Family & Relationships - 31 July 2007

like i am 25 and have been with around 40 men (thats not including the women i have been with).... but i guess my question is, is how many is too many, im not married so its not like 1 of my current partners is going to be the only 1 forever, so i cant just stop now! out of all those men, i only was in a relatoinship with 2 of them ever!

2007-07-31 12:27:42 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am so horny that it's starting to hurt. i have already posted a couple questions about this, i am finding no relief. i went for a long walk today, got lots of work done, even had some "me time" for a little while, and sex is always in the back of my mind. i want it so bad. i am not in a relationship right now and i am really not the type of girl to have one night stands. but it may have to resort to that soon...i really want to be held by a man right now. what should i do?

*i also posted this in singles & dating, i thought i might get some more mature answers here.

2007-07-31 12:23:01 · 8 answers · asked by KellyKapowski 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Is it just me or is everyone at David's Bridal rude????
I have went to David's Bridal a couple of times before this and the people were very rude from the moment I got there. The consultant I had seemed angry because I have 14+ bridesmaids and she had to fit all of them for dresses and then when she found out that the wedding wasn't until Jan. 2009 she became even ruder. Well to make a long story shorter; because I could go all day talking about them today I went in to rudeness again to pick up the bolero jacket for my dress and the lady at the counter was being rude and then I told her that I had changed the date of the wedding to April 2008--instantly her face lit up and she was more willing to help me. Why do they act like that??? Does the date of the wedding really make them change their attitudes towards you that drastically????

2007-07-31 12:22:52 · 14 answers · asked by **Q.M.C.** 2 in Weddings

my boyfriend and i have been together for the past 6 years and we have never ever had sex. i have 2 kids from my previous relationship of 10 years. and his excuse is the kids might get up. i gave him oral sex a few times but thats abot it. now if i get anywhere near him he'll cross his legs. theres always a pillow between us when we sleep. if he feels me getting on the bed he instantly flips over onto his stomach. i asked him if he was gay and what his problem is. he simply responds with "because i just don't want to, i can say no if i want" he's now 32 and i'm 30. and i don't know if it bothers me anymore or thats why im so annoyed and stressed out all the time. i'm so sexually frustrated.

2007-07-31 12:20:47 · 45 answers · asked by stressed 1 in Singles & Dating

I have know that my girlfriend has been doing online sexual role playing with a guy in California (we live in Georgia) she says that she has no emotional attachment to this guy, and the only reason they role play is because I'm not that good at it/ don't have time on a computer. so even though i didn't like it i decided that i could stand it because she liked it so much. well i come to find out (because she sent an return email between us to him on acasadent) that he didn't know she had a boyfriend or who i was. after i talked to her about it she said it was because she though us being together was none of his bisness and he would stop RPing with her if he knew. is is ok that I'm upset with her for not telling him that we are together ,or am i wrong for acting this way.

she has know way to see this guy being that she is 15.

2007-07-31 12:18:03 · 21 answers · asked by john m 2 in Singles & Dating

so i live with my dad and we dont exactly get along. he doesnt really take care of me either. so i have been wanting to move in with my mom but if i did i would have to go to a new high school. [im going to be a freshman] but my whole life is here with my dad and i know everyone. my basketball team has been together forever and they are all going to that school. and i know everyone here! so i dont know what to do. should i stay with my dad and just suck it up so i can be with my friends or should i move in with my mom and be happy but go to a new school and start all over. :/

2007-07-31 12:11:40 · 10 answers · asked by be_bombshell. 1 in Family

Its going to look like this http://sondrasink.com/images/Tropics/weddingfence.jpg
but with a picture of our handprints in the sand. I want something to replace the "two lives, one path" quote. any ideas?

2007-07-31 12:04:05 · 9 answers · asked by raryke 1 in Weddings

From your personal standpoint and/or experience.

2007-07-31 12:03:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

It is wrong not to have the flowergirl throw flower petals? We are geting married in a pavlion the reseption is in the same plce. I don't antone to have to wo9rry about sliping on them or cleaning them up. I am thinking od jusat having her carry the basket with flowers. not throwing the petals. Is this ok?

2007-07-31 12:02:28 · 17 answers · asked by pandazoogurl 3 in Weddings

my husband went to a mma fight, with his boss. afterwards he called me and told me he was going to go to his boss's house, they were having a party. i said cool i was going to stay home. but i decided to go out to my bar. okay i didn't have common courtesey(sp) to call him. i just told him i stayed home all night. so he calls me and asks me for a ride, 2am now. no prob i get there takes about a half hour, and his boss's wife says lets get del taco, i told her i'd drso i told her that i didn't stay home, idk, i thought girls had an unwritten code not to throw rat on eachother, so she tells him as soon as we get back. my husband gets livid, and we start arguing. he pushes me hard on the floor, in front of his boss. my *** still has a bruise on it. it isn't the first time, i've been pushed threw glass tables, he's damaged other parts of my body, he's socked me. okay just reading this and i'm getting mad, each time it's it won't happen again. so my q when is it enough

2007-07-31 11:58:14 · 43 answers · asked by confused 1 in Marriage & Divorce

we been separate for 3 years,,sometimes we chat or talk by phone,i really love her,i suffer because i miss her and i cant get over her,i belive i can be with her again,but it would be nice to hear about your tips people!!.

2007-07-31 11:54:56 · 29 answers · asked by mickey z 1 in Marriage & Divorce

does he say you agree on something when you know you did not? Do they get around making decisions and try to get you to make it for them.
justb pondering what is male/female diference in communication or is this a problem.
do men have walls go up and down, treat females like a yoyo?
all info appreciated

2007-07-31 11:54:00 · 2 answers · asked by ideame 3 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. During the first month and a half, he left for the summer, and we didn't talk at all. I cheated on him and had another boyfriend. When he came home, I broke up with the other guy and tried to get my bf back, and I did. It's been very hard, there was a lot of crying and pleading, but we made it. We live together as well. However, he still has his little bouts where he will see a text or a myspace message from any guy friend of mine, and he begins to lose all trust, no matter why they contacted me or what they said. What do I do? I know it's my fault, but what now, It's been a year since he came home, and I've never done anything to make him think I was cheating, I've been more than faithful. How else can I prove it?? He has my passwords and checks my phone at times too. That's why I'm in trouble now! I just want us to be happy and move on from my terrible mistake. I've never cheated in my life except then.

2007-07-31 11:53:11 · 9 answers · asked by britney487 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay here's the deal..My name is Nicole & my boyfriend's name is Corey, We've been together for 8 months...And he has a BIG problem with me wearing Make-Up!! And I've been wearing make-up for like forever so I can't just stop and it makes me feel so incomplete with out it on...but he doesn't understand that he tells me im beautiful without it but I think he just says it so I won't wear it. But me and him were talking about one day and he basically said to me "Chose now me or the make-up" of course I said him. So I haven't worn any make-up since. I'm scared he'll brake up with me..And I love him very much. So now I wear make-up when I know I'm not going to see him a cetain day. But I really want to go back to wearing it again, its just me And I even told him umm hello when you first met me I wore make-up but he said thats not what made him like me he said he hated it back then to So I need to put up a good arguement but he always shuts me down when I try to by making a better argument.

2007-07-31 11:52:50 · 25 answers · asked by Nicole 1 in Singles & Dating

I've thoroughly checked his room, but kids are creative.

2007-07-31 11:51:12 · 25 answers · asked by Jeancommunicates 7 in Family

to her son. A peron walked over to him and threatened him, and she believes that he is a gang member. And she being a protective mom threatened her and now she is in fear that the person will hurt her. What can I do that says I care and I am her to talk if she needs a friendly ear? I would like to buy her a small inexpenisive gift as I am a single mom too and cannot afford much!

2007-07-31 11:48:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Is it really true that guys only think about one thing? Am I doomed to a life of being someones lustful desire?

2007-07-31 11:41:14 · 6 answers · asked by cutest chick!!! 3 in Singles & Dating

did your older siblings do something and they thought they were being sneaky and tricking you but you knew it all the time? In return you played a nasty trick on them but to this day they don't know it?

2007-07-31 11:39:43 · 3 answers · asked by ~~∞§arah T∞©~~ 6 in Family

A friend is having a belated wedding reception (they eloped) and are going to serve hors d' oeuvres. She plans on serving enough to fill everyone up like a dinner would. There won't be formal seating, to encourage mingling. How do you word the invitation so that people won't eat dinner before attending the reception? Thanks.

2007-07-31 11:39:22 · 13 answers · asked by G&T 2 in Weddings

on a very tight budget but want a memorable wedding

2007-07-31 11:39:10 · 17 answers · asked by esther 1 in Weddings

2007-07-31 11:38:12 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I live in toledo, ohio. if any of you can help, please write...better yet, if any of you are florists, or very craftly, please please help!! lol i was supposed to be getting married may 2008, but since i need between $6000 and $7000, i had to push it back 3 more years :(

2007-07-31 11:36:50 · 20 answers · asked by sammie 1 in Weddings

I had a 3 and a half year relationship with my ex-boyfriend, and we sadly ended the relationship…however as soon as we did I found out I was pregnant with his child….how can we get the relationship back for both our sake and the sake of our unborn child? How can we rekindle the love that was once there…and can we make or try to make it work? Anyone have some good advice or personal experience…that would be really great and helpful…thanks…only serious answers please…

2007-07-31 11:32:52 · 1 answers · asked by rachel J 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-31 11:30:27 · 34 answers · asked by Kelvin 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Member since: July 09, 2006
Total points: 238 (Level 1)
Points earned this week:
--% Best answer

Kathy A
S This is emberassing, but I am about to take my son back from my sister.?
I had a drinking problem and recieved a P.I. and my son had to move into my sister's home while I attended an intensive outpatient program. After that, I recieved a D.W.I. and let him stay with her until I cleaned up my act. I am ready now, doing very well and very happy as a matter of fact (I actually love the 12 steps-they are life skills). I know she is going to fight me tooth and nail over this, legally. I will go to any lengths to keep my son and do whatever is necessary in order to do so. Who can help me prepare for this upcoming battle? I finally have the guts as he alwyas comes over crying and saying how awful it is there (she's very demeaning and controlling and argues non-stop), but it is nothing that would carry any weight. She used to cocaine and dated a dealer, etc. She put this in her pass and is very successful now and I respect that, but I will never be "good" in her eyes. Nobody is. Please don't think I just want to play mom out of the blue.

2007-07-31 11:30:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

So the other day my girlfiend went to the store. When she got there, she found out that they were all out of Pepsi. She had to go to another store across town to get it, which meant she was an hour late coming home.

She didn't have the common courtesey to call me and tell me this, so I was angry at her when she got back. One thing led to another, and I ended up giving her a black eye.

I don't like having to do this- it makes me feel bad when I lose control. So my question is what do I do about this problem? I've come to accept that I need things a certain way, and my girlfriend says she wants to be better so I don't have to do this. Any suggestions?

2007-07-31 11:29:35 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

im in 6th grade and a girl i like asked me how she should ask a guy out. i kno her pretty well and i think she likes me. after i told her she said how great i was. does this mean she likes me?? she asked how I would like a girl to ask ME out { this was all done through IM ing}

2007-07-31 11:29:13 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

According to the bible there is no real reason for a divorce of my marriage, so in that case is it worth fighting for when my husband changes his mind over and over again. I love him and he loves me but we are not in the same mind frame right now, so should i leave or stay?

2007-07-31 11:28:14 · 9 answers · asked by alittle03 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you prefer curvy or slim girls.

2007-07-31 11:26:37 · 14 answers · asked by Oceanbreeze 2 in Singles & Dating

2 years ago i caught my x of a few years cheating so i left him,shortly after i ran into a mutual friend of his and we instantly clicked,i was still bitter about the cheating,he listened and understood,he drove me home that night and held me till slept,he was so sweet.I saw him a couple months after and he told me i was'killing him'my x was also there with him and was freaking out that we liked eachother.11/2 yrs went by and i called him to tell him he was'eating me alive'he said it was mutual and he had no idea and he thinks im the most beautiful girl,he said he wished he had known but he started seeing someone.so i let it go.then i saw him a couple weeks later and we had both been drinking and started kissing uncontrolably,i stopped him when i remembered his girlfriend,he again told me how he wished he had known how i felt and thinks im the cutest girl alive and how he felt so bad for me that night he held me.I have not talked to him since,it s been 3 months.will he ever come for me?

2007-07-31 11:25:54 · 4 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating