Ok I have posted so much stuff about helping me with my mom but I have a huge problem. Her friend just told my mom that I dragged my brother across a drive way which I did not. I told her I did not I was told to be lieing. So I call my aunt who was there and saw everything (my bro is 4 and freaked out and got mad so I tried to pick him up and he refused too!) and she told my mom I DID NOT drag him at all just pulled his arm. Her friend was the one who lied but that does not matter I am grounded for "lieing" and hurting my brother and she still treats her friend like gold (even though she is teh problem and lier!!) and treats me like s***...what do I have to do about getting my mom to realize everything that is going wrong is alllll her friends fault?? And help me get me ungrounded for something I did not do!
2007-07-31 06:37:46 · 6 answers · asked by hilaryfan25 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
well...if your mother doesn't believe you, or your mother's friends...maybe there are some trust issues floating around from things you lied about in the past. besides that, maybe your mother is overexaggerating and it just went too far. i'm terribly sorry you got grounded unfairly. it happened to me once and i wanted to die. but, you can talk to your mother about it calmly and explain it, and if she still doesn't believe you, take your grounding as a chance to reflect on yourself or start something new. you could read a new book, or start a new workout routine..or even write a song about the unfairness of it all!! if you're into that sort of thing.
2007-07-31 06:42:37 · answer #1 · answered by sami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't get ungrounded for what you did because you already had someone tell the truth for you, but for the future tell her the truth and if she believes her friend more than you again tell her that it's unbelieveble how bad your relationship is with each other if your mom can't believe you. Tell her that you wish you guys were closer. Also tell her that you don't like seeing your mom's friend lie all the time and it's getting annoying that your getting in trouble for it and she's believeing the crap her friend tells her. As for getting ungrounded for right now try and have your brother tell your mom what happened.
2007-07-31 06:47:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-13 05:50:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good Luck on that one kiddo I never had my mom around. You might try siting her down and talking to her about it when there is no distractions, no little brother, and when she is calm. When you talk to her, talk to her like an adult and you be calm as well. If that is not a choice than wright her a long letter and leave it where she will find it or even send it to her in the mail. That is what I did to talk to my dad!
2007-07-31 06:48:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe asking your brother to tell your mom the truth helps.
2007-07-31 07:05:55 · answer #5 · answered by greentea 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't know what you can do, except a better job of selecting YOUR OWN FRIENDS in the future.
friends like the one your mother has, are manipulators and trouble makers.
i'm really sorry you're going through this
2007-07-31 06:42:07 · answer #6 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋