I used to have a girl who I felt sorry for in high school. I was there for he when nobody else was. She thought our relationship was much more than it truely was. I am a good person and didn't have it in my heart to let her be so upset. She thought I loved her but it was never like that! Now i am married and this girl and my wife do not get along. I have tried to calmly tell this girl to leave us alone but she does not. She has kind of turned into a stalker. She does nothing but cause problems for my wifwe and I. She is kinda of crazy and does not listen to me when i ask her to leave me alone. What can I do to get it through to her that I love my wife and she needs to go away?? nothing i have tried has worked!! HELP
2007-07-31 08:42:10 · 5 answers · asked by nocrazygirlsallowed 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The previous answer is the harsher legal way to go..but ahead of doing that. Try inviting her over for a chat with you and your wife. Tell her exactly how you both feel ( that you can't stand the sight of her and she makes you ill to even think of her) and you plan on filing charges or filing a restraining order against her if she continues to harass and stalk you. Bring to the table information regarding these legal steps and how they would affect and embarrass her. But you only have two legal recouses if she doesn't stop..the law or moving away.
2007-07-31 09:00:15 · answer #1 · answered by luvngspnful 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had tons of problems with a stalker. File police reports. As many as you need to. I asked for a TPO (temp restraining order) but didn't get it. I did get a no-association order for 5 years and that didn't stop him. He went back to jail for parole violation because of it. don't take this lightly. Do something now--especially filing reports--and it'll eventually pay off. Be careful and good luck!!!
2007-07-31 08:48:57 · answer #2 · answered by dinny's engaged!! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her exactly what you just said ...i know what you mean i would feel bad for her to...tell her that you dont want anything to do with her now becuase you are married and she cant accept that ...tell your wife that to try to understand where your coming from adn ask her what she would do in taht situation...but if all else fails file a restraining order:]]
2007-07-31 08:54:35 · answer #3 · answered by dair 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her Shoo Fly! or Make like a tree and leaf!
2007-07-31 08:54:09 · answer #4 · answered by rjksmooth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put a restraining order on her.
2007-07-31 08:45:44 · answer #5 · answered by oxalisb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋