · asked by Craig B 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a friend who made me mad few days ago (she asked if I can drink beer / wine and I'm 15). I just delete her emails and I thought she will get the "hint' that i dont want to talk to her but she still email me lot and my other friends said "So sad, thats why I wont give her my email".

How do I handle with her when go back to the school? She just email me already. Is it possible that shes desperate for friends? She just rubbed in my face through email, saying "fine, you dont want to come my party, all my friends will have fun". Then few days, she said to come to her party and that there's will be no beer / wine, but my parents, aunt and friends dont believe her. My parents think shes too old to hang out with me, shes 20 and Im 15. She kept switching the sides about her party, from mad to nice, then back to angry, back forth, when i told her i wont go to her party. Help, please. Thanks

2007-07-31 08:44:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

If you think about it there is a 60% chance the marriage will end in divorce. Most likely your wife with get half plus the kids, house, alimony, child support and your stuck trying to figure out how to eat! That's a heck of a gamble for any man to take.

2007-07-31 08:44:34 · 16 answers · asked by thomas c 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I wrote about this a long time ago, but the situation has just gotten really stupid now. My sister in law (My husband's brother's wife) has not "allowed" me to have a single thing in the world without her having it, too. I got a treadmill, she got jealous and despite being broke had to go get a better one. I bought a Jeep, and this was the time she chose after 10 years of driving the same car to go buy a Jeep. I went back to college, she had to do it, too...but I did distance learning, so she wouldn't go to the actual school...she had to do it at home too. I just had a baby, so she went and convinced her husband that they HAD to get pregnant. She just contacted me with news that they are expecting! They are seriously immature people who have never had a relationship except w/ each other, and are in a bad financial situation (so they say), and she did this out of jealousy! She knows something is upsetting me and wants to know what. Is there any point in even telling her?

2007-07-31 08:44:09 · 14 answers · asked by TruthSeeker 4 in Family

Wel i was talking to this guy for about month now. He just got out of relationship of 2 years. Cuz the girl cheated on him.. So when i came along he didnt want to be with her.. but then he stopped calling me. I kept hearing that he was working a lot and that he didnt have time to call me. But then i find out that i guess he is trying to get back with her. Dont you think he couldof just old me then just blow me off like that. I mean i can understnad what he is going through..

2007-07-31 08:43:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a daughter her age, who's also her friend and don't think my daughter have any ideal about this. I've told her, yes I love women but Iam no dog; there could never be anything between us. GOOD CLEAN ADVICE ONLY, "PLEASE"

2007-07-31 08:43:54 · 27 answers · asked by JimBo47 1 in Friends

my friend and i are having a debate wether
the band Savage Garden is better then the band Queen
or vise versa
we would like your opinions on this to help resolve our problem

2007-07-31 08:42:18 · 5 answers · asked by Tiffany 2 in Singles & Dating

I used to have a girl who I felt sorry for in high school. I was there for he when nobody else was. She thought our relationship was much more than it truely was. I am a good person and didn't have it in my heart to let her be so upset. She thought I loved her but it was never like that! Now i am married and this girl and my wife do not get along. I have tried to calmly tell this girl to leave us alone but she does not. She has kind of turned into a stalker. She does nothing but cause problems for my wifwe and I. She is kinda of crazy and does not listen to me when i ask her to leave me alone. What can I do to get it through to her that I love my wife and she needs to go away?? nothing i have tried has worked!! HELP

2007-07-31 08:42:10 · 5 answers · asked by nocrazygirlsallowed 1 in Singles & Dating

would it count when i come back to LA and not get in trouble cause his underage?//

2007-07-31 08:39:06 · 22 answers · asked by Girl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-31 08:38:50 · 28 answers · asked by rellswife_raiismom 1 in Weddings

she told me that she did not like the things that i got for them, and took them back. and she got them things she wanted

this money i spent did not come from there support it came from my pocket!!!

2007-07-31 08:36:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Whether it's casual dating or a serious relationship, or even just friends, girls always seem to get attached to the guy they are with. Do guys every get attached or are they only after the physical availability of the girl?

2007-07-31 08:35:34 · 14 answers · asked by hptwin413 1 in Singles & Dating

this is the story:

my grandparents came here to visit us. my uncle lives here. my mother is his own sister. so my grandparents are leaving in a few more days, and my uncle has planned a farewell treat in a restaurant. he invited our family as well, but my dad don't want to attend it. he is always saying excuses, and saying he is busy. what to do. i want to attend it, and so does my mom. they are of course her own parents. what to do??

2007-07-31 08:34:00 · 17 answers · asked by Seungyong W 5 in Family

they're very conservative Catholics, and I think they'll disapprove. Is there a good way to phrase it?

2007-07-31 08:33:18 · 28 answers · asked by mury902 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

Why can't women accept that men have different "needs" than they do? Women's lib and Oprah / etc... has done a great deal to enlighten men as to how we need to emotionally connect with our s/o or spouse. That the emotional leads to the physical for women.

Why can't women accept that men are the opposite? All the "He can't look at other women, he shouldn't need porn, but then I shouldn't have to put out for him just because he wants it." crap is getting really, really old.

Women don't want their man to look around (or worse yet cheat), but they don't take care of him at home. Men take more rejection from their wives then they ever put up with on the singles scene.

Women, you want a happy faithful man that will do ANYTHING for you, then put out - regularly and with enthusiam !! He'll be putty in your hands.

BOTTOM LINE - I've never known a man to cheat if his wife or s/o gives him physical attention everyday. A quickie, a helping hand, a BJ, whatever. Feed the need !!

2007-07-31 08:29:44 · 22 answers · asked by aa889d 5 in Marriage & Divorce

im in high and with my friend we werent best friends but we were reallly getting along very well last year.this year she ddidnt said it, but she really hates me, and apparently thinks im annoying which is a problem bcuz we'r in same school and we have same friends. im not inlove with her but id like to be friends. but i dont think she wants that so what should I do bcuz this situation really upsets me. if it doesnt upset me, i wouldnt care at all. but it does and I wanna solve it. i sent her a msg couple of days ago, she ddint reply and i know that she saw it. what should I do? do i have ignnore her, and will ignoring make me feel better? cuz i wanna feel better, its not about her...

2007-07-31 08:28:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-07-31 08:27:52 · 13 answers · asked by north_south_united 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-31 08:25:19 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My grandma on my moms side moved into my house from the Philipines when i was only 4 years old. I am now 16 and i still havent seen my dad talk to my grandma. She tried to talk to him a couple times but he just nods his head or something. My grandma hasnt done anything wrong to him. As a matter of fact, my grandma was the one that introduced my parents when my dad was in the navy and had to go to the philipines. My grandma has done nothing but help us and he still wont talk to her. Why?? I asked him before but he just turned around and told me to eat my food. So why wont he talk to my grandma??

2007-07-31 08:24:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Has anyone had a similar experience - its kinda like Groundhog Day now.

2007-07-31 08:21:20 · 1 answers · asked by NONAME 1 in Singles & Dating

It seems like everyone is a whore anymore, forget waiting for the 3rd date people don't even need a date to put out. It used to be guys are more promiscious but now girls are just as bad. What's going on, are we still using those "sharing" rules we used in kindergarden but just for sharing our diseases and mojo now? Strange....

2007-07-31 08:19:32 · 21 answers · asked by freespiritede1986 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been seeing a guy for about a month and things were going really good. We have long talks and we both enjoy spending time with one another. He would pick me up playfully and spin me around and just make me laugh. Sometimes we would sit up for hours and just talk. Once we stayed out until 5:00am and just have the best conversation.(nothing physical) Well now he seems to have put some distance between us and being really vague. I asked him was it something I did? do u wnt 2 continue dating? He says he does and that he does not want to lose me, but that he has priorties he needs to take care of. That's fine I understand that. How can one minute your twirling me around taking me places and then all of a sudden become cold and abrupt? I am really upset because I really like this guy alot and I'm feeling really down... Can anyone make sense of this? is there a switch or something? and how do I turn my switch/feelings off because it seems as though he has just went cold turkey..:-

2007-07-31 08:18:48 · 30 answers · asked by Cheetara 2 in Singles & Dating