Family & Relationships - 31 July 2007

well, my husband and I had quite a few arguments about him having female friends that he doesn't want me to meet to whom he makes regular phone calls.I do not think that he is cheating on me but he is hideing his phone from me and when I found the phone yesterday and open text msg. i found a picture of a girl naked with a title: ATT Jeff.
So I wonder when is it ok to send a friend a picture of yourself naked?I have a hard time asking him for we always have huge arguments where he says he doesn't cheat on me and they are just friends.What do you think?

2007-07-31 05:02:28 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This morning, my husband, my son and I, took my daughter to catch the train. She joined the Job Corp and she will be gone for 6 month's to a year. (depending on how fast she works) I really broke down crying at the train station and even more, when she boarded the train. Although I am proud of her, I miss her terribly already and coming home to see her room literally empty, didn't help matters. How do I deal with this, I miss her so much? Not only is she my daughter, but she's also my best friend. I will say, i'm very thankful, that she's only 3 hours away from us, as far as the distance goe's.

2007-07-31 05:00:45 · 7 answers · asked by A_WWE_FAN_4LYFE 6 in Family

The guy I am with has a bad rep when it comes to girls and dating, hes been known to "get in, get on, and get out". but he tells me he's changed and that he really likes me. Should i give him a try? I really like him but im afraid of getting hurt

2007-07-31 04:57:57 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-31 04:53:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I did that free trial and gotten a lot of views, however, most were not my type. I even got a message and the person deleted the profile, why bother then. I just did it for fun but it was so off.

DRAGON 2008
"I BELIEVE IN U.S."

2007-07-31 04:49:47 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need some advice on an interesting relationship. A few months ago I meet a guy and we started "seeing" each other. (Sort of), Basicly, we had both said that niether of us wanted a relationship right now and that we would just keep doing what we were doing. Now, I am beginning to fall for him and I don't know what to do. He calls me everyday, we e-mail each other, he comes over. Hes like my best friend with benefits. We have had deep conversations about relationships and what we are looking for and we both want the same things, accept he won't let his guard down. He tells me all the time how wonderful I am and how much he cares about me. But its always stated that he doesn't want a girlfriend. What do I do, I am out of thoughts on this one.

2007-07-31 04:49:34 · 24 answers · asked by Me. 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-31 04:49:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2007-07-31 04:49:17 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a relative that has some type of jealousy of me, since childhood, and recently I have been hearing constant hurtful things that she is going around saying to people about me that makes my reputation look very scandelous, these are things that never happened, but she is trying hard to convince them that it did. (Sounds like a Jerry Springer type show), but the constant hearing of such insane things are starting to bother me emotionally. I need someone to give me advice, besides stop listening to rumors...is there a legal way to restrain her from using my name on her lips?

2007-07-31 04:48:41 · 4 answers · asked by always honest 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Right, about a month ago me and Charley(my ex) broke, She's 12 years old and I'm 14. First time we met she instantly fell in love with me and a few days later she asked me out over e-mail but I was ill at the time and it was a school e-mail system so when I got back she didn't want to go out with me because she got scared of the age difference or sommat to do with the age difference. A month or so later on a Friday dinner we were talkin and she said lets be boyfriend and girlfriend and I said yeah. The followin Monday Steph mine and Charley's best friend and the girl who introduce me to Charley was upset and wouldn't talk to neither of us so we split up thinkin it was because we were together and I rang Steph that night and she said she was bein bullied and next day I told Charley and asked if we could get back together but her fear had come back. In the time we weren't together she got a new boyfriend then dumped him for me and then the fear came back again and now she's with a new...

2007-07-31 04:47:56 · 14 answers · asked by Lily R 6 in Singles & Dating

seriusly....and if you are dating a guy (you always talk about everything and have a good comunication) and you ask him how many sex partners has he had and after been guessing many times he doesnt want to tell you the number...is it because maybe is to low or to high compare with the number you came up with when you were guessing???......
thanx!

2007-07-31 04:45:18 · 7 answers · asked by aais 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

well i think im a great person and im really down to earth....im not prejudice and i like to help people with their problem and i usually do. I'm seen as one of the leaders of the crew i chill with. ( everyone waits for me to do things, they ask wut i want to do ( if we're goin out they all want my opinion. Also all the girls we chill with love 2 see me when i get to our main party house, they say im SOOOOO funny and i get along with everyone who respects me. ( i got dumped 2 months ago from a 4 year relationship so im new to this all over again- im 19 and love to have fun but this break up really effected me for a while cuz she dumped me for some1 else and tried to blame the break up on me, NOT COOL, so yeah just seeing if i got what girls my age are looking for? so is this a good thing if a new girl were to start chillin with us would this help me get this girl? im not bad looking, im medium built and i have a steady job, do u think this would help? THANKS

2007-07-31 04:42:03 · 4 answers · asked by Nanonan m 2 in Singles & Dating

For some reason, I have this uncomfortable feeling that my husband may cheat on me with my sister. Judging from the way he is, he's not that kind of person. Aside from that, he never did anything to trigger this feelings. I just don't know why I'm just so insecure about it. I think I need help. I have no idea why I'm feeling like this. This feeling comes and goes. Now I have been feeling like this for the past 2 days. I haven't talk to my husband about it until I have it figure out why. Please help??

2007-07-31 04:40:58 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-31 04:38:45 · 18 answers · asked by Challah back Girl... 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-31 04:38:39 · 8 answers · asked by roy 4 in Singles & Dating

I really want to honestly talk about things with my bf of 3...nearly 4 months. I just get the feeling that he's not convinced of his feelings for me, as result im not convinced either, perhaps its just how he is (needs time?)...and not him being secretative.

It seems he does really like me, he says i turn him on & we have fun...but am I right for him? I feel that if you really care for someone, u'd naturally want to tell them that & I seem to have to coax it out of him about what he thinks. I want to know to that he wants to be with me, just not out of politeness or coz he has nothing better to do.

Should I just sit back patiently and wait to see what happenes? or broach the subject, I really dont know how to though.

2007-07-31 04:38:39 · 5 answers · asked by Tickle_funny 1 in Singles & Dating

Say you're going out with someone for a year. You've definitely have had your ups and downs--there have been many red flags indicating a strong potential for emotional abuse on their end--but after some deep talking after taking a little break and promises from the other person to try to make changes, things look good for a couple months. Really good. You're being told you're loved all the time. You're being told how wonderful their life is with you in it. You're beginning to regain some trust in them.

Then, one day, this person says to you "I love you. It's you I want to be with. You. Nobody else.' There's a strange twist in inflection on the 'you.' So, you jokingly say, 'What? Are you thinking about being with somebody else?' They reply, 'Only in my head.'

Is this a comment engineered to undermine my self-esteem and confidence, or am I--as they have implied--'over-reacting?'

Is is emotional abuse?

2007-07-31 04:38:38 · 9 answers · asked by writergirl523 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

a few weeks ago i broke up with my bf Zak and he got a new gf
and when ever we hag out with our friends his gf is always with
him well anyways two nights ago i was at his house with my friend Kristen and she past out on the couch and i went to the kitchin to get a glass of water and zak was in there without his shirt on and i almost pastout and he did this whole cleshey story and im still mad at myself for listening but when he looked into my eyes the way he did when we were together my heart melted then he kissed me and this one sent fireworks but the way he did it he pushed me aganst the wall and kissed me
im conffused do i still love him or was just the way he was holding me or was it the great kiss this morning his gf called me and said thanks to me he dumped her is it realy my falt or dose he still love me

2007-07-31 04:38:21 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We were born in TX and moved to OR when I was 11 and he was 4. I moved back to TX in 2003 after being laid off. My brother came with me and we stayed at my grandmother's until I could find a place. We moved out and my brother moved back to OR because he couldn't find a job and didn't have transportation. Unfortunately TX has poor bus service, especially if you live in the suburbs. However, OR has an excellent transit system for just about anywhere you live. My brother has decided to move back to OR (after being fired from his job 2 weeks ago) and will be leaving this Friday. I am so crushed. We are very close and he is one of my best friends. We do everything together. It has not been confirmed that he is gay, but he is kind of like the girlfriend I never had. He helps me shop for furniture, decorations, clothes, etc. and he always listens to me and he never judges me. My husband and I have a terrible relationship. We are working on things, but I get no companionship.

2007-07-31 04:37:40 · 12 answers · asked by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4 in Family

What do you think of a woman who cheats on her husband while he is deployed to Iraq. I know quite a few guys that this has happened to and thats sad. Let me know what you think??

2007-07-31 04:36:52 · 24 answers · asked by coby r 2 in Marriage & Divorce

do girls like them small sometimes??

2007-07-31 04:36:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im making a concentrated effort to ignore women for one week, but it is proving to be mission impossible. Why do you have you be so sexy?

2007-07-31 04:33:14 · 18 answers · asked by Balrog 2 in Singles & Dating

I need a Greek song for my wedding for my father daughter dance. Can anyone recommend a beautiful song slow song?

2007-07-31 04:27:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i am not with my family, they hated me a lot because i am such a failure.. i grow up in a cultured country wherein family is a group where in members must not seperate even grows older. my father hate me because i hate her new wife...
my sister hate me because i dont follow what she want from me... i dont even have a job knowing that i finish my college with Bachelor of science in Nursing..

pls.. am i bad...

2007-07-31 04:27:17 · 6 answers · asked by eil ashti 5 in Family

Why or why not?

2007-07-31 04:26:37 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-31 04:22:23 · 13 answers · asked by Betty Bookworm 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-31 04:21:59 · 27 answers · asked by milesrey 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my gf said she would any day but how would i approach it cause im not a virgin and nether is she but this will be our first time together so what should i do. Woman how do u wanted to be approached?

2007-07-31 04:20:33 · 8 answers · asked by chris w 1 in Singles & Dating

ok, so i met this guy at the fair. he was showing his cows for 4-h. he is really cutie. my friend says she knows him from some where. but my q is how can i talk to him without getting nervious and talkin too much. and how do i approach him? do i am for his # or should he ask for mine? basically give me a crach coarse in guys 101!

2007-07-31 04:19:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Me and my husband were married this month on the 18th (7/18/2007) and about 3 days ago i found out that he had a fiance on the side.The truth is that before we got married i had made him mad and we basically broke up(This break up was less then 24 hours) and his ex-girlfriend who had broke up with him before had came back in his life during this "Break up", she asked him back out.Apparently,he told me that they were at the mall and she saw a ring she wanted and he bought it for her.She turned to him and said "Im taking this as a promise ring" and he just said "Ok". Basically he was engaged to another girl during our marriage. This girl also happens to be his best friend,so they have history. I know this is strange but i told him that we are seperated and that i think he needs to go back out with her, he needs to do this for closure and to make sure or to just see if they really have somthing special, am i making a mistake?

2007-07-31 04:16:00 · 26 answers · asked by Elise G 1 in Marriage & Divorce