According to the bible there is no real reason for a divorce of my marriage, so in that case is it worth fighting for when my husband changes his mind over and over again. I love him and he loves me but we are not in the same mind frame right now, so should i leave or stay?
2007-07-31 11:28:14 · 9 answers · asked by alittle03 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You right about that when you say the in the bible there is no real reason for divorce. None of us can answer that question if your marriage is worth fighting for or not. Only you can answer that. What does you husband change his mind about? If your not in the same mind frame then you need to find away to get there. I woud suggest that you start praying about it and let God do his work.
2007-07-31 11:55:16 · answer #1 · answered by FRECKLES 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is not enough info to give you a good answer but according to the bible divorce is acceptable in cases of adultery and I believe that abuse is also an acceptable reason. This coming from a Christian. I think you need to work on your marriage unless either of those two things are going on.
2007-07-31 18:33:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
They're are reasons in the bible to divorce. The first that comes to mind is adultery of either party. There should be forgiveness but "because fo the hardness of our hearts" divorce is permitted. We limit God thinking that he won't forgive us if we divorce. God is always forgiving if you're covered under the blood. Forgiveness to God is forgiving and forgetting. We as humans tend to not forgive ourselves. I'm not saying that we shouldn't try and try and try again.
The bible states that a wife should always submit to her husband and I think we should. But it also states that the husband should love his wife as Christ loved the church. Christ died for people that weren't even born yet. does your spouse love you like that? Mine didn't, I came from a very strong religious background, a church that doesn't believe in divorce, but I divorced anyway. I knew the place that I was living and the way we lived wasn't getting me to heaven. I tried to change it and kept a lot of secrets while trying. I final realized after 25 years that it wasn't going to get any better so I left. Am I damned to hell??? I don't think so. God loves and forgives. If you need scripture let me know.
2007-07-31 18:40:08 · answer #3 · answered by askmeimightknow 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You 2 need counseling to save your marriage! Get on the same page! People don't have to have any religion to want to save a marriage. If it's both in your hearts, please do everything you can do to try and save it. If things can't work then you move on. If you 2 can walk away as friends, there may be a chance later in life. Good Luck and please do all you can and work together if possible.
2007-07-31 18:35:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is not easy, but if you commit & marry someone "for better or worse" I believe you should work pretty darn hard at making it work. In talking to couples that have been married for 25 + years the key is communication. Working through tough issues also brings people closer. So, you work as hard as you have to to make sure he knows every day of his life how much you love & honor him, how deeply committed to him & your marriage you are. That you meant every word of your wedding vows that you spoke before God.
2007-07-31 18:43:55 · answer #5 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think you might ever get on the same page? If it doesn't look like it, move on; if you feel there's a chance, then try to fix things. No one can tell you what to do, listen to yourself. Christian or not - don't let your religion be the reason for you to be miserable.
You are the one who has to live your life; people who wrote the bible are long since dead.
2007-07-31 18:33:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Of course you stay and try to work things out. People are forever changing but it can be worked out. If there is no real reason as you put it and you consider yourself a Christian, I find no reason for a divorce. Neither would God.
2007-07-31 18:32:11 · answer #7 · answered by Maureen R 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Husband changes his mind about......what?
As a Christian, the Bible is specific. Adultery, abuse or abandonment. Has any of those things happened?
2007-07-31 18:33:37 · answer #8 · answered by MrsRusty 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Christain ornot,you mus fight for what you believe in and what feels right for you regardless of what other people think or youll regret it for the rest of your life. Go for it and good luck
2007-07-31 18:42:13 · answer #9 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋