Family & Relationships - 31 July 2007

I went to a web site, www.nomarriage.com..........think more women need to check that site out. Women need to start understanding men and the way we are instead of being so selfish. I was married once and I don't think i'll ever do it again!

2007-07-31 06:51:08 · 17 answers · asked by thomas c 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriends mom(Jane) and dad(Joe) are divorced and have been for at least 4 years. Joe was ordered by the court 2 pay Jane maintenance around $330ish I think a month, if she has her OWN place. For almost 2.5 years, she has been living with her boyfriend and is still receiving her maintenance. Joe found out that she had been living with her boyfriend and is now taking her to court, so he will no longer have to pay her, since she now lives with her b/f. The only thing is, she is asking her son (my b/f) to lie and say that she lives with him in our house. He first declined, but now she has him on a guilt trip and told him that his father lied to him, right to his face. Jane has done a lot of things for her son and is now basically DEMANDING he lie to his father to "pay her back". Is it right for my b/f 2 lie 2 his father, just because Joe lied to him? 2 wrongs don't make a right! Is it right of his mother 2 demand he do this for her? I think my b/f should be left out of their mess!

2007-07-31 06:50:48 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I still contribute to the bills though (I have some money in the bank) I figured I would take a break from working to figure out somethings first (Im clinically depressed, manic depression) I ended a relationship with my ex about 6 months ago and and have a child from that relationship, and then I meet this new guy, we click and now we live together, everything is pretty awesome except for the fact that my new guy gets annoyed that I dont go t work every morning like he does, yet I still help with rent and food...I will go back I just dotn want to yet and I dont exactly have to...how can I tell him to chill out about this?

2007-07-31 06:50:38 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

In the street,If a descent looking men you don't know try to date you and ask your phone number.

a)Would you give him a wrong phone number
b)Gentley tell him that you don't give him your phone number
c)You give the number but you never answer him
d)You take his phone number and call him once
e)You never call him back

After your choice, tell me what goes on your head, the reason or feeling that made you make that choice for that stranger.
Try to remember how you felt, your exact feeling that made you take this decision

2007-07-31 06:49:34 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay my boyfriend and me have been together for almost 3 months.we broke up once b4 because for the first month he was talking to TONS of girls..and not like just talking but like hey ur hot lets hang out i love you and he was going out with one..even thou he denys he was going out with her but i know he was because i had his myspace pw.so im going on vaca for 2 weeks and he was gunna drive 2 hours to go visit some of his friends, which 2 of them r his exs[i kno one likes him, but they both have bfs] nd another he calld gorgeous, but there will be guys there too nd other girls prolly.he was plannin on spending the nite at one of there houses for a few days...should i trust that he wont cheat on me?wat shud i do?

2007-07-31 06:49:31 · 11 answers · asked by britney s 2 in Singles & Dating

how do guys like sex? rough and hard? nice and easy? just want your oppinion.

2007-07-31 06:48:20 · 10 answers · asked by Samantha H 1 in Singles & Dating

if you havent had your first kiss with the opposite sex.. but u practice on the same sex.. would the one with the same sex be your first one??
ok. im a girl.. obviossslyy

if i were to practice on one of my 'girl' friends, would that be my first or the one with my boy friend???

im totally straight and i wouldnt do this but i still dont get it..
cuz i mea.. you can only have so much practice with something that doesnt move. haha
please answer =]

2007-07-31 06:47:14 · 14 answers · asked by bryndibabe1001 2 in Singles & Dating

My girl broke up with me a week ago, because we had a little fight over me complaining. I was upset about some people's reactions to a band performance I had. She said I need to learn to "be happy without her." I know that I had been complaining too much, and I feel really bad about it. I tried to tell her it wasn't a good idea at first, and I didn't want to be just "friends" but then I went along with her wishes. We hung out Friday. I even made a joke reguarding sex and right away she said she can't help being sexually attracted to me. I paid for dinner and a movie, we went to the park. I told her at the end of the night I love her, and she said the same, but I didn't kiss her. She had a really good time though. The next few nights we have talked but I haven't been saying "I love you" until I sent her an email tonight. I don't know if I should continue to do so or not. I just want her back but don't want to sound needy really. She did say she wants to continue our park outing some night and do a bunch of other things as well together. I just don't understand if we really are just friends now or not. Even though initially she said she had made up her mind about breaking up. I said the other night casually that I wasn't given a fair chance, and she said she was "watching me." I turned that conversation into "goodnight" though. I don't know what to do next. Should I stop writing to her?

Also, when I changed my status on myspace to "divorced" she changed hers to that as well, but her facebook still say's "single." Would it be most likely that she will be too embarassed or feel she looks weak if she gets back with me and her friends know? Btw, we dated for 2 years.

2007-07-31 06:46:19 · 16 answers · asked by Mint Car 1 in Singles & Dating

pee in the sink if you really have to go and have already been waiting 20 minutes for your husband to get out of the bathroom?

YES I CLEANED THE SINK OUT.

2007-07-31 06:45:31 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am 24 yrs old and married to my husband who is 28 yrs old for 3 yrs.Its not working out too much has happened and he cheated on me more than once.I have a daughter from a prior relationship who is 4 yrs old who i want to make things easy on her as possible.I spoke to my soon to be ex.husband who has been working in london these last 3 months and we both agreed to make things as civil as possible.He mentioned the liquidation of all marital assets and splitting everything 50/50 as a possibilty?Is this a good idea?

2007-07-31 06:40:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My name is Lisa I'm 21 years old. I have 3 sisters. I am using my sister's yahoo answer because I never felt the urge to use this site until today.

I turned 21 last week and my mother and father pulled me aside she told me she needed to speak with me. They told me they had something they have been meaning to tell me since I was born but felt they needed to wait until I was 21 to tell me.

My nother told me she was pregnant with me before she married my father. I knew that already. She then went on to say that she had only known my dad 7 months before that got married and that my father that I have known for 21 years was not my father. Apparently my father had left her when she got pregant and 2 months later she met my father and they fell in love. She explained to my father signed the birth certificate knowing it was not his but he wanted to raise me.

this is KILLING ME!!! I have been crying EVERY SINGLE NIGHT I am so angry!!!!! I am so shocked that they kept this from me!

HELP!!

2007-07-31 06:38:57 · 35 answers · asked by Pinkie221 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiance is long distance but do I ask him what he likes, show him pictures, or just buy one?

2007-07-31 06:38:34 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Ok I have posted so much stuff about helping me with my mom but I have a huge problem. Her friend just told my mom that I dragged my brother across a drive way which I did not. I told her I did not I was told to be lieing. So I call my aunt who was there and saw everything (my bro is 4 and freaked out and got mad so I tried to pick him up and he refused too!) and she told my mom I DID NOT drag him at all just pulled his arm. Her friend was the one who lied but that does not matter I am grounded for "lieing" and hurting my brother and she still treats her friend like gold (even though she is teh problem and lier!!) and treats me like s***...what do I have to do about getting my mom to realize everything that is going wrong is alllll her friends fault?? And help me get me ungrounded for something I did not do!

2007-07-31 06:37:46 · 6 answers · asked by hilaryfan25 2 in Family

I was reading a question here this morning and was surprised a little by a few ladies reaction. I was married once for eight years and lost my best friend and wife to an illness. She was warm and fun-loving as it gets, always smiling and tender, and also knew how to let her hair down..lol She did go out of her way for me and in many ways was submissive to me and it was wonderful. Unlike "some" men, I did not abuse this gift that she gave me. Example: If there was something we had to make a decision on and we could not agree, she always left it up to me, and I always asked for her input. She made dinner five nights a week and the other two nights I took her where she wanted to go. Simply put...I was the man of my house and when I said this is how it will be...well...it was done. I treated her like a princess at home and "always" in public. I never stared at other women in her presence, and always opened her door...etc. Some women say they have a problem being this way on here, do you??

2007-07-31 06:35:43 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was diagnosed with PCOS (Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome) about 8 years ago. I am 30 years old now. PCOS does cause weight gain, hormonal imbalance and insulin resistance. I assume that I have had it for quite some time because I really began to gain weight when I turned 18. But I noticed it was really getting out of hand when I turned 21 or so. I am 5'2" and weigh about 198 pounds. The weight is most noticeable in my face, breasts and stomach, although I have always had large breasts. I do not exercise at all and my diet consists of a lot of sugar (candy like lifesavers, starburst, skittles, cotton candy, etc.). I am addicted to sugar. I drink lots of kool-aid and have started a soda habit now. I honestly don't eat a lot of food. I eat twice a day but a lot of times I am not hungry for dinner, I just eat because my husband will make a big deal about me skipping a meal. He says that there is no way I couldn't be hungry after only eating lunch for the day. But it's true ...

2007-07-31 06:30:18 · 43 answers · asked by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I like it do you think is a good song to breakup with my bf he forgot it was my birthday he didn't even call I think it he was with someone else!!!!!!! Well let me know what you think of the song and video so I can text it to him!!!!!!!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bqpA5Acc8-c

2007-07-31 06:29:09 · 17 answers · asked by sk8ter chick 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-31 06:26:42 · 3 answers · asked by Chelsea 2 in Singles & Dating

Currently we have seperate checking accounts. I seems like everything is either his or mine. We bought my parents house and have been living there for 5 years, he considers it mine not his. Does anyone have any suggestions on what to do or do you think there is another issue that cause him to think this way.

2007-07-31 06:26:08 · 29 answers · asked by srs_stephanie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I haven't found the right guy yet and am waiting for that time to come. And what if i want to not kiss until i know he's the right one, will he blow me off?

2007-07-31 06:25:12 · 14 answers · asked by Sam28 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-31 06:24:48 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

lately i felt there was something wrong with my relationship with her...she became different with me somehow..so i installed a key logger in our PC
today i found out that she had another email that i thought she didn't use anymore
the keylogger showed a bunch of conversations with different e-mails of people i don't know mostly men
they were talking about small things and it seems that they know each other from a long time
i know i made a mistake spying on her but my only excuse is i love her very very much
and now that i know she is hiding things from me i don't know what to do ...
please tell me what to do if you were me??
she lied to me before by saying she stopped using that e-mail long time ago i trusted her
but now i don't know what to do..or what to say.

2007-07-31 06:23:01 · 23 answers · asked by zak 2 in Singles & Dating

I met a guy a few weeks ago ive seen him a few times and text and spoke on the phone loads, he always seemed to be the one texting me and seemed really interested but over the last few days ive heard nothing from him whats going on i cant think of anything ive done or said to put him off i mean i didnt come on too strong or anything, whats going on in his head i sent him the last text but he hasnt replied im so confused.

2007-07-31 06:22:49 · 16 answers · asked by Laurie 2 in Singles & Dating

there's this boy in my neighborhood who keeps hitting me for no reason do you think he likes me??

PLEASE ANSWER NICELY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-07-31 06:22:43 · 5 answers · asked by Tequan and Cami 2 in Singles & Dating

and you all are out together and he talks to her most of the time ignoring you and you can't leave the scene, how should you conduct yourself in their presence without seeming to be jealous?

2007-07-31 06:22:27 · 20 answers · asked by Inquiringmind 3 in Singles & Dating

I have a terrible phobia I'm afraid. It's called, "fear of rejection", and it's ruining my dating life. I feel as if I actually talk to the guy I like who seems to like me back, he won't like me anymore & hate my personality. Will this happen? Everyone says I have a great personanlity & I'm sweet, but rather shy. So, I really don't know what to do. I'm terrified. Is this true? Would this happen to me if I talked to him? Plus I have another phobia. For some reason I'm obsessed with if I my breath is bad. I know it's not, but it makes me uneasy to get very close to people & talk. I'm a nervous wreck. What should I do?

2007-07-31 06:21:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-31 06:21:01 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-31 06:19:00 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-07-31 06:17:33 · 3 answers · asked by Living_Dead_Beat 2 in Singles & Dating

What do you think guys my girl is bi and she i love it i have had more threesomes that i could have ever imagined i would of. But the problem is she at times hints she would like to enjoy a woman from time to time with out me and she believes it is not cheating. Her excuse is because there is no man involved it is ok. Is she right should i be ok with it or stand aginst it. Is it cheating or not. Is it a big deal at all?

2007-07-31 06:16:26 · 15 answers · asked by German T 1 in Singles & Dating

shes hardly spoken to me and whenever im online she starts talking to me

2007-07-31 06:14:05 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating