Umm My Boyfriend Has A Problem With Me Wearing Make Up And I dont know what to do about it. HELP!!!!!!!!?

Question

Okay here's the deal..My name is Nicole & my boyfriend's name is Corey, We've been together for 8 months...And he has a BIG problem with me wearing Make-Up!! And I've been wearing make-up for like forever so I can't just stop and it makes me feel so incomplete with out it on...but he doesn't understand that he tells me im beautiful without it but I think he just says it so I won't wear it. But me and him were talking about one day and he basically said to me "Chose now me or the make-up" of course I said him. So I haven't worn any make-up since. I'm scared he'll brake up with me..And I love him very much. So now I wear make-up when I know I'm not going to see him a cetain day. But I really want to go back to wearing it again, its just me And I even told him umm hello when you first met me I wore make-up but he said thats not what made him like me he said he hated it back then to So I need to put up a good arguement but he always shuts me down when I try to by making a better argument.

Answer 1

if he really loves you he wouldnt care what you looked like and guys shouldnt do the ME OR whatever thing or just talk to him agian about it

Answer 2

No 1 can win an argument both parties lose out always 1 way or another so just avoid arguin try talking its much better as for the make up seems like a silly reason to break up over
but its not my problem so i wont go on further.Try talking to him and coming to an agreement where both sides are happy dont raise your voice or in any way show anger or this diplomatic agreement may be put to avery quick end

Hope you are happy with makeup on your face and without a guy by your side

Answer 3

Corey is a control-freak. If given a choice again, choose make-up over him! You shouldn't HAVE to make a good arguement for wearing make-up, only that you want and like to. Anyone who shuts you down when you are trying to make a point is an insecure jerk. Break up with him.

Answer 4

Can anyone say control freak?
He met you wearing make up, now he's trying to ugly you down so noone else will see the beauty that first attracted him.
These types are predictable.
Eventually he will begin telling you that he is the only one who will ever love you.
That you have let yourself go.
That noone else wants you the way that you are.
You are doing yourself and the entire female population a disservice by loosing your identity to such a low life.

Answer 5

I know how you feel because I was in this situation before. My bf kept telling me not to wear make-up. First, I was mad but I still tried to accept it because i really loved him. I just put a little bit of make-up on my face, and he felt ok with that. Dont use a lot of make-up. He seems to be a guy who likes natural girls. This is a good point because he likes for who you are, not because of your appearance. You just need to use make-up that can make you look natural.

Answer 6

Let's see...a good argument.... Get your stuff together and leave him a note:"I thought about it, and I choose make-up"
First, he's unwilling to listen, second, he doesn't respect your feelings, and third...he's being domineering. All bad signs. You are in control of you...noone else.
Sacrificing something for him is admirable, but, now, it's time for him to sacrifice something too. Wear less....much less make-up and do it right in front of him....without being confrontational, never sure just how big of an asshole he really is.

Answer 7

It sounds like someone has a little bit of a control issue. I would break it off and move on. My husband prefers me not to wear make-up but he says the choice is up to me. And really it depends on my mood. Sometimes I do and sometimes I don't. You need to find someone who expresses their preferences but in the end leaves the decision(about yourself) up to you. A man should not EVER tell a woman that they need to choose between him and something else

Answer 8

Tell him you like to wear make up sometimes...I think he's being a little to controlling...I could see if he said me or stripping, but if hes making you choose him over makeup thats ridiculous. If you like wearing it and he can not accept it let him go, it will not be a happy relationship

Answer 9

who does he think he is....having the right to decide how you look best and I mean you proved your love for him by wearing no make-up at all so if he really loves you also for the girl you are at INSIDE then he wont mind whatever you put on your face,it doesnt make any sense to me.....maybe some compromise,IF he hates red lipstick then put on some lipgloss etc. but I think he is a very insecure boy who is afraid of losing you.....he thinks with make-up on more guys will notice you and for sure there will be somebody nicer than him,I THINK so too...

Answer 10

why do you need make up? i NEVER wear it i think its putting slap on thats uneccessary unless you naturally look like marilyn manson (who is wkd but he does look weird). this guy is being bossy in the way hes made you choose. but he appreciates your natural beauty and thats good.
if you really cant live without the ritual of putting on the slap you'll have to talk to him and compromise or if hes too bossy, ditch him. but do you really want to end a relationship over some mascara and face powder?

Answer 11

ok ok well maybe he just want to see ur real beauti. but make-up make a girl feel good but if u have to stone it a little if u love him u will try to plz him but try not to wear toooooo much make up and let him love u 4 u not 4 the person ur hideing under the make-up.