okay my boyfriend and me have been together for almost 3 months.we broke up once b4 because for the first month he was talking to TONS of girls..and not like just talking but like hey ur hot lets hang out i love you and he was going out with one..even thou he denys he was going out with her but i know he was because i had his myspace pw.so im going on vaca for 2 weeks and he was gunna drive 2 hours to go visit some of his friends, which 2 of them r his exs[i kno one likes him, but they both have bfs] nd another he calld gorgeous, but there will be guys there too nd other girls prolly.he was plannin on spending the nite at one of there houses for a few days...should i trust that he wont cheat on me?wat shud i do?
2007-07-31 06:49:31 · 11 answers · asked by britney s 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
usually, when that 'should i trust or should i not' question hit you,,, is for a time sit and think only 'YOURSELF' and YOUR life not his
you sound very young, there must be one for you who never makes you wonder, don't try to know every detail of his life or his record of cheating and concentrate to yourself, real one will find you someday soon.
2007-07-31 07:03:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally given the information above I wouldn't trust him. He has a history of dating around (2 ex's in the same group) Give him an out ask him if he'd like to break up while you are gone. If he says yes then I really wouldn't consider getting back with him but if he says no then you should try to trust him.
2007-07-31 06:56:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like neither one of you trusts each other. And with good reason. If you've already split once in 3 months, I'm sorry to say, but this is a relationship that I don't see lasting.
And no, I wouldn't trust him. But if you don't trust someone you get rid of them, not obsess and check his myspace.
2007-07-31 06:53:57 · answer #3 · answered by belle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are going to worry yourself sick that everytime you are not around, your boyfriend is going to cheat on you, your best bet is to not bother having a boyfriend.
Some guys cheat, some don't, but don't obsess about what a man is doing everytime he's out of your sight. If you catch him cheating, dump him. Simple as that.
What you need to do is to have confidence in who YOU are. Confident women are more attractive to men. Clingy, possessive women turn them off.
2007-07-31 06:55:53 · answer #4 · answered by Sally G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
date other people, too.
there's no law against going out with other people. perhaps spending time with more than one person, will help you to see that HE is not the only man on earth.
and if he is asking other girls to hang out and spending a lot of time with other girls, he is probably not ready to settle for one person right now.
take care of YOU too! he's not the only guy around! hugs
2007-07-31 06:53:32 · answer #5 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never trust a cheater. once he is a cheater, always a cheater.
first time he cheat, shame on him
second time he cheat, shame on you, because you should not forgive him at the first place.
when you know he plays around, you should not date him at the first place. it is yrou fault to fall for wrong guy, and pay for your cost.
2007-07-31 06:53:59 · answer #6 · answered by Tracy But 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a new boyfriend. You guys are too young yet to treat eachother well. This guy is bad news and a liar.
2007-07-31 06:53:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simplify your life.
Confusion and jealousy will not bring happiness, not now, not when you are 21, not when you are 61.
Best to start good habits now.
Peace!
2007-07-31 06:55:25 · answer #8 · answered by C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably will sorry.
He sounds like he's not a very good guy. I would personally not waste your time with him.
2007-07-31 06:59:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask, you already know in your heart you can not trust him
2007-07-31 06:52:50 · answer #10 · answered by idtshadow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋