Family & Relationships - 31 July 2007

Well.. My girlfriend is gone, and I just CAN'T wait for her to return, but it's gonna' be like 6 days before I can see her again. Is there anything I can do to make time fly, so that I can return to her? If so, thanks for the advice

2007-07-31 07:21:14 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I still have a lot of trouble dealing with terminally ill people, like i dont want to make them feel worse by accident. Me and my girlfriend are both 19 and have been together since we were 15. the doctors say she has a serious blood cancer called Multiple myeloma, they say it is like luekemia : (
she has to go through really painful teatments and is having a very tough time lately. the doctors say its in an advanced stage . she has lost all her hair (its patchy on her head) and she cries about that and says shes ugly even though i keep telling her that she will always be beautiful to me. she says it makes her angry when i say she is beautiful because it isnt true, i got suprised by this because i thought it would make her feel better (and i actually believe she is beautiful). so now im worried because i want to ask her to marry her. the thing she feels most sad about is that she will never have the wedding she dreamed about as a little girl and that really breaks my heart.

2007-07-31 07:18:07 · 53 answers · asked by dave w 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-31 07:17:05 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I do okay, my married children not so good. Should we offer to pay some of their bills to help them out, or should we just let it go unless we are asked? BTW, in general they don't go out of their way to spend time with us, but that isn't really the issue. When I was a young married I could have benefitted greatly if my parents had helped us out a bit, but of course they did not.

2007-07-31 07:16:07 · 10 answers · asked by nalashelby 2 in Family

My husband is a wonderful man who has never raised a hand to me or any of my children. However he don't know how to stay home. He is a carnival worker (he doesn't do drugs, drink, or play around on me) & he won't give up the life to be a full time husbasnd. The closest he will come to staying home with us is in the winter, when he's laid off or if he can find a full time trucking job ( witch means 12 days out and 2 days home). But I want more. The other part of my broblem is my ex-boyfriend (whom I still love) has decided he don't like what the hubby is doing to me and he has decided he wants to be my (new) hubby. He is willing to quit his job move half a state away from his kids just to be with me. He knows he can get his old job back, so the job part wouldn't be a problem. He wants to be home every night with me and the kids. I love the hell out of his kids and my kids love him, too. Problem, I am in love with two men and don't have a clue what to do about it. Help!!!!

2007-07-31 07:15:22 · 14 answers · asked by kooreilly 1 in Marriage & Divorce

so what can i say to her i like her and she is very pretty and i would love to get to know her what should i say that could help me get to her so i could start a conversation to get to know her when i see her comeing home??

2007-07-31 07:14:42 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Yeah so my mom made me go to cheer camp for 4 weeks because she never thought that i was girly enough. So i played along. But to my suprise, the head cheerleader was there, the most popular girl in school, and because there was no one else from our school there, we hung out.

Now a week later, shes gonna spend the night over my house, but i have no idea how to keep her any company for what she likes, because shes really girly and she wouldnt like to do the things that i like to do in sleepovers (like scary movies and dissecting my dead lizard and going to the graveyard and chant hodo spells)

so my question is:
What do girly girls like to do / watch on tv / movie wise
(besides spa stuff and makeovers i hate that)

2007-07-31 07:13:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

or a grocery store or just any where in public!

2007-07-31 07:10:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-31 07:10:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I live with my aunt,uncle,mom,brother,cousin and grandma.

My cousin and brother just barge into my room and annoy the heck out of me. My brother is 8 and cousin is 11. Im 13. My cousin constantly takes my video games and chargers. My aunt constantly insists the stuff is my cousins and wont let me take it. We has a family argument about how selfish and spoiled my cousin is but she wont stop and my mom won't go into the subject anymore mostly because she doesn't like to fight with my aunt. I cant wright my name on the games because she wrights over it. What do I do?

2007-07-31 07:09:44 · 2 answers · asked by Conner . 1 in Family

I have called and emailed her almost every month for 5 years. She is now 19 and entering her 2nd year at a private college. She changed her last name to her mother's name when she was 18. By law, I was to pay around $4000 a school year for college. Since the decree stated that I would not have to pay if she publicly disowned me {name change} or refused to aknoledge me, they never came after me for money. Now, after calling her 6 times while she is home from school and not returned my calls, she had the nerve to email my wife and ask what happened to her savings account we had with her. The money was from my side of the famiy and my wifes from birthdays. I know it is her money but she has also not spoken to any of my or my wifes family in 5 years. This includes my mom. DO you think I should give her the money? The account only had $1077 in it in which I put $500 in on my own. I just feel that she could call me and ask for it and not email { a very generic email} and ask me for it.

2007-07-31 07:09:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am always alone. I lost all my friends. I have no girlfriend. No friends. I am labeled a bad person a lot of times. I am 17 years old. I am Brian. I am a loser

do you think I am?

2007-07-31 07:08:57 · 45 answers · asked by BtAlex 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiance called off our engagement (but we stayed boyfriend and girlfried) and I was feeling extremly hurt. So the next day I went and hung out with some friends. I ended up kissing this guy couple times because he was being really sweet and listening to my problems. Well I decided to tell my man what had happened beause i wanted to be honest. Anyway he broke up with me and about a week later we got back together because we love eachother and we are ment to be( and we both know that). But i can feel that he distrust me and I want to make it better. Any ideas?

2007-07-31 07:07:24 · 10 answers · asked by adnama_n_werd 3 in Singles & Dating

she is really crazy. she is been divorce 4 times. we had a terrible relationship in the pass and to the point we move to another city to stay away from her, we had a baby , that now y 2 and half years old she never express anything about her.or meeting her, even when i got pregnant that firts time, last dicember she sent a letter expresing that she wants to change, and be part of our lifes, we give her a second chance later in january we found out that we were expecting our second baby and Iam having this baby in 3 weeks , the whole pregnancy she just ignoreme.and it really hurts, and has'nt show any interest to change like she mention in her letter, and we did our part we did these nice things for herall year to show her we care, like her birthday, mothers day,etc.. , she just ignoreme a and my daugther too, seems like she just wants to have arelationship with my husband. but he is very angry at her for the way she is with us, anyway last night she call. and we didnt aswwer phon

2007-07-31 07:07:19 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-07-31 07:06:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

You have your child for the specified visitation time and the last day has come and you have to have your child home to her mom's house by 6. The mom says she isn't going to be there because she has to go to school and is unwilling to make arrangements with any family members to have the child taken there. What would/can you do?

2007-07-31 07:04:48 · 4 answers · asked by Tameka M 1 in Family

A girl i was talking to said she was going to be bored all weekend and then she asked what i was doing this weekend and when i said nothing she smiled and walked away....Do i ask her out now which seems desperates seeing how the conversation happened today or do i wait a couple days so i dont seem desperate!

I really like this girl!!!

2007-07-31 07:04:18 · 28 answers · asked by Tristan 3 in Singles & Dating

Over the weekend I spent alot of time with my really good friend (we dated when we were younger only broke up cause at that age you really are all about what your friends think well time has made his and my friends friends (6 years or so lol)). Anyways back to the point it got into a pretty in depth conversation about dating and all the mistakes we had made in the dating game over the years. It also didn't help that my sister and my brotehrs (and best friend included) all amde comments about us dating atthe party we went to. Well basiclly my friend has admitted he is crazy about me, and trust me I'm all into him too what has me all confused and scared for lack of a better word is granted a lot has to do with my last horrid relationship and that pain (my friend was with me every step of the way during the divorce and it was cool to have a person to lean on) not to mention I'm worried about our friendship ending and well you know the typical turning a friend into a relationship issues.

2007-07-31 07:02:16 · 14 answers · asked by Varacha 3 in Friends

the bad ones get all the breaks?

2007-07-31 07:01:42 · 12 answers · asked by sxynkki 2 in Marriage & Divorce

So I grew up in Michigan with a mother who has been a poor decision maker and has let herself get walked on and taken advantage of several times, and lower income considering the size of our family (6 kids, im the oldest). I moved out when I was 17. When I turned 21 I moved to Arizona with my best friends, I got a great job. I'm now almost 24 and have worked very hard and now have a six figure income, I'm having my first house built and have met a great girl, all from nothing things are going great for me. My dilema is that my mother is still in the same rut, shes allowing my 19 year old brother, who has had a kid with his 18 yr old gf btw, freeload and do drugs at her house while my other younger siblings are there.When I talk to her on the phone, she just blames everything on everyone else, and she never takes action to make things better. I can't take it anymore, I can't afford to sacrifice what I have to support them, I dont want this in my life, is it ok to cut her out of my life?

2007-07-31 07:01:27 · 7 answers · asked by Will H 2 in Family

Parents often make such statements in response to their teenager’s objections with regards to curfews, chores, etc..
How helpful are those words, really. What are we teaching our kids about life when we say this is my house and these are my rules?
And when does the house become our children’s house also, when do they have a say in the rules?

2007-07-31 07:00:56 · 14 answers · asked by ? 5 in Family

for number 2? I found lap tops, cellular phones in the bathroom after my husband stay in there for hours. My dad and brother does the samething too

2007-07-31 07:00:03 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-31 06:59:33 · 7 answers · asked by Leona 4 in Singles & Dating

I keep getting these orgasms without even having intercourse. At first, it was just me getting wet from excitement, but now they have turned to full blown orgasms.

For instance, I love to go dancing. And if I'm on the dance floor and feel the guy getting hard, the thought of that just makes me gush. Also, I was online yesterday in a chatroom, and some guy was telling me what he;d do to me, and that was enought to have my p***y paulsate, contract, heat up and gush to the point of changin my underwear.

I have also noticed that now, when I have sex with my man, I ejaculate like a man.

I am in my 30s. Is this an age thing?

2007-07-31 06:57:20 · 24 answers · asked by by N 2 in Singles & Dating

I mean i do think that sum men are to blame for the lack of respect for women..but i think if we took a step back and realized that ladies are a big part of it too..i mean you can be appealing without showing your more private areas..i mean dont get me wrong i dont think that women should always be covered from head to toe..but i do think that there is a thin line between sexy and slutty and alota of women cross it..and yet they are the first to wonder y no one has any respect for them..well i was just wondering wat you guys think..thanks<33

2007-07-31 06:57:01 · 12 answers · asked by MAMixxAxxDiIVA<3 1 in Singles & Dating

sex from him, I could do it 10 times a day if he could keep up. I dont want sex with anyone, but this is so new for me becuase I have had 2 other serious long term relationships and I never wanted sex as much with them exes. But with this guy it is different, Im like addicted. We do it about 1 or 2 times a day when he is working and on the weekend when he isnt sometimes up to 3 times a day on a good day, one time on a typical day. He says we do it alot, I think not enough...he is also 10 years older than me, im 27, he is 37.

2007-07-31 06:55:10 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

They came with a Resume and at least 3 references of which would have to be people they have been involved with. Oh yeah, and a background check with a copy of their Bank Statement and Credit Report for the past 3 years. Wouldn't this make life so much easier?

2007-07-31 06:54:43 · 11 answers · asked by au10tic 4 in Singles & Dating

I just met a guy and we are together now...sometimes I catch him in little lies..he makes me feel on top of the world though....what to do?

2007-07-31 06:54:31 · 12 answers · asked by Ronni S 2 in Singles & Dating

Im scared to talk to people that I don't know (especially of the opposite sex) because I think they won't like me after they actually talk to me. Is this normal?

2007-07-31 06:54:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I met this girl and we have been having sex for almost two years. I'm afraid she is getting attached. What should I do?

2007-07-31 06:53:56 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating