What do you think guys my girl is bi and she i love it i have had more threesomes that i could have ever imagined i would of. But the problem is she at times hints she would like to enjoy a woman from time to time with out me and she believes it is not cheating. Her excuse is because there is no man involved it is ok. Is she right should i be ok with it or stand aginst it. Is it cheating or not. Is it a big deal at all?
2007-07-31 06:16:26 · 15 answers · asked by German T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you did more cheating by having a three somes if any woman has premission from her man or husband to have a love affair with should be done without you maybe she feels jealouys and feels hurt to share you with a woman if you think about what i am saying here than you will understand
2007-07-31 06:35:45 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it is however you percieve it since you are allowing the 3some.
But cheating is cheating no matter how you word it when you have sex w/someone else while in a relationship..... you have made a committment to your relationship with your partner and you BOTH have made decisions regarding your personal sex life and you are either going to be ok and except it or not!!! But what will happen when she wants to have a 3some with you and another fella? Will it be Cheating or not? It really is your call on what you are going to accept in your relationship,and no matter if you are cheating its noones business but you and your partners if that is what you agree on!!!
You probably should have set ground rules before entering into that kind of sexual relationship with different partners!!!
good luck!!!
2007-07-31 06:32:00 · answer #2 · answered by dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be cheating once you set the boundaries of the relationship. You are on a slippery slope though, agreeing to threesomes in the first place. Your question is also a generalization in the first place, and should have been worded differently.
2016-05-18 23:57:39 · answer #3 · answered by damaris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheating is cheating no matter who a person sleeps with. If you're ok with it i don't see why it should be a problem but it doesn't sound like you're ok with it. If your girlfriend doesn't realise this then there is something wrong with the relationship.
2007-07-31 06:20:56 · answer #4 · answered by isildurs_babe 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
cheating is cheating no matter what the gender. problem is...you opened the door by having threesomes. now you've got to deal with the consequences.
2007-07-31 06:20:30 · answer #5 · answered by zeke58 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i asked my husband this ? he said no its not cheating because the satisfaction a women gets from another women is something a man cannot accomplish. by the way my husband does not like threesomes and never had one.
he loves one on one with me. i on the other wanted to have a sexual experience with a women and he understood
2007-07-31 06:22:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Kind of a thin line...yes it is cheating. Sit down and talk to her about..You have had plenty of 3sums with other women... maybe make a deal with her that she is with just one of your mutual friends every know and then.
2007-07-31 06:24:15 · answer #7 · answered by Brian R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man, dont let her do it...if you arent involved then it is cheating, that is not a hard concept to grasp and its completely inarguable...tell her that you want to get a bj from hersister, but its ok cause there is no puuussssyyyy involved
2007-07-31 06:21:33 · answer #8 · answered by boredatwork 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her if she wants to have sex with another woman with out you, you should be able to have sex with another woman without her. It doesn't matter if she want sex with another woman she will be having sex with another person other than you.
2007-07-31 06:25:11 · answer #9 · answered by ogrething2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I did it behind my husband's back I would consider it cheating. He and I have done it before and it was mutual, so that was not cheating.
2007-07-31 06:20:24 · answer #10 · answered by dinny's engaged!! 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋