Family & Relationships - 31 July 2007

I am moving thursday no matter what and I have 2 options. to go with my dad or go with my mom. my dad has a bad history and I am afraid tha the will go back to that. my mom has this boyfriend that I hate.

2007-07-31 09:43:45 · 13 answers · asked by daniel i 1 in Family

It has become kind of accepted. If you have worked hard and made some money and you can afford to pay the current wife her court ordered wages and still have enough left to attract a 25 to 30 year old hot trophy wife, why shouldn’t you. What are peoples thoughts on this trend.

2007-07-31 09:43:20 · 45 answers · asked by Brian 5 in Marriage & Divorce

so sure now. I need about 200-225 programs. I want Lavendar 8 1/2 x 11 cardstock folded as the program. Any ideas of who does it and how much?

2007-07-31 09:42:39 · 15 answers · asked by pinkie443 2 in Weddings

I really want to go somewhere and my parents are probably not gonna let me go so I decided to try to make them so happy that they would want me to go!! Any ideas? please help soon cuz I am wanting to go 2morrow!!

2007-07-31 09:38:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have prolly asked like 100 questions about this but I dont care. I cheated on my BF then he found out and broke up with me. Then I realized how many guys cook dinner for you all the time? How many guys bring you breakfeast in bed? How many guys will go to a gay bar with you because one of your friends is gay? As I have found out not to many. I realized I have made a mistake. But he will not forgive me. Then he told me how dare I try to use the bible to justify myself. Then to top it off doesnt the bible preach on not interracial dating? Yet he goes and is dating a black girl now. I tried to get the black girl to break up with him and even paid a guy to try and get the girl to cheat on him. Then she came up to me and told ME! To stay away from him! How dare she! I had him first. I said I was sorry when my mom cheated on my dad he took her back he even took her back the third time because she said what do you think it will do to our daughter.

2007-07-31 09:38:16 · 32 answers · asked by Ashely85 1 in Singles & Dating

She does not want a relationship with any guy right now. She is too busy taking care of her daughter. I thought she might want a release now and again.

2007-07-31 09:35:30 · 16 answers · asked by jeb 2 in Singles & Dating

we r really good friends and we do stuff all the time, like go to the movies (never alone, our other friends are always there) or bowling. i like this kid a lot and i dont know how to ask him out. all of my friends say he likes me and even ppl i dont normally talk to look at us and they say that he likes me. i dont want to make it awkward or anything. he is in 8th grade and i am in 9th. and dont say i have to stay focusd on school at this age because i think i am too focused. i get all A's.

2007-07-31 09:33:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i know it's a stupid question, but is it possible? if so, how? it would be nice to block away all the useless or horrible people that you wish you wouldn't like, until a right person comes along.

2007-07-31 09:30:03 · 14 answers · asked by Maria 2 in Singles & Dating

i'm in one, and it's going great! i don't want it to stop goin great. do you think there are gonna be problems?

2007-07-31 09:27:36 · 24 answers · asked by natyep :] 5 in Singles & Dating

I believe I know the answer, but I think there are more people staying in the marriage for the kids in hopes that the marriage will improve then ones who got out....

Im at the end of my rope and Im deciding how long I should keep putting forth the effort...

Im looking for people who stayed for the sake of the kids and i would like to know if it got better and how long did it take, or if nothing got better and youre still working on improving the marriage, and how long you been doing it for? Any advice is welcomed

2007-07-31 09:24:30 · 21 answers · asked by Mergler 4 in Marriage & Divorce

who has a twin.an identical twin. do you get along and do stuff together?

2007-07-31 09:22:47 · 8 answers · asked by Missa♥ 1 in Family

2007-07-31 09:21:27 · 23 answers · asked by Challah back Girl... 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-31 09:20:08 · 6 answers · asked by STORMY K 3 in Singles & Dating

My son is three and a half and is autistic. There are therapies but they are extremely expensive (40,000 to 70,000 dollars a year for 40 hours a week) - we've been on a waiting list for a year and a half for government services but we just found out that we'll have at least two more years to wait. My parents have been extremely supportive (my mother and a friend of hers who are both retired special ed teachers have taken courses and are currently working with my son as therapists) all along, but now that we know how much longer we have to wait my dad has decided to come out of retirement and work so that we can hire a therapist (20 hours a week at 40 dollars an hour - you do the math).

I've always had a good relationship with my parents, but this is something beyond I would ever have asked. I know it's his choice and that he's doing it for his grandson, not me, but I don't know what to say to him - thank you and I love you doesn't seem to be enough. Any suggestions?

2007-07-31 09:17:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My boyfriend is in the military and we've been together for 2 yrs now. He was married but that fell through and he got burned really bad. He won full custody of his daughter from that marrige. Now I've been living with him and playing mommy to his daughter and taking care of him, but he's not showing me any signs of me sticking around when he get's reassigned to a new location in a year. Is it too much for me to expect us to get married or at least be engaged since that's what he tells me he wants to do but just won't ask the question? And why do you think he's not asking?

2007-07-31 09:16:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

With my fat wife

2007-07-31 09:14:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Can you/do you use this site for like a dating site....if so why?

2007-07-31 09:13:34 · 7 answers · asked by **Amanda** 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband became so angry when we drove by a fire station with a ton of firemen outside and he yelled that I was checking out all the men, and we would never drive by there again. I wasn't "checking them out" in the least. Today, he looked twice at a girl as we were driving by her in her short shorts, and then looked in his rear view mirror. When I reminded him of how he yelled at me about the firemen which I hadn't been looking at, he told me he wasn't looking at her. Then he admitted he had been. Then he changed it again to he wasn't. Why is it that the answer always seems to be it's just what men do? I truly wasn't checking out these men, he admitted he was checking her out. Why is it okay for him? I guess it's okay for me too? I'm not interested though. What's the difference between men and women that make men do a triple take, and it's okay because "that's what guys do?" It's not okay for me to look at firemen he says, but okay for him to check out anyone else. Ugh.

2007-07-31 09:12:35 · 44 answers · asked by Artemis L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Just curious on other people's thoughts. Explain, if possible.

2007-07-31 09:11:17 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

why am i becomeing someone that i dont want to be??? i pray about what i did all my friends r like it is not that big of a deal but it is to me.. i always thought that the first time i ever kissed someone it would mean something but making out with that boy just made no since bc the whole time i was thinking about another guy and i just dont no what to da bc i cant get that night out of my head but i just cant ijust want some answeres ???? pls help me i need it????????

2007-07-31 09:08:45 · 11 answers · asked by mrndvs445 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Is that a bad idea?

2007-07-31 09:06:46 · 13 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

my girlfriend had 6 previous boyfriends. How do I know If she likes me the most. After all I was her best friend before the relationship. her other boyfriends were random people she met. any advice? she likes to put her head on my shoulder when shes tired, likes to share food and drink, she always smiling and starring at me for no reason, holding hands, she always starts the kisses even the first french kiss. I need advice!

2007-07-31 09:04:06 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-31 09:03:59 · 19 answers · asked by Jessica 3 in Singles & Dating

We live in the US, but my sister refuses to aknowledge this. She keeps saying that she wants to live there and she wants to go to college there, she has even changed the region and time settings on her laptop that they reflect those of the UK.

2007-07-31 09:02:07 · 25 answers · asked by Alex 2 in Family

we are getting married in march and we don't want to spend a whole lot of money. i found a bbq place that does meals for 4.99 a person and they are suppose to be super good. so we are going cheap with the meals. i don't plan on spending more than a 150 on a dress and want to have it at the VFW or a hotel so that it is not so expensive. the flowers i was to be pink and have the bridesmaids have pink flowers in their hair too but i don't really want to spend that much money. i feel like such a cheapa** but seriously is it bad that i want to save my money for more important stuff.

2007-07-31 09:00:38 · 31 answers · asked by Supermommy!!! 5 in Weddings

Should a teenager start having sex once he or she want to?
Not because its cool to have sex but when he or she really want to because of the sexual desire?

2007-07-31 09:00:31 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am terrible at keeping conversations. Not just with adults but even with my own friends. People get the mistake that I am quite when truly I lack social skills. Any suggestions on starting and continuing long conversations?

2007-07-31 08:57:36 · 2 answers · asked by John W 2 in Friends

2007-07-31 08:57:28 · 36 answers · asked by Baby Jessica 2 in Marriage & Divorce

To ask if you guys are in a relationship without scaring you off or sounding too pushy. I asked a question yesterday which was I am dating this guy, and he throws hints like you would not believe from

"Saying don't tell him about me (my ex) if it will drive him crazy that you have a man"

To

"Saying just tell me the day and time you want me to paint"

When I said I need to have a boyfriend to paint for me because guys who are not your boyfriend always want something in return. I understand that we have been dating for a while, and that those are hints, but am I suppose to respond to them in any way and if so how? If I am not suppose to respond what makes him say those types of things. Also I will be meeting his daughter this weekend, and they are going on a family trip with me and my daughter, but we have never put a title to anything.

Am I suppose to?

2007-07-31 08:54:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we have been talking alot about beeing together for the rest of our lives. and we both feel we r perfect for each other. what age would be good to get married???

2007-07-31 08:53:30 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce