I have a friend who made me mad few days ago (she asked if I can drink beer / wine and I'm 15). I just delete her emails and I thought she will get the "hint' that i dont want to talk to her but she still email me lot and my other friends said "So sad, thats why I wont give her my email".
How do I handle with her when go back to the school? She just email me already. Is it possible that shes desperate for friends? She just rubbed in my face through email, saying "fine, you dont want to come my party, all my friends will have fun". Then few days, she said to come to her party and that there's will be no beer / wine, but my parents, aunt and friends dont believe her. My parents think shes too old to hang out with me, shes 20 and Im 15. She kept switching the sides about her party, from mad to nice, then back to angry, back forth, when i told her i wont go to her party. Help, please. Thanks
2007-07-31 08:44:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
hi...
i thinkn a lot of kids experiment with drinking and other things, and it's great you do not do this.
you can block this person's email, and you will no longer receive her messages.. go to your email's "Help" after you log in, to find out how to do this.
yes, i agree with your parents, a 20 year old girl needs to find friends her own age.
take care
2007-07-31 08:50:18 · answer #1 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe you should tell her "hey i don't appreciate you being mean to me and stuff. Will you please stop bothering me." and say it in a calm tone. Like don't get angry with her cause that'll just lead to more drama. And just tell her that if she wants to drink and party and stuff, that's just not your choice. And you don't want friends like that. I wouldn't trust her. I mean like, how long have you known her? If you either just met her or have been knowing her for about a year, I wouldn't risk going to a party with older people there. You never know what could happen. I'm 14 and I don't drink or do drugs or anything, and if i were you I would I'd just stay home. Cause if you did go to a party with 20 year olds...it might be bad. Especially if she has wild people there. I mean you're only 15 and you have a long life ahead of you. Don't waste you're time with those kinds of people, you'd be better off having a good time with people your age. I really hope everything turns out ok. Good luck!
2007-07-31 09:10:43 · answer #2 · answered by cchsdramachick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's great that she's your friend. But she should have friends her own age! There is a big difference in thought when a person is 15 and 20. She sounds very immature for her age and desperate for friendship. You don't need that stress at your age!!
Block her emails from your inbox (check the help function to see how) and don't communicate with her. She is obviously wanting to drink and you don't so don't bother with her! You have your own friends that are probably better suited to you, so hang with them and enjoy being young!!
Ignore her and good luck!!!!
2007-07-31 08:56:52 · answer #3 · answered by Elle3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, tell her you'd like to be her friend but you havre to be honest with her, tell her you don't like her e-mailing you so much, and if you have to cancel going to her party to understand do so, and tell her if she was a really friend she wouldn't care if you drank or not, it's up top you to kerep her friendship just be honest. Just make sure she's not your enemy, because holding grudges are bad, just be cool and tell her what's on your mind, because most likely if you don't tell her what's going on if you were to go to the party, she might start something, and you don't want to deal with that so set her straight. Good luck!
2007-07-31 08:57:01 · answer #4 · answered by raidergirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her that you too young to do the stuff that she does. Talk to her, if i were you i send her a email write now, just do it girl tell her that dont send you so much mails.
Tell her girl. is for the good of you.
2007-07-31 09:08:31 · answer #5 · answered by golondris_1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be blunt w/ the girl tell her how u feel, or she's gonns keep bothering u.
2007-07-31 08:50:19 · answer #6 · answered by Sunnie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hang out with kids your own age, and tell her to hang out with adults her own age.
2007-07-31 08:48:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋