2007-07-31 08:57:28 · 36 answers · asked by Baby Jessica 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He's going with a bunch of co-workers though I don't know if i should let him go!
2007-07-31 09:01:38 · update #1
You know your husband better than anyone on here. If he's a trustworthy guy, then let him go.
2007-07-31 09:05:50 · answer #1 · answered by Miami Lilly 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok first off, you are his wife not his mom - you don't have a right to tell him he can or can't go - but you can voice your opinion.
Vegas is only a "sin city" if that is what you go looking for. I go all the time with and without my husband, and he does the same, and we gamble, see shows and have great food.
If you have trust issues with your husband, if he has cheated before, or has a history of doing the wrong thing, sure voice an opinion that you aren't comfortable with it - but if he is a trustworthy type - then tell him to have a good time and that you will miss him.
2007-07-31 09:09:09 · answer #2 · answered by allrightythen 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
LET him go? I'm assuming he's over 21 and you are NOT his mother. Therefore he can do whatever he wants. If he wants to go to Vegas and have a good time with co-workers, and he's a trustworthy person, why worry?
Sorry, honey....a man does not need to ask permission from his wife to do things.
2007-07-31 09:27:48 · answer #3 · answered by Sally G 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Prostitution is NOT legal there. He would have to drive 63 miles over the mountain to Pahrump NV to find where it is legal. It is only legal in a few counties and Clark county is not one. So if he did goto one of these places, at least it is safe. They are checked weekly and the men must use a condom. I have lived here in NV for 15 years. Vegas is over crowded, smoggy, people are jerks, crime is everywhere, people constantly walk out in front of you and expect you to stop on a dime and it takes you 35 minutes to get through a stop light. He seriously wants to visit that?
2007-07-31 09:07:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
"Let him?" Don't you trust him? If not - why did you get married?
I'd encourage my husband go to Vegas with the guys in a heartbeat because I trust him. (I'd even give him cash for the strippers). That is, honestly, how much I trust him.
2007-07-31 09:42:09 · answer #5 · answered by swordarkeereon 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My fiance goes to Vegas every year for a vacation (sometimes by himself, sometimes with guy-friends). I trust him. I know he is not stupid to loose me over anything. We love each other and that's what counts.
P.S. Some of his family members live there, so he gets all kinds of tours around the town. Also, he usually takes just certain amount of money with him (whatever he feels reasonable), so I don't expect to get anything from him when he returns and I'm OK with it - if you also worry about the money.
2007-07-31 09:10:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I personally would not let him go. I trust my husband. But I also know how a bunch of drunk guys get when they are all together,my husband would never even think about going someplace like that without inviting me. But that is the way we are, have you let him go other places for vacation without you? If you don't tell him how or what you are feeling, how is he gonna know! If you have preservations about it tell him, and go from there.
2007-07-31 09:17:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
If you want his co-workers to laugh at him and call him whipped and have him resent you go ahead and veto his trip.
Or, give him something before he goes that will make him think of nothing but you until he gets back.
2007-07-31 09:18:54 · answer #8 · answered by Zaferus 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There really isn't enough info here to give an answer. Do you think he is going there to cheat? Then no. Did he plan this trip in such a way that he knew you couldn't go with him. Then no. Do you feel he is trying to pull a fast one on you, Then no. Does he have a legitimate opportunity to do something fun without you and your jealous. Then yes let him go.
2007-07-31 09:04:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Oh please. I've been to Vegas countless times....I live in Chicago and Chicago is wilder than Vegas, I'm sure other cities are too. They just make it seem so illicit to entice tourism- Vegas's financial staple.........for every 20 people in a casino, one of them is security...they have to keep riff raff to a minimum or people wouldn't go there and spend money....plus, prostitution is NOT legal in Las Vegas and the strippers aren't dating tourists, either.......if your man was gonna cheat, he could do it two blocks from your house.
2007-07-31 09:07:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
It matters if you fully trust him or not... if you trust that he's not going to have sex with some strange woman out there, then let him, if you don't truely trust him then you should go with him or maybe tell a co-worker to watch him for you.
2007-07-31 09:11:01 · answer #11 · answered by Marty B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋