Wel i was talking to this guy for about month now. He just got out of relationship of 2 years. Cuz the girl cheated on him.. So when i came along he didnt want to be with her.. but then he stopped calling me. I kept hearing that he was working a lot and that he didnt have time to call me. But then i find out that i guess he is trying to get back with her. Dont you think he couldof just old me then just blow me off like that. I mean i can understnad what he is going through..
2007-07-31 08:43:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well he's obviously a jerk for leading you on somewhat. You should ignore him, learn from it and move on. The guy still loves his ex, and it's clear he doesn't want to be with you by his treatment. Let this be a lesson instead of a punishment by continually dwelling on it.
2007-07-31 08:48:13 · answer #1 · answered by Help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Guys are less communicative than girls.
2. Some people do not like confrontation. Telling you that he is no longer interested is like a confrontation. He knows it will be hurtful, so he hopes you just catch the hint. Not the kindest, but to him, the safest way.
2007-07-31 08:49:54 · answer #2 · answered by Bob T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he was just afraid to tell you or hurt you. But to me I would rather hear it from him then find out through someone else. He could of been a man and just told you and like you said you would understand. Boys are stupid.
2007-07-31 08:49:12 · answer #3 · answered by Alyssa17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man are scared little creatures that would hide from u when they don't have the balls to tell u the truth.. only real man, tell u what u don't wanna hear to your face and obviously this kid is no man for u...move on!
2007-07-31 08:52:21 · answer #4 · answered by Haidee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a lot easier to just ignore someone than to give them bad news and have to deal with their potentially poor reaction.
2007-07-31 08:47:58 · answer #5 · answered by Glenn S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He used you to rebound. Classic reason not to date someone who just broke up. they will use you to tide them over till they can move on or back to old flame. Skip this, by avoiding rebounders. How do you know? they've recently broke-up and its all they talk about.
2007-07-31 08:53:34 · answer #6 · answered by kim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys hate to see girls cry it really tears us up inside so instead of him hurting you or his Ex for what she did to him he's still allowing her to believe he's still interested in her to keep her from being hurt. if he does like you he should tell you and stop ignoring you and putting you in the middle of this whole mess. if he truely cares for you he'd just dump his Ex once and for all and be with you and stop ignoring you.
2007-07-31 08:52:42 · answer #7 · answered by james_stailey@sbcglobal.net 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Babies can´t talk but if they could she would have said "Not now, I´ve got a headache"
2016-05-19 00:52:12 · answer #8 · answered by sharleen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know wat ur going through.. I had the same thing happen to me. He did the same thing. So just get over him, and get someone hotter.. Like I did. HaHa.
2007-07-31 08:48:33 · answer #9 · answered by I love him, but he dont love me! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just afraid to tell you that he just doesn't like you.
2007-07-31 08:49:23 · answer #10 · answered by levittman_99 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋