I am always alone. I lost all my friends. I have no girlfriend. No friends. I am labeled a bad person a lot of times. I am 17 years old. I am Brian. I am a loser
do you think I am?
2007-07-31 07:08:57 · 45 answers · asked by BtAlex 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I tried to meet people. Everyones afraid of bad people I feel so isolated.
it seems like everyones fearful of terrorists.
I have seen it on Bowling for columbine.
I think people don't like me at all because I am a nice guy who will never do anything hurtful.
2007-07-31 07:17:46 · update #1
"Your life is what you make of it, so if your life sucks, you suck." - Mike Muir
Only YOU can make your life better. If you CHOOSE not to, then yes, you are a loser.
So choose to make your life BETTER, and DO IT.
2007-07-31 07:11:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry about it. At 17, you still have plenty of time to make friends and date girls. I'm 19 and I didn't date anyone until this year and I'm not that great at being social, but I've managed to find a few good friends. Maybe you'll be able to find someone else who is a bit of a loner and you two could connect. I would just say that you're going through teen angst and will get over it, but I do hate it when people say that. Get interested in something and that will give you something to do with your alone time and maybe through that interest you could meet other people that enjoy it as well. I know someone that had that happen with anime, they got into it and said they were a lot happier after they did. High school just sucks. It'll end.
2007-07-31 07:28:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) If you think you are a loser, you are a loser.
2) Why don't you have friends? You need to be a friend to have a friend.
3) Why are you a bad person? Are you into drugs and criminal stuff?
If any of these apply to you, you need to rethink your life. Get busy changing your life. If you continue down this "loser" road, you will watch other people moving ahead in their own lives and wishing you could do the same. Only you can make those changes. Start today.
2007-07-31 07:15:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may not be a loser but there is something very annoying about you that comes across loud and clear even in this limited exchange. You need to do something to broaden your horizons. I suggest that if you are in high school that you concentrate on your studies sot hat your quality of life can improve. If not, seek some type of higher education, such as college or trade school. Self improvement will go a long way to attracting others to you and can be the best thing for your future endeavors. I wish you luck.
2007-07-31 08:29:06 · answer #4 · answered by sustasue 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well if someone is labeled a bad persone .. then i guess their is a reason to that :) dude i think you are a loser , you are only 17 years old with no freinds and girlfriend , WHAT DID YOU LEAVE FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE ? You are YONG! .Go out and find new friends.
2007-07-31 07:17:00 · answer #5 · answered by Nesrine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know you so can't consider you a 'loser'. if you want friends, make some. If you want a girlfriend, get out there and meet some girls. If you don't want to be labeled a bad person then see about changing whatever it is that has people calling you that.
Be the person you want to be.
2007-07-31 07:12:37 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your stuck in a well of self pitty and you need to get out of it and focus on why you are awesome. No one wants to hang out with people who are always down because they feel you might bring them down, or you negativity is driving them away. Try being positive and fun then people then will want to be around you all of the time. I am sure that you are not a loser.
2007-07-31 07:14:53 · answer #7 · answered by MY truth will set you free... 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are you labeled a bad person? Sounds to me like you need to take a closer look at where you're going and how you're getting there.
No, I don't think you are a loser.
2007-07-31 07:13:35 · answer #8 · answered by Blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are just looking upon your self as one so other people will do that too. if you are more out going and try and make some friends and maybe help some people out on hw at school or what ever than they might think better things about you, and you will think better of your self also.
good luck
2007-07-31 07:12:48 · answer #9 · answered by prez_1940s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not a loser...depending really on how you lost all your friends and what do you mean by being labeled "bad?"
Well anyway, whatever it is, you can change it. If you don't like something about yourself then change it.
2007-07-31 07:14:45 · answer #10 · answered by kim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are what you eat... do you eat losers?
seriously, you're not a loser. you're just going through a bad time right now. you just have to get yourself out there and meet new people.
2007-07-31 07:11:31 · answer #11 · answered by technicolor8706 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋